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Twiddles (25)6 months ago

Today is my cousin's birthday. She died 2 years ago. We were very close and today has been just a sad reminder of missing her. She passed away at the age of 27. Her leaving was like a sister leaving me.

I just wanted to share my day, a crying day. Thanks

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. sysdexlicwriter (1139)   6 months ago

She was so young. I am very sorry. Your tears are a testament that she was truly loved and is missed. Grieving is so hard. Do you have a way to memorialize her like writing down good times or making a book of pictures. Sometimes I get my book of pictures out of our son that I lost at his birth. It is my private time and even though we did not share a lot of time, he stays in my heart always.


Twiddles (25)  6 months ago

I am sorry for your loss too. Thank you for your response. My whole family tries to keep her memory alive for her two little ones that she left behind. We have a memory book and always have her picture in everything we do.


Thanks again,

Twiddles

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. maggiesunjuan (113)   6 months ago

Hi twiddles, sorry for your loss of your cousin. She's so young, your words just reminded my loss of my father's mother, my grandmother. She left me in 2007 May 14th. I will never forget that day, the 2nd day after Mother's Day, she fell off a lader and passed away 2 hours later. I will never forget her, my dear dear grandmother, every time I went to see her, she would send me to the gate and see me off till she could see me any more. I always remember her little little body and crook-like back. I love her.
Please don't be too sad, my consolations to your cousin, wish her be happy in the heaven.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. simonelee (738)   6 months ago

Sorry for what happened to your cousin. Shes too young to die. Would you mind if i ask what causes her death? I can feel your pain. This is one of the hardest trial could happened in man's life, loosing someone you love... I bet you and your cousin are really good buddies, and lots of good memories to cherish.


Twiddles (25)  6 months ago

Thank you. I don't mind you asking. It was actually something kinda freakish. Nothing from cancer or anything, but broke her leg and a bone fragment traveled in her blood stream. Pierced her heart and caused her to have a heart attack. I never heard of anything like that before! It was something real sudden. One minute she was here and the next she was gone.


myLot reputation of 98/100. simonelee (738)  6 months ago

I never heard nor encounter that kind of case. That was a sudden and unexpected death. How did you know that caused her death? Did you asked for an post-mortem examination? We really can't tell...life is so short.(sigh)

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. astonysh (1959)   6 months ago

My condolences.

My wife's younger brother also died at the age of 27, in tragic circumstances. It seems a terrible waste to get that far and then lose everything.

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