Do You Mind Apologizing?  |
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I usually don't. Normally because if I'm apologizing, that means I recognize I was wrong and my relationship with the person is more important than being stubborn. Even if I think I was right, I will eventually say I'm sorry I didn't say this better, or something. I hate hanging onto a fight.
I remember this one time when my best friend and I went to a teen club dancing. We both thought this guy was really cute, but he went for my friend instead of me. He had a eEatles haircut and an accent of some kind, lol, so he was exotic and therefore had to be desirable. I was so hurt and jealous that I'm afraid I took it out on my friend, silent treatment and all. The next day I felt like crap about myself, and called her and begged her forgiveness. She told me he was a sloppy kisser anyway and she was never going to see him again rofl.
Do you have any apology stories?
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | That is sweet, learn2earn.
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2. robert67 (1344) | 5 months ago | lol! so you didn't miss anything, sounds like she probably had a lousy evening.
if i've done or said something wrong and it's caused offence i will definately apologise. friends and family are the most important things in life and we should always apologise of we upset them.
however, if i am just standing by my beliefs and someone takes offence i will never apologise. apologising would make me a hypocrite and i'd rather stand by what i believe in than be a hypocrite. i will never apologise just to please someone but yes, if i'm wrong then i definately will.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | You should never have to apologize for your opinion. I can once in awhile come off as being rude with my opinion, personally, and then I will go back and apologize about how I expressed myself. There is usually a more matter of fact way than to make fun of somebody or whatever. But I can have a knee jerk reaction and then regret how I expressed myself.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | Thanks but it clashes with my hair.
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3. pbrockington (399) | 5 months ago | I hate apologizing! i try to say what i mean when i say it. sorry i can even think straight i just finished fighting.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | I know, I haven't laffed this much since I read "Up the Down Staircase."
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | Sometimes I forget how old I am! Yes, it's a book. Bel Kaufman was the author. If you were born in '67, then I think it came out about the same year that you did. It's about the trials and tribulations of a new young teacher in New York. There's sad along with funny. There was also a movie, but it was nowhere NEAR as good as the book. I highly recommend it, it's a gem.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | I think you are actually making out on the couch.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | Long couches are no slouches.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | Online it's much harder of course, than in person, so I think a lot longer these days before I start typing. I feel more comfortable trying to work it out than just walking away. A lot of people don't care if they might have hurt some stranger online, but words can leave deep impact on sensitive souls.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | I notice that when people have English as a second language they can quite often come off as abrupt. I can't imagine how hard it must be to get subtleties in another language. It would also be a really cool excuse haha
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6. meyows (429) | 5 months ago | If I identify that I've done anything wrong to anyone then I'll ask my apologies to them, or even I'll get punishments also if they do.
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7. shankarbaddi (472) | 5 months ago | Yeah i apologized to my friend once because i took his bike and went off it was the time where he urgently needed it. Later he called and started shouting at me and started telling this that and all other things. Later he said the dam bike with you only i don't need it now that time i felt bad and went to his house to returned his bike that time i asked apology from him and he agreed to it.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | Sounds like a good friend.
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8. WilliamC87 (144) | 5 months ago | i dont mind appoligizing as long as the person...as long as i was really in the wrong with what i done....sometimes if its a good freind if i didnt do anything wrong...and they did but i wasnt that bad...i dont mind appoligizing then either...i am a neutral guy and for the most part jus aviod conflict...i dont like being burdened with the stress that comes along with not getting along with freinds
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | I don't either, and usually my disagreements with friends are not that big.
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9. EsmeraldaB (186) | 5 months ago | Apologizing does not mean your sorry it just means you where caught doing some thing bad.
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LincecumFan (123) | 5 months ago | Some of us apologize when we are sorry and don't have to be "caught." People can be genuine, you know.
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EsmeraldaB (186) | 5 months ago | No,that is a sorry.Some thing you turely didnt mean to do. Apologizing needs no sorry what so ever.
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10. colydf (641) | 5 months ago | I do not mind apologizing at all. I love to solve problems in a rather peaceful way instead of argument or quarrels or fighting with each other. Sometimes what we lack is just some communication, some understanding, and trying to think for others, and a kind of lenient heart.
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