When will you let go?

That was a very romantic story about you and the guy you have left. I just hope that the guy will look deep in his heart that you are not available anymore, learn to forget his love for you, and find somebody else who could love him and care for him. It is really difficult for a true lover to forget the love he had for the girl. Only time can tell. And when that time comes, I hope that your friend will savor the love that is meant for him and him alone!

oh my is it a love story i guess than it is better,really i feel sorry for the guy,well i think he is not lucky after all,and what good is this that guy still looks to wanting you,maybe you should atleast advice him to get married soon,so that he is out of his misery,anyway your choice atleast he is still your friend i hope,he should not be giving up real;ly and try his luck somewhere,i dont think for him it is still late..

Although I am wondering as well how could you let this man fail you and I think he has loved you sincerely before. But then things do happen and this man never left where he was left alone at that time. I pity the man but he should move on with his life as you have done so. I just hope that you too would not be swayed by his loyalty to you and you remain with your family as well.

Love your story Jaizhi... I just that you guy friend should find another woman that can love him back, i think it is the right time for him to finally find someone who can take care for him and to be his lovely wife.. I think it is better to stop your friendship with him so that he can get over you=)

Sigh............... What a beautiful love story. Your story remind me of an actor, who still had not married up to this time, still have his heart for someone, unfortunately, like your story, the girl is married.

I am deeply amazed that such a man still exist. Normally, a man would have a girl one after the other. There must be something in you that he truly adores that he hasn't seen yet in anyone. Only prayers can make him heal his broken heart. Obviously, he still loves you. But he has to come to his senses that it is not anymore possible for the two of you together. Perhaps in another lifetime. I wish him well and you and your family as well.

Oh... That's so romantic. But we cannot deny reality. Well, it is up to him how long does he wants to love you. All you can do is to be a friend to him. Show him the care of a friend. Set some limitations between the two of you. Example is talking about your past. Help him to move on by forgetting the past and let him believe that time will come that he will love another woman. Just pray that one day he will open his heart to someone new.

I understand you may feel sorry or sad about him. But when it's about love, there is no one who is right nor who is wrong, there is no need to say sorry nor feel sad. No one is to be blamed.

Maybe you wish he can forgets the felling towards you, but just forget about it. You no need to do anything. Just let him be so.

---------------- Here lets me share my story

I fell in love long long time ago. She is nice, she always being nice with anyone. At the beginning everything was running just as what I want. But when I tried to express my feeling, she said to me I'm just her friend, nothing more.

I was very sad, the tears fall uncontrollable. I am sincere, but I'm rejected. I tried to forget her. I thought about 101 reasons why I should not love her anymore. I also hunted for new love. I was doing so hard. I found some 'good' girls, they even better than her. But not long after, I stopped. I realized I only tried to find a 'replacement' for her.

Now, I'm still single. I don't limit myself for new love. But I'm sure she is the only one I love. I don't want to lie to myself, pretend to forget her and accept the other.

She's gone. She will never answer my calls nor reply my mails. She's moved to other city nearby where I live. But I still send her birthday gifts and new year greetings.

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I can understand Ardie.

Although you aren't married with him, he is glad - I'm sure - at least he can know you're happy. The one in my heart never gives me any chance to contact her. But I found her facebook. Hooray! Although I can't join in her facebook, but I can see her photo with her happy smiles, I'm so glad knowing she is happy.

Although he is not your husband, but he still can does something for you. That's enough for him. I send her gifts and cards regularly, maybe she never opened and just threw it to rubbish bin. But I'm feeling great each time I'm doing something for her. Perhaps someday she really opens it.

I know there is nothing to hope about. You may suggest me to forget her. But just let what will happen happens. I don't force myself to forget her nor to accept new one.

Love doesn't always have happy ending.
Sincereness never ends.
No one is blamed.
Nothing needs to be forced.
--- That's the truth about love, don't you agree?

Have a nice day!