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Having a baby, does it make adjustment for couples difficult? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 93/100. beaushell (205)   ranked 186 out of 1,900 in have kids5 months ago

I enjoy marriage life, I enjoy having my husband. Although we as couples did a lot of adjustments too, I think what we went through is just manageable. Yet, I can't help to think... will it be harder if the baby comes? What is the effect of the new baby to the husband and wife relationship? Did it make the bond and love stronger or did it create greater conflicts and confusion? How about the time for each other, especially those who cannot afford to get a nanny or household help? How if both of you are working like me and my husband...I really want to know, hope you can share your experience.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. MissAmie (579)   ranked 1,439 out of 1,900 in have kids   5 months ago

Having children strengthened the bond between my husband and I. We suddenly realized that there is so much more to life than what you want. And the best advice I've ever heard for couples waiting until they can afford the baby: "If you wait until you can afford them, you'll never have them!"

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. polo_princess (594)   ranked 21 out of 1,900 in have kids   5 months ago

I think initially when a child is a newborn it can put a lot of strain on your relationship and will test it to its limits, your both tired and havent had a lot of sleep and you are adjusting to a new life. Once youve made it through the hard part its plain sailing from there on for the most part. So many people have childten because they think it will bring them together but 99% of the times thats really not the case.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. joezon50 (253)   ranked 1,442 out of 1,900 in have kids   5 months ago

Having a baby is not a big deal anyway,.
Even these poor newly wed they plan to have
a baby just to complete their family life as
well.How do couples think that if they really
like to have baby,i dont think so.Because i
came to a family that they know how to raise
children during their difficulties,.
And they proud of being parenthood.


myLot reputation of 99/100. polo_princess (594)   ranked 21 out of 1,900 in have kids  5 months ago

How do you mean having a baby is not a big deal? That its not important or that people just have a baby without thinking about it properly? Or netiher?:)

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (10614)   ranked 1 out of 1,900 in have kids   5 months ago

Being a couple means going out without worries like having enough nappies and formula milk to last the outing. In the early days a baby wakes every three hours or so for feeding day and night. The couple might not have as much time for each other. They might feel happy with their baby but tired. As the baby gets older he or she becomes a toddler and that is a demanding time. A couple might disagree how the baby or child is treated. There are four ways of parenting and if they are not the same disagreements might occur. Being a parent means adjustment for both mum and dad.

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