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Are you comfortable saying "I am sorry"?? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people5 months ago

Well I have observed that lot of people have this problem of accepting their mistake and saying sorry.And once they say that its not their fault they will stick to it no matter what happens.But it is different with me.I am a bit of stubborn in the beginning but I have no problem in saying sorry.If you make me realize that it is my fault then I immediately accept my fault and apologize.Also if by my saying sorry things can get better then also I say sorry readily..
So what kind of person are you?Do you know anyone who is so stubborn that he/she never accepts his fault and never say sorry or even thank you for that matter..


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1. myLot reputation of 80/100. pranavpillai93 (215)   ranked 11,924 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

It depends on the kind of person to whom you are saying so. I am shy saying sorry to those who are elder than me, but I can readily apologize to my friends and juniors!


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

HHmmm.That is a bit weird.Dont take me wrong but generally people shy to say sorry who are junior to you and have no problem apologizing to the elders.However different people have different personality and different opinions.I appreciate your views and thanks for your response..

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. doryvien (904)   ranked 4,795 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

I do say sorry whenever I need to say it. Not that I'm comfortable, but more because I know I'll only do it after utmost consideration and assessment of the situation. But when I say sorry it's always from the bottom of my heart.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

Yeah that is a very important point you mentioned.Once you say sorry you really have to mean it or else it will have no significance.Anyways thanks for your response doryvein..

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3. myLot reputation of 52/100. skyhss (424)   ranked 22,771 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

i have no problem saying i'm sorry if i have done something wrong or hurt someones feelings. i've apologized to a couple people this week and it has made me feel better:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

Hi skyhss or cannete if that is your name in your real name as well.Well it is nice to see you this way,It always feels nice when you apologizes and say sorry. Isn't it??And by the way I responded to your discussion earlier right?I wasn't aware that it was you then.Anyways thanks for your response.Looking forward for more interaction from your part.


myLot reputation of 52/100. skyhss (424)   ranked 22,771 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

you can just call me Sky. thanks shames.

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. chrissa808 (153)   ranked 7,736 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

I do not find any difficulty saying and accepting sorry. Whenever I could sense that I have hurt a person, in one way or another, I readily ask sorry wholeheartedly. I think, to avoid troubles and issues to become hotter, we just need to be humble always. We have nothing to lose when we ask sorry. In the same way, we should also accept and acknowledge when other people ask sorry from us and give the person the chance to correct his/her mistake. Let us not hold grudges and should be forgiving. We all have human inclinations. Committing mistakes is part of being a human.

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myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

Hi chrissa.There were two points that you mentioned that I actually loved the.First by saying sorry we dont become small or less important.And second thing forgiving is as important as saying sorry.Anyways thanks for your response..

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. zearah (1130)   ranked 2,466 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

happy I never hesitate to say sorry when I know that I am guilty. Whoever the person would be, to say my apology would let me feel okay. But If I am correct I will not say sorry but I would be humble to hear for the person to talk with me. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

That is nice to hear.At least one person should be willing to say sorry and humble i=enough to feel guilty and admit their mistake by saying sorry or the fight will go on for ever.Like the misunderstandings between India and pakistan and other long time rivalries.Anyways thanks for your response zearah..

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. voldrox (1407)   ranked 172 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

nice discussion!

i believe most of us have the problem of saying sorry, even i do have, i have been in situations were i have done something bad by mistake and i really feel the need to apologize but then i have a lot of hesitation doing that... it is just so difficult, but i do it, and we need to do it and forgiveness is also a great virtue one must learn... thumbup


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

Hi voldrox.I still remember the last time that you were very rude and in the end you did apologize for it.It was nice of you.And yes you are right.Apart from saying sorry forgiving others is even a bigger task.Anyways thanks for your response voldi..

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. andresimp (336)   ranked 5,890 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

i can ask sorry, if i know i did something wrong and relized my mistake. i simple cant apologize just to solve the problem


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

oh finally found someone who has a different opinion.That is what I was wondering how everyone is this way whereas it is very rare to find such people in real life.Well I cant argue on this because it depends on person to person upon their opinion.Anyways thanks for your response and have a nice day...`

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3186)   ranked 1,149 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

I try to make it a practice to never do anything for which I will have to apologize later. I have to be genuinely sorry about something to say the words and I usually say specifically what it is I am sorry about, i.e. "I am sorry you feel that way..."


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

Hmmm.Thats nice canelita.Even I try my best not to hurt anyone but sometimes things are not under your control and you end up hurting someone unintentionally. Anyways thanks for your response.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3186)   ranked 1,149 out of 35,133 in people  5 months ago

Well, I think if you think before you speak or act you are less likely to do something hurtful unintentionally. Of course, the situation also depends on the other person and how easily they get their feelings hurt.

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. mjmlagat (1980)   ranked 870 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

hello there! i am so comfortable saying sorry if ever i commit mistakes, well not that i tend to repeat mistakes because i can readily say sorry but it's just, i find it a humbling experience to admit my mistakes and ask forgiveness for it. it's also my way of healing my pains from such mistakes.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  4 months ago

Hi mjmlagat.You are right.When we commit some mistake and then apologize for them from heart it increases our reputation in their hearts even more than before.It also kind of works as trick if you are trying to impress someone.Anyways thanks for your response,,

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (8834)   ranked 684 out of 35,133 in people   5 months ago

Hi there!
If I have committed a mistake and it comes to my notice, I would immediately say sorry, irrespective of the person in front of me. I think asking for an apology does not belittle my character/personality. Even if I need to express 'sorry' for my mistake in front of my kids, I would not feel shy doing it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1316)   ranked 125 out of 35,133 in people  4 months ago

Hi dpk.I hope everyone thought the way you did then this world would have been a lot better place to live in.You are right we should not be ashamed of saying sorry to people younger than us if it was our mistake.Anyways thanks for your response..


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (8834)   ranked 684 out of 35,133 in people  4 months ago

Thanks for your kind words.

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