what do you admire most to a lady  

What I admire most in ladies, single ladies as well as married ladies is Godliness. More than physical beauty, the inner beauty is the best trait that we need to consider. Physical beauty is only skin-deep and what matters most is the character of a person. A physically beautiful person who is a worldly kind of lady is not to be matched with a godly lady.

I am a young lady and what I admire most in other ladies is their
independence and confidence. I admire ladies who have their own backbones
and who can take care, decide and stand on their own feet. I also admire
ladies who have brains more than being physically beautiful. ;)

I admire the way a lady presents himself in this male dominated world.