I choose to be single, what about you?  | |  I am 23 years old, male and in honesty I'm not ugly but not overly attractive. What you may call an average looking person. I decided about a year and a half ago to not have a boy/girlfriend (Yes i swing both ways). I genuinely feel that i get everything i need in life (apart from sex) from my friends. The main reason i don't want a partner is that i have a real commitment issue. I am terrified of hurting my boy/girlfriend by not being there or not being able to do the things they need. So i have chosen not to bother and so far it is suiting me very well.
How about you?
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| | | | | | 1.  clorissa123 (3570) | 5 months ago |  Honestly here, I don't want to be single anymore. I am ready to commit to a relationship, and will do my best to make my relationship work. I might be loyal, until she will be the one for me. I am still searching out there, and I want to do my best here.
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| Jergle (19) | 5 months ago | Hi there clorissa123.
I do understand how you feel. when i was a little younger than i am now i yearned to be loved. the love of one person wasn't enough for me and i cheated on probably the only girl that has truly loved me. I lost her obviously and I've been in relationships since then and as i stated above I'm choosing to be single right now.
My advice would be for you to try and appreciate the things that you have in your life. Like friends, family, a home, a pet even things like books and the local park. Your perfect partner is out there somewhere. Don't be in such a rush for it. This is only my advise, i'm not trying to tell you what to do, just trying to help. Hope it does | |
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| | | 2. texasheartland (1194) | 5 months ago |  In a way, I choose to be single because I've been hurt by so many guys. However, it would be nice to have a guy in my life. It's been a year and a half and I believe I am ready go get back out there again. The problem is, I know I'd be a great girlfriend, but I worry so much about "What if he breaks my heart again? What if he wants more than I am willing to give?" So, drawing the line somewhere in the middle is hard to do. It takes time, but eventually it will get there.
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| Jergle (19) | 5 months ago | Hi texasheartland,
I'm definitely hearing you there. it seems like you and i are similar in thought but on the opposite ends of the experience side of it all. I fully understand how you feel about "What if he/she wants more than I'm willing to give". I personally am worried about breaking someone's heart (again):(
As you said i also feel i would make a good boyfriend as i know I'm kind, considerate and understanding but i just don't feel ready to be in a position where someone's entire mental state could be blown apart by me. I really hope you succeed in finding your "One" as i do for anyone out there. I think I'll keep waiting for now tho... | |
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| | | 3. dumblnddzzy (10255) | 5 months ago |  Hi Jergle, a little about my self.... 3 yrs ago I left a 25 year marraige, it was very,very abusive. I ended up in the hospital more times than I care to remember. I still wentback to this 'man'. Why did I finally leave/? Because he last time he beat me, the cop started crying [it was a male cop!!} he told me "Lori, the next time I come out here, it will be to identify your body or your mama, is that whatyou want"?? He scared me so bad I left. I swore NEVER to be in another relationhip ever again. I was 50 at the time. Well 10 months ago I met a man, Rex, & we became friends,neither one of us was even wanting a relationship a all.Fast forward to the present, and Iam engaged to be married to the MOSTwonderful man I have ever met... he is 13 yrs younger than me, whoo hoo!!} he is kind, loving, sweet, everything my ex was NOT! So you see, it IS possible to find hat special someone & you'll change your mind fast like I did....thanks for listening..Lori
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| Jergle (19) | 5 months ago | Hi Lori,
Thank you for sharing i value you're input. It must have been really hard for you to stay with that man for as long as you did. Personally because i don't understand violence and thus fear it. So I usually distance myself from anyone who shows the slightest form of aggression toward me. I am glad to hear that you have now found love again and i genuinely hope it works out for you. It is a little different for me right now though, Please don think that i am not looking for love because i feel it isn't there. There have been a few possible flames in my life recently and I've cut them short because it interferes with my own game plan. Please understand i am speaking metaphorically about my game plan (I am a very sporadic person who fears plans and commitment). I do realize that there may come a time when a girl/guy enters my life and i will more or less be unable to stop anything happening, That will be if it is "meant to happen". Until then i am more than happy to not be in a committed position. I'm Still Very Happy=] | |
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| dumblnddzzy (10255) | 5 months ago | As long as you are happy that's all that matter's I think. stay true to yourself & everything will fall into place....Lori | |
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| | | 4. friendship4lyfe (270) | 5 months ago |  Well i see where are going with that and i agree but unfortunately i am in a relationship and would take time off if things dont work out.I am trying to be the best that i can but i really dont think we are compartable.Some people just dont change no matter how much you try.Single life for me usually sucked so i wanted to be in a relationship not realizing that being single is best.
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