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Do you use the word 'baby'? if no, then what do you use? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships4 months ago

When i was younger, i used to think calling our partner 'baby' was very cute and sweet. but now that everyone is using that it sounds cliche, everyone is using it. its not that special anymore, and some people use the word 'baby' even when addressing complete strangers or friends. so what endearing would you use to call a partner? something unique?

I read somewhere that guys who call a girl with endearings more than using her name is a way of him saying i'm not interested in a long-term relationship. endearing here i mean for those couples who are already in a long-term relationship.

So what do you call your partner? What does your partner call you? and sweet and unique endearings?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. zoey7879 (1254)   ranked 1,716 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

It's very common for older women and older folk in general to call younger people "baby" - I've noticed it particularly with those who are born/raised in the southern United States. When I was in my teens, I HATED people calling me that... but now that no one's called me that in a while.. I rather miss it. My boyfriend gets called by his name, I however always get called by nickname (the one that most people think is my real name) or by the acronym.. PITA:P


myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

yeah.. i noticed that too. parents calling their kids 'baby'. but you don't have any secret names for your boyfriend? haha. like my rawbit. hahaha.


myLot reputation of 93/100. zoey7879 (1254)   ranked 1,716 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

I wasn't talking about parents calling their kids baby. I meant the older generations in general, saying to that anyone that's about 15-20 years younger than themselves, regardless of their relationship to that person.

And nope, no nicknames like that.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. ketybhagat (1798)   ranked 80 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

Yes, as we grow older, we call youngsters baby, just our way of using endearment.
My husband, after 21 years of marriage calls me sweetheart occassionally. Otherwise its just my name, only its kety and he calls me ketu. If at all I call him baby, he does not like it at all. So Ive given it up. Its just plain names for us these days, not that our love is over. Cheers.


myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

awww... that is cute. your husband calling you sweetheart. haha. ketu??? wow.. that's unique. thanks for sharing.:)

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3. jenzee1982 (40)   ranked 21,729 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

My boyfriend calls me Babe, way more than he uses my name. He only calls me by my name if we're having a serious discussion. I call my son baby because he IS a baby - "What's the matter, baby?" or I tell him to stop being a baby when he cries.:) I usually call my boyfriend Babe, too, but sometimes I go with Hun instead. I call everybody Hun, or Hunny if I'm speaking to a girl. I'm one of those random strangers that uses nicknames with everyone!


myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

oo.. that's sweet. hints of your a friendly person to a stranger when you use nicknames like that. thanks for sharing.:)

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4. Winston111 (18)   ranked 21,740 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

I find this kinda werid but on my baseball team one of the coaches has a habit of calling me Baby when im up to bat.I usally dont call my GF baby or babe.She hates it and so do i


myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

hahaha. really? if the coach is a guy that can be awkward.

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. advokatku (701)   ranked 5,609 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

I more like call my partner with a nick name. For me, call a partner with word "baby', "honey" like as kids:-D

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (8931)   ranked 208 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

I usually call my husband "honey" and he usually calls me "hon"...unless we're at our business. Then we call each other by our names.

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7. myLot reputation of 81/100. rosyevening (263)   ranked 10,516 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

yes i do use the word " BABY "WHENEVER I SPEAK TO MY BOY FRIEND, as i love to call him baby because the word suits him as he is so sweet and cute as if like a baby and i love that thing ..


myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

aww.. haha. that's cute. thanks for sharing.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. fruitcakeliz (846)   ranked 5,127 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

Fot the longest time, i really hated being called babe or baby by someone who i was in a relationship with, or really, by anyone at all. I felt it was almost a derogatory term, like the person who was calling me that was insinuating that i was young, or immature, or naieve. If anyone i was with would call me that i would politely ask them not to, as i did not like it.

Now i don't mind so much, my current boyfriend calls me babe or baby all the time and i guess i have gotten used to it, though at first, i really wasn't that impressed. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that before, when it did really bother me, i was concerned with coming off as more adult like and having people take me seriously. Now that i am older, i don't feel the need to "prove" to the world that i am an adult, as i know i am one.

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9. myLot reputation of 91/100. sritrinity (200)   ranked 5,512 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

Well I grew up in Cockney London, and the word babes is used by almost everyone there, regardless of age. Even people younger than me would use it on me! Soooo funny, just another one of those bizarre Cockney ways. It's really used as an expression of affection by people there, and in a kind of family spirited way, like we are all eachothers babies, all going through the same problems of life and we all look out for eachother and the least we can do is pass on some affection to eachother to cushion the harsh realities of life, was really quite sweet actually.

However, if someone uses it in a condescending way, then it's a different matter!

Not living in the East End of London anymore, I don't really use it much now, but sometimes if I'm abit close to the person it just slips out. My husband from 13 years is not from London, but a more posh part of the U.K. and at first he resented it alittle, but now doesn't mind at all, as it's the spirit it's said in, rather than the word itself.

You know words are just hollow, it really depends on the intention and vibe behind them when said. Like for example my husband calls me some of the most ridiculous names, that in no way, would I accept them from anybody else, but he says them with such love and humour, that it just makes me laugh and tickles me pink, and almost everyday he's got a new nickname for me, the list is endless,priceless and ridiculously funny. See, he sometimes goes into his inner child mode and then his imagination gets very innocently creative and so stupid that it's mind blowingly funny and cute......although they are just soooooo ridiculous, I can't help soak them up as they are said with such genuine love and affection.

They range from 'Mighty Mouse, rockweiler, Hedge-alina, Baby, tinkerbell, and also names that have absolutely no relevance to me or him such as.... Dorothy, Humphrey, Daphney....!!!!I have no idea why he chooses them, neither does he!

Being called Humphrey (seeing that I am female) is just mind blowing and it just doubles me over.......it's the way he says it.....arms fully stretched, eyes glistening.......just like a 4 year old, and one just can't take offence. He's being ridiculous on purpose, just to make me giggle and free flowing.

My names for him range from, babes, old man, crock, Shamus, Leprechaun (he's of Irish decent)sweetpie and Orvil!

Sharing this with all of you.....has really made me laugh, hope it makes you giggle too


myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

lol. it has indeed. all i can say is you have a wonderful relationship. the sort that we read in books, where each day is not ordinary. And Mighty Mouse? really? hahaha. that IS funny. thanks you so much for sharing, really.


myLot reputation of 91/100. sritrinity (200)   ranked 5,512 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

Hey thank you so much! Yes we've been lucky, best of luck to you all. Take care

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. astonysh (1824)   ranked 462 out of 23,121 in relationships   4 months ago

Normally to my wife "my love", or "sweet love" if I am in one of my more affectionate moods.

My wife (being 20-odd years younger than me, and seeing the father figure in me that she possibly needed when she got married) nearly always uses "Pa" when she talks to me.


myLot reputation of 93/100. dex1007 (306)   ranked 3,832 out of 23,121 in relationships  4 months ago

really? 'pa'? wow.. that's news to me. Although in Southern asia, the ladies call their husbands 'abang' which means brother. this is so weird to me, brother are brothers, why call your husband brother. that's wrong. thanks for sharing.

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