If you can choose, would you like to be a man or a woman and why?

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Hi there thhoon!Ü

I am happy being a woman. I get to express myself very well. I also love being loved by my man all the courting, giving gifts stuff. What i love in being a woman is because i am able to conceive my baby. Being a woman has lots of advantages! check this out:

* The flip side of a woman's being less likely to have a spouse devoted full-time to supporting her career is that she is more likely to have a spouse who earns money. A female engineer told me how her husband's income allowed her to quit a job she hated and spend three months looking for one that she loved.

* Although males outperform females in mathematical ability, females outperform males in verbal ability. In the academic world of ``publish or perish,'' being able to write clearly and properly is a large plus.* If people are more likely to help members of the same gender, and if women are currently raised to be more sensitive than men, women will get tremendous support from their same-gender peers. (I have found my female colleagues extremely supportive.)

* It is not entirely disadvantageous that girls tend to be taught how to cook and keep house instead of how to fix bicycles. Being able to cook for oneself at college is healthier and cheaper than having to rely on cafeterias or junk food.

* While all women are to some extent penalized out of the suspicion that they will take time off their career to have children, they have more freedom to do so than men. A woman's career can be salvaged if she takes time off to spend with her young children, but a man would be considered insanely irresponsible.

* Ingenuity can transform other disadvantages into advantages, as explained in Betty Lehan Harragan's wonderful Games Mother Never Taught You. For example, she points out that, while women hate being constantly in the spotlight, men ``fantasize about how well they could exploit such a favorable situation.... Today's pioneer women can begin taking command of situations by merely accepting their unique position in the spotlight'' [Harragan 1987, page 311,].


Most important, with a positive attitude, women can make the most of their situation. The successful female computer scientists I know do not say, ``I could have gone further if I were a man.'' They say, ``I had to work a lot harder than a man to get where I am.'' Although the two statements may be equivalent, self-assuredness is psychologically more useful than self-pity. Additionally, even women who have been discouraged sometimes succeed out of spite.

i'd choose what i am now. i never want to take the spotlight but i'm driven in anything i do. we all know that no matter how hard a woman tries in this world, especially in the corporate world, she's most of the time play second only to men. however, i have deep respect and admiration for women who made it in their chosen fields and who also manage to take care of a family. no amount of striving on the part of a man can ever take the place of a woman in a family.

Its not easy to decide,, as u mentioned,, there a advantages on both sides,, that's why God has a duty, to decide,, and I am happy with what I am,,

Be happy with what God has made you. You are a woman and God has chosen you to be the mother, a highest place in a human beings life. Father may or may not love his child, but a mother will give her life for her child.
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