Will you love someone if your spouse died just a year ago?  

They said that the mourning period is one year. I still don't understand how can one fall in love with someone else after one year but everyone is different. The family should try and understand that the individual will be lonely and if he/she is in dire need then will seek help from outside. Sit down and talk with your in laws let them understand where you are coming from.

For me no, because the in-laws will get angry and they think you're just plastic and not respect your husband... If it is happened to me, i rather ask God if I can born and die at the same time with my future hubby..hehe..because i can't bear to lose someone dear to me...

I don't think you can judge something like this by any standard. Some people simply can't be alone, others are fine alone. It's not for me to judge if someone, who is so very lonely, would fall in love again. Falling in love is different for each person too. Personally I would like to really know someone, the falling in love comes with the knowing of that person. Some fall in love quickly and it works for them, who's to say what is good for one person is good, also, for the next.

Sorrow is a hard thing to deal with, each person is so very different. People should consider that and not be so quick to judge nor to jump to conclusions.

Hon, if your spouse has been gone for a year and you are finding yourself loving another....just get to know that person and let your heart and your gut be your guide. Your deceases spouse's family should be understanding, if not, then maybe they will choose not to be in your life anymore and you will have a new family with your new spouse.

My brother remarried 2 yrs after the death of his spouse. He had known the lady for a long time, they were friends of the family. They just clicked. I am so happy that they are happy now. He was SO very sad and I hated seeing him like that. He's happy again and that's what matters!

Listen to your heart.

Well for me it depends.. Because when you feel that you cannot stand being a mother and father at the same time to your children, maybe it's time to move on and find a new relationship.. But you must consider your family's opinion especially your child's..

Should there really be planning and timetables for love?? If this turns out to be true love, do you really want to let it go??? If your spouse's family complains, get up close and personal with them and explain.You will always love your spouse but life is for living. Give them unconditional love while you explain. You will always be there for them.