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myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people5 months ago

I usually don't. Normally because if I'm apologizing, that means I recognize I was wrong and my relationship with the person is more important than being stubborn. Even if I think I was right, I will eventually say I'm sorry I didn't say this better, or something. I hate hanging onto a fight.

I remember this one time when my best friend and I went to a teen club dancing. We both thought this guy was really cute, but he went for my friend instead of me. He had a eEatles haircut and an accent of some kind, lol, so he was exotic and therefore had to be desirable. I was so hurt and jealous that I'm afraid I took it out on my friend, silent treatment and all. The next day I felt like crap about myself, and called her and begged her forgiveness. She told me he was a sloppy kisser anyway and she was never going to see him again rofl.

Do you have any apology stories?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. learn2earn (10552)   ranked 594 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

It is best to have a humble heart and apologize or ask forgiveness all the time. As you said, relationship to others matter, especially our relationship with God. I admire people who have the character to say those simple but powerful words, "I'm sorry, please forgive me." Everyday in my life since I have trusted Jesus in my heart, I apologize to God for all the sins I have committed. happy


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

That is sweet, learn2earn.

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 2,230 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

lol! so you didn't miss anything, sounds like she probably had a lousy evening.

if i've done or said something wrong and it's caused offence i will definately apologise. friends and family are the most important things in life and we should always apologise of we upset them.

however, if i am just standing by my beliefs and someone takes offence i will never apologise. apologising would make me a hypocrite and i'd rather stand by what i believe in than be a hypocrite. i will never apologise just to please someone but yes, if i'm wrong then i definately will.


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 2,230 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

i made a typing mistake. i meant to type "we should always apologise if we upset them" sorry. oops, there i go, i just apologised lol


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

You should never have to apologize for your opinion. I can once in awhile come off as being rude with my opinion, personally, and then I will go back and apologize about how I expressed myself. There is usually a more matter of fact way than to make fun of somebody or whatever. But I can have a knee jerk reaction and then regret how I expressed myself.


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 2,230 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

a person responded to my moron discussion in a rude way just because he didn't agree, if i'd done something similar i would have definately apologised for the mannner in which i said what i said. i never criticise opinion or beliefs and i definately apologise if someone feels that i've disagreed in a rude way.

manners don't cost a penny and they go a long way happy

congrats for reaching your magic number of posts thumbup


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Thanks but it clashes with my hair.


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 2,230 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

mine was red yesterday but because i was naughty it turned blue, now it's yellow ...i mean my star, not my hair lol

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. pbrockington (399)   ranked 16,547 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

I hate apologizing! i try to say what i mean when i say it. sorry i can even think straight i just finished fighting.


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

LOL -- okay.


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 2,230 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

sorry but i have to nominate this as the best response i've ever read lol


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

I know, I haven't laffed this much since I read "Up the Down Staircase."


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 2,230 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

i liked it so much that i posted the link to a friend.

is that a book? i'm sure i've heard of the title before, sounds like it's worth taking a look happy


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Sometimes I forget how old I am! Yes, it's a book. Bel Kaufman was the author. If you were born in '67, then I think it came out about the same year that you did. It's about the trials and tribulations of a new young teacher in New York. There's sad along with funny. There was also a movie, but it was nowhere NEAR as good as the book. I highly recommend it, it's a gem.

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2789)   ranked 1,391 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

I will always apologise if I have done or said something wrong.I only ever make genuine apologies and will never apologise for the sake of it or just because it will get me out of trouble.
I was in court once for doing some damage to a car and it looked as if I was going to be let off lightly...until I was asked if I was sorry for what I had done.
I am a bit strange in certain ways and this case is a good example as I said I was not sorry for what I had done but was sorry for getting caught...I got a heavy finesad
I may feel in the right over an issue and apologise for certain comments I have written or said in a discussion but not apologise for my actual opinion.

It is quite important to me to be honest with what I say and to be seen as a genuine person.


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11946)   ranked 1,237 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

I confirm what Mike has said.

We had a beautiful 'tiff' which I knew would end well and it did and he publicly apologised thumbup After that we even put our heads together and 'researched' for a while on the same thing together wink


myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2789)   ranked 1,391 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Nice comment...thankshappy


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11946)   ranked 1,237 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

I'm never sure if our saga was seen by other users Mike but if it was then I'm sure they would agree that how it ended was admirable thumbup


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

I think you are actually making out on the couch.


myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2789)   ranked 1,391 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Slight difference in location (Italy and UK) w00t


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Long lips deserve tips.


myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2789)   ranked 1,391 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

w00t


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Long couches are no slouches.

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5. myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11946)   ranked 1,237 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

If I am wrong about something then I will definately apologise. It has happened and all was well but I do tend to ponder a lot before I get into that situation.

I seem to receive a lot of apologies because I come across wrongly sometimes doh As that happens quite often I can usually 'feel' when I am being misunderstood and will stick it out until everything is sorted out with the person concerned.


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Online it's much harder of course, than in person, so I think a lot longer these days before I start typing. I feel more comfortable trying to work it out than just walking away. A lot of people don't care if they might have hurt some stranger online, but words can leave deep impact on sensitive souls.


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11946)   ranked 1,237 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

That is so true and especially when a user does not have English as their first language. I bear that in mind too (having moved to Italy years ago and not knowing a word of Italian at the time I can remember what it felt like). Using one word instead of another in a post on here can have terrific consequences if it is misunderstood sad


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

I notice that when people have English as a second language they can quite often come off as abrupt. I can't imagine how hard it must be to get subtleties in another language. It would also be a really cool excuse haha


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 2,230 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

lol! another funny response. this discussion is a funny response magnet lol

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6. myLot reputation of 60/100. meyows (429)   ranked 9,191 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

If I identify that I've done anything wrong to anyone then I'll ask my apologies to them, or even I'll get punishments also if they do.


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

That sounds equitable.

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7. myLot reputation of 77/100. shankarbaddi (472)   ranked 30,792 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

Yeah i apologized to my friend once because i took his bike and went off it was the time where he urgently needed it. Later he called and started shouting at me and started telling this that and all other things. Later he said the dam bike with you only i don't need it now that time i felt bad and went to his house to returned his bike that time i asked apology from him and he agreed to it.


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Sounds like a good friend.


myLot reputation of 77/100. shankarbaddi (472)   ranked 30,792 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Yes we are true friends

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8. myLot reputation of 85/100. WilliamC87 (144)   ranked 11,420 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

i dont mind appoligizing as long as the person...as long as i was really in the wrong with what i done....sometimes if its a good freind if i didnt do anything wrong...and they did but i wasnt that bad...i dont mind appoligizing then either...i am a neutral guy and for the most part jus aviod conflict...i dont like being burdened with the stress that comes along with not getting along with freinds


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

I don't either, and usually my disagreements with friends are not that big.

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9. myLot reputation of 86/100. EsmeraldaB (186)   ranked 8,127 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

Apologizing does not mean your sorry it just means you where caught doing some thing bad.


myLot reputation of 60/100. LincecumFan (123)   ranked 2,605 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

Some of us apologize when we are sorry and don't have to be "caught." People can be genuine, you know.


myLot reputation of 86/100. EsmeraldaB (186)   ranked 8,127 out of 35,189 in people  5 months ago

No,that is a sorry.Some thing you turely didnt mean to do.
Apologizing needs no sorry what so ever.

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10. myLot reputation of 85/100. colydf (641)   ranked 2,136 out of 35,189 in people   5 months ago

I do not mind apologizing at all. I love to solve problems in a rather peaceful way instead of argument or quarrels or fighting with each other. Sometimes what we lack is just some communication, some understanding, and trying to think for others, and a kind of lenient heart.

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