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myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074) 3 years ago

No matter what our kids and the new generation think about us, WE ARE AWESOME!!
OUR LIFE IS LIVING PROOF!To those of us born between 1930 and 1979……
First,
We survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant.
They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can and didn’t get tested for diabetes.
Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-based paints.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, locks on doors, or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had baseball caps not helmets on our heads.
As infants and children we would ride in cars with no car seats, no booster seats, no seat belts, no air bags, bald tires and sometimes no brakes.
Riding in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always a special treat.
We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle.
We shared on soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and no one actually died from this.
We ate cupcakes, white bread, real butter and bacon. We drank Kool-Aid made with real white sugar. And we weren’t overweight…WHY?
Because we were always outside playing…that’s why!We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on…..
No one was able to reach us all day. And, we were OKAY!We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride them down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem…..
We did not have Play Stations, Nintendo’s and X-Boxes. There were no video games, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD’s.
No surround-sound or CD’s…
No Cell phones,No personal computers No Internet and not chat rooms (like us!)
We HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.
We would get spankings with wooden spoons, switches, ping pong paddles, or just a bare hand and no one would call child services to report abuse.
We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt and the worms didn’t kill us.
We were given BB guns for our 10 birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls, and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes…
We rode bikes or walked to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them.
Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team.
Those who didn’t had to learn to deal with disappointment.
Imagine That!The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problems solvers and inventors ever…The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.
If you are one of them ……CONGRATULATIONS!You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives for our own good.

Here is a quote from Jay Leno on this subject……

“With hurricanes, tornadoes, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms, tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu, and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?”


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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. lotterylover (7424)   ranked 755 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

My father used to talk about putting a screen up in the creek to keep the turds from coming down stream. Now you don't dare change your baby's diaper by the side of the pool and they have chemicals in the water. What has happened? Have we become a weak bunch of human beings.


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

I know isn't it sad?!!? I just wish common sense would return to the human population. It doesn't matter how much a society tries to fix things...the law of averages will prevail!

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. Debs_place (6749)   ranked 181 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

I have seen these before. Life was not that good. I was molested. I remember being in a car with my father being drunk and him driving. I remember being spanked for GP...my brothers got in trouble so we all got a whooping.

So I guess we survived our family.

Oh and kids died...car accidents, bike accidents. There were no seat belts and no bike helmets.

As for being healthy..and playing..well this country is now full of overweight adults ---us. We picked ups ome bad eating habits.

I think the next 50 years will be even better.


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

I am so sorry that things happened to you and I don't think we should throw out everything and safety item we have. The object of this lesson is that we are trying too hard to protect everyone from everything. All the time. It can't be done.
I did a discussion a few months back where this school back east (I think) decided to not allow anyone to touch anyone....all day long. This is a perfect example of common sense being thrown out the window.
Do I wish for the days of kids riding in the back of the pickup....no. Do I wish that we could remember that kids will be kids and that they will occasionally get hurt; no matter what? YES!
I think we need to go about our lives with common sense and remember that no matter what happens in the world we will always have problems. We will always have issues...and that we can't protect everyone from everything in life or it doesn't BE life anymore.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. scarlet_woman (11395)   ranked 20 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

yup.ate snow and icicles without worrying what air pollutants might be in them.
went to a school chock full of lead paint and asbestos as well.


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

That's right!! That must explain me!!rasp

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (11773)   ranked 313 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

happyIt must have been nice and quiet being at those times. but i did remember the time that we didn't have computers, mobile phones and computer. but we had T.V. back then and enjoyed times of playing and walking through the grass. we already have T.V. back then but not to many shows to watch.sad .


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

That's true...and remember when the president or some other special broadcast came on it took all the channels....all three of them?!?!

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5. myLot reputation of 78/100. debrakcarey (2673)   ranked 2,063 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

It was a simpler time. We didn't know the dangers. But as we learned we were able to protect our own selves. We don't need the government to do it for us. We do need the government to enforce the LAWS we see fit to enact. The American people are not dumb...coffee may be hot written on our drink containers, cars that lock by themselves (pet peeve)...give me a break!

To the responder who was molested. I was too...r*ped at age eight. I survived. Why, cause I gave up the victim mentality and allowed God to teach me how to be strong BUT not bitter.

I didn't get that from the government. I didn't get it from my therapist. I didn't get that from the prescriptions they tried to tell me I needed or the pop psychology self help crowd writing books. I got that from FAITH IN GOD. I realize that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I realize that sh*t happens....and I realize that I am loved by the Creator of the Universe....and I am being formed within...in HIS image.

We don't need big brother telling us how to live...we need GOD telling us how to live.


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

I'm sorry that happened to you Deb,
I too was molested for a long time by an older cousin. I spent a lot of years trying to figure out my problems but like you found solace in God. I think the times we lived in were innocent of lots of things we don't have now...good and bad.
I am glad I lived through my childhood years then and not now. I see what my kids have to face everyday and it's awful. They didn't have the luxury of being kids...and it's a sad thing.
I am glad you got through your problems...and that it made you what you are...a God fearing woman that can handle anything that life throws her! We could all learn from that....

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. sandymay16 (1484)   ranked 6,059 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

Yes I was born in the 70's but the country I was born in was under martial rule and I remember there was curfew all the time. It was okay to have curfew but when people start disappearing for no reason then that's sad.
But it really was a good time for children growing up without the technology of today.
And it was cooler then even in a tropical country because there were lots of trees even in the city where kids can climb. We catch grasshopers and dragonflies in the ballfield. Now, there are still grasshoppers and dragonflies but just a few when I get to visit last week for an early afternoon walk around the oval.
Yes lucky us coz we experience all that and still experience what is offered today. Isn't that great?thumbup


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

It is isn't it?!
I love the part about just being kids....something we don't seem to do with our children anymore!

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (16793)   3 years ago

hi hornswaggled, I had a good laugh reading this. This text also was translated into German and made into a small book together with lovely pictures.
Yes its true what the text says, life in our childhood times was so much easier than today.
have a great weekend and God Bless you.


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

thanks Book!
I miss talking to you....hope your week was great and that you have a terrific weekend....I have a picture of Jackson that I am trying to figure out how to get over here to the lot confused

I'll see if my computer tech daughter can help me!
Hugs....


myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (16793)  3 years ago

hi hornswaggled thanks and I am really thrilled about that idea of seeing a pic of Jackson. First have to pick myself up emotionally from the last two days in my hometown with my mother who as I believe suffers from dementia.
Have today off to be able to cope with what I saw and heard.
hugs to you and hope you have a great weekend too


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

Blessings to you my friend....sounds like a really difficult time with your mother. I will say a prayer for you and your mother today.....hugs....


myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (16793)  3 years ago

hi hornswaggled its much more difficult for a relative who lives with my mother. Due to our relationship being not too good I see the whole thing more from a distance also cause I live far away from the whole chaos and trouble.


myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (16793)  3 years ago

and of course thank you so much for the prayers and nice thoughts coming my way now.


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

I appreciate your friendship book and yes I do know how it is to have difficult relatives.....hence the story about my sisters letter....we gotta stick together; us rebels!!thumbup

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8. myLot reputation of 85/100. VANILLAREY (1210)   ranked 2,347 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

It was fun reading your article. In some countries and villages this still happens. I was not born in the time period you mentioned, however I can relate to lot of this you have written. I don't agree with mothers smoking and taking aspirin. In India mothers don't smoke or drink and eat good food. This has been going on in the past and will continue in the future. Unless people forget our traditions and health aspects.


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

I agree with you. My mom smoked but she also died of cancer when I was nine. The object of this story is about moderation. We don't seem to be a moderate world anymore. We try to fix everyones problem by getting everything too protected until their is no joy left in the world.

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9. myLot reputation of 49/100. Destiny007 (4866)   ranked 12,994 out of 32,943 in life   3 years ago

All of these things were just part of growing up.

Nobody thought twice about someone with a gun... we were very familiar with them and crime was not as common as it is now.

We all carried pocketknives... not as a weapon, but as a tool.

Most schoolyard fights involved fists, and nobody got killed or even seriously injured.

We respected our parents, the police and our teachers... and everybody seemed to get along a lot better than they do now.

Compare that with what we see today, and I really believe those were better times.

We have the socialists and the liberals to thank for the problems we have today...


myLot reputation of 83/100. hornswaggled (2074)  3 years ago

I do think we are going the wrong way and have for a very long time.
I was raised by my paternal grandparents and they would never stand for foolishness of any kind.
I guess that's where I get my no bullsh*t attitude about life.
It gets me into hot water sometimes...especially here on the lot. I see a lot of people that would love to see all the changes that the liberal agenda is doing in our country and around the world.
I just hope people wake up before it turns into a revolution!

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