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Do you consider guys with condoms are CHEATER? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. incredibleDNA (1104)   ranked 144 out of 2,400 in had sex6 months ago

A have a good friend who is quite having problems with his guy. She can't stop thinking that her boyfriend's cheating. I spoke to her and said that she should stop this or else her guy might lose his interest with her. Well anyway, after hearing her story, I couldn't also help thinking that his guy is really cheating. And why did I judge that guy? it's because he shouldn't stock condoms if her girl is already in birth control pills! His guy is a frequent traveler, and after hearing my friends' story, I couldn't stop thinking too that his guy is a CHEATER!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. tjades (1414)   ranked 2,056 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. incredibleDNA (1104)   ranked 144 out of 2,400 in had sex  6 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. maple_kisses (1053)   ranked 507 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

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3. myLot reputation of 61/100. sonusd (1000)   ranked 60 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

I think there should not be lot of discussion if a guy is using condoms during intercourse this is not matter of cheating because if he wants to cheat he can easily cheat with out wearing condoms also just take the things lightly and think taht guy wants safety for both of them it is better to use a condom during intercourse and taking birth control pill means she dont want a baby right now so why the guy should not wear the condom


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myLot reputation of 97/100. incredibleDNA (1104)   ranked 144 out of 2,400 in had sex  6 months ago

Hi sonusd! I am now beginning to think that you really haven't read my post, you just read the subject line. My friend is currently in PILLS, so there isn't really no reason for his guy to use or to stock condoms on his stuffs. I hope you hear what I'm trying to point out in here. Thanks!


myLot reputation of 61/100. sonusd (1000)   ranked 60 out of 2,400 in had sex  6 months ago

Dear Incredible DNA
I have read your postings very well and suggest as per your postings I cant understand what is in your friends mind and don't she know using condom is better than taking pills and like your friend thinks about herself and taking pills but that guy may be thinking himself and do not want STD so he may be using.(there is chance of cheating) but as they have kept sexual relation they should have mutual understanding for it


myLot reputation of 97/100. incredibleDNA (1104)   ranked 144 out of 2,400 in had sex  6 months ago

Oh okay, you really haven't pointed that STD thing out on your previous post anyway, thanks for the clarification!thumbup


myLot reputation of 44/100. Crestview (230)   ranked 1,576 out of 2,400 in had sex  2 months ago

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. scarlet_woman (9090)   ranked 425 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

if he's carrying it around and he never uses them with her,yeah i'd say he probably is.unless the wrapper looks old and unused.then there's a chance he's had it in there for awhile.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3008)   ranked 2,055 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

He could be a cheater, but considering the times we are living on, condoms are really the smart thing to do for the man.
1) Is a prevention method that all men should use whatever he has multiple partners or not, and they do not cost a lot compared to other methods.
2) Just because your girlfriend says she is using birth control he should do his part too, I know of more than a couple of guys who had girlfriends on the pill but they have babies anyways.
So, yes, there is a chance he is a cheater, but at least he is doing the right and responsible thing.

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6. KamiHo (61)   ranked 2,057 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

you judge him wrong! Problaby i stock comdoms becaus ehe does what to get STD's. birth control pills are a way to evoid pregnancy and the condoms do that and more. He probably isn't cheating on her but he might!

 
7. myLot reputation of 89/100. nicholejade (1627)   ranked 606 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

If your friend and her boyfriend are not using condoms then yes I would be worried too. If they aren't there is no reason why he should have them. I would be telling your friend to talk to him about it. Mind you he probably will deny it etc. But she is going to have to figure out what she is going to do.

 
8. myLot reputation of 70/100. jonakyl (337)   ranked 2,058 out of 2,400 in had sex   6 months ago

Why not have her count the condoms. And a week or two later, or after he has returned from a vacation trip, count them again? If there are some missing and he didn't use them on you, then it's time to have a talk.


myLot reputation of 97/100. incredibleDNA (1104)   ranked 144 out of 2,400 in had sex  6 months ago

So it's just like you're teaching your guy to lie to you. I don't think that this is a good idea though.


myLot reputation of 70/100. jonakyl (337)   ranked 2,058 out of 2,400 in had sex  6 months ago

I guess my point is that maybe those are condoms from when she wasn't yet on the pill. If they are just leftovers that haven't been discarded, but aren't being used either then maybe she has nothing to worry about. You left a few details out from your initial post, like are they the same condoms that were used when she started on the pill. Seriously, if there were say half a dozen condoms there, and several weeks and business trips later those same condoms are still there. do you really think he's using them?

 
9. myLot reputation of 82/100. hornswaggled (1974)   6 months ago

Condoms are also used for a barrier of disease. Maybe he has something he doesn't want her to catch?

 
10. aharter (14)   6 months ago

I would suggest that she have a heart to heart talk with her guy. If he tells her that he is not using them on anyone else and she still believes that he may be cheating then count them every so often. Also, note the packaging. If the wrappers change or look newer than chances are that he is just restocking.

 
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