If you have the power to change one decision of your past....

May be if i could rewind to the past, say 3 years, then i would have opted for studies or building a good career. But then i was too naive in those years and rushed into marriage because my parents wanted me to get married in the "right age". I would like to reverse that decision if i were given the power as you said:)

Well, I personally believe everything that had happened in past have special and unique meaning to us. We won't be the person we are now without that past. I don't regret any moment in the past or regret to meet someone that cause many troubles to me. but one thing I really wanna change is about my promise. I wish I never say that promise to him. Actually, it's about my ex.. My ex is my teacher's brother. My teacher (Ms Y) always mix my relation with him with my school life. Once in career talk, I and her talk together in one room and she said that she will banish my bf from home if I continue that relationship (my bf and her live in 1 home).. It's strange, all the quarrel between teacher involved me, salary, and other things that I really don't wanna know..she blame me for all the problem in school (she is like manager too who pay salary and recruit new teacher in my school). I was so confused and don't understand what kind of game is it or why I can go into all this problem. Once there's bad problem and the only one who can prove i'm innocent is him,, but he never come to my school. I don't know my bf in which side and he acted strange too. So I break up with him (he is my 1st bf) and in the phone, I cried and promise that I will call him right after my graduation to say something. I promise emotionally to God, to him and to myself. And yes, I wanna ask him what actually happen and what's his part in all the problem. I wanna know he actually serious or not with me. Why all that problem appear.
I send text message to him 1 week after we break up but he reply coldly.. I feel humiliated and now, I don't wanna know him. I now he was not serious. Now he teach in my school with his sister. Thanks God I already graduated from there. I now I was stupid. I don't want any contact with him. But I already make a promise! It's a promise to God, to him and to myself.. I know maybe he even has forget about it, but still, I have state that promise and everytime I remember about it I feel guilty..
What do you think deebak? Must I fulfill that promise? Maybe he's already forgot about that, of course. And I just wanna ask he was serious or no, and I kKNOW he wasn't serious. Both of us don't care about each other. But it's a PROMISE
Help me...

my parents chose the college course i got just because it was a prestigious college. even if i wanted another course in a less prestigious school. that was the greatest mistake of my life. and it is irreversible.

Dear deebak,

By the way, this special power can allows me to change
only one decision? Can I request for a better one, I need
to change more than one decisions, PLEEEEASE ....

It seems I have a similar problem, I should had choose to go to
the local University and secured myself a government job...
which is better than what I am doing now. A decent job with pensions
benefit when I am retired. or perhaps completed my ACCA Accountancy
course and be my own boss....

But whatever past is past, I am too old to study now, but Deebak,
you are different, you only missed 1 year, so look for a job that
can give you a 'jump' and work smart and be creative too:)
You still have great opportunities ahead of you, cease it...

All the best & do keep in touch!

I don't want to change my past decision but i want to change others decision. If i can, i will save the earth by changing the decision of the invention of the atomic bomb and also the weapons and biological weapons.