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myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1456)   ranked 98 out of 19,255 in questions & answers 3 years ago

Well one of my friends is not speaking to me at the minute. He is gay and he's getting married in November and he's invited me to the wedding. I have told him before that I do not agree with his lifestyle (and not just because I'm a Christian, I just don't see the point of two blokes getting together) but I love him as a friend and always treat him like any other person with love and respect.

So now he says I must choose either him or my beliefs. I don't want to lose his friendship but at the same time I cannot condone that which I find technically repulsive. So I have to carefully consider what to do next so I was hoping you guys could help me out with some ideas?

Would you attend a gay wedding and why?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 34/100. ajnabiashna (131)   ranked 19,027 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. lelin1123 (9051)   ranked 140 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. roniroxas (5916)   ranked 2,676 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

i will if the one who will get married is a friend of mine. i am a catholic but i am not judgemental. i would love to sing a song for them as well. if he is happy then i dont have the right to get that away from him. like you said if i love that person as a friend and respect him then i will deffinitely go on his wedding. my father once told my uncle MAYBE I DONT ALWAYS AGREE WITH YOU BUT I LOVE YOU. and i remembered that always and live with it. there are a lot of people who i dont agree with but i love them dearly. we can not change people for what they are and we can not force them to do what we think is right. but we can love them together with their inperfections and their short comings.

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4. myLot reputation of 67/100. psycospaz (232)   ranked 2,441 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. highflyingxangel (9336)   ranked 59 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. pushkin69 (253)   ranked 6,090 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Well if you love and care for someone unconditionally then their sexual orientation should not matter at all. I find it difficult to understand why two people sharing their love is not something that should be celebrated. Why shouldnt two men get together and declare their love and commitment? If you love and respect him then their should be no difficulty in making this decision. I hope you can resolve this concern.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. Ricki911 (11780)   ranked 61 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

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8. myLot reputation of 92/100. dlr297 (2879)   ranked 1,702 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I do not believe in the lifestyle either, but if you consider this person a friend, and treat him like any other person with love and respect. why would you want to hurt him by not sharing in a day that is going to be very special for him. a friend is a friend through thick and thin, and you accept their faults, and stand by them. It is sounding like you are being a very good friend to this person. It is his day not anybody elses.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. k1tten (2081)   ranked 4,611 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. Debs_place (6749)   ranked 3,672 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   3 years ago

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