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myLot reputation of 69/100. sailor10 (1287) 3 years ago

Most of us in our youth have wondered whether we are attractive to others.But as we grew older we have come to accept ourselves as we are.But the doubts have always remained.
I was surprised when my children considered me very good looking and attractive.I believe this is unconditional love. Love is blind,they say.

If all of us can love others unconditionally wont this world be full of beautiful people?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. hmfryklund (338)   ranked 3,112 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I hate to say it, but yes I don't like the way that I look, and I think that is because I am a perfectionist, and seeing all the beautiful and gorgeous and perfect looking ladies on tv and in person, it makes me feel ugly and fat, even though everyone tells me I am not. The way our world is, most girls feel this way, and it is bullsh1t because it just isn't fair that we feel this way.


myLot reputation of 69/100. sailor10 (1287)  3 years ago

hi
You are so honest.Don`t allow the bitterness to creep in for that will surely mar your beauty.
Now that you have identified your true feelings about yourself you will get over it soon. I know for a fact that all these beautiful girls are more insecure than people like you and me.


myLot reputation of 92/100. angelajoy (1523)   ranked 2,540 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

If you know that the portrayal of beauty in the media is wrong, then you should not believe it. Feeling ugly is saying that you believe it. Just be yourself and do not worry much about how others see you on the outside. The media has been brainwashing us by saying what is beautiful and not just to make us buy products or avail services that we don't need. It's horrible that they make profit by making consumers feel ugly. The media can make us do and believe a lot of things, but the important thing is to examine these messages they convey and see for ourselves whether these are true or not.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. patofgold23 (1648)   ranked 3,570 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

when i was younger, i always thought I was ugly because my elder sister is so beautiful and she gets compliments every for her, and I don't get any coz I was a little boyish before that time and don't care so much about my looks...


but when I became a teen-ager i started to realize I was beautiful after all... and I have never doubted my looks since then

happy


myLot reputation of 69/100. sailor10 (1287)  3 years ago

hi
Good for you that you are so confident about your own self.But it is time we realized that mere good looks is but a passing phase and all good looking people lose their looks over a period of time and what really matters is whether you have thought well of others and done well for others.

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3. louren007 (84)   ranked 9,902 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Ugly? Well, there are lots of ways that you can say you are ugly. It depends on how others judge or see you physically.

But for me, I am not ugly 'coz I got married. So, that means I am attractive to my wife. Do you agree with that?


myLot reputation of 69/100. sailor10 (1287)  3 years ago

hi
I agree whole heartedly. Not only your wife but her folks too must have seen your good looks before giving you their daughter


louren007 (84)   ranked 9,902 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Yeah... That's right pal.


myLot reputation of 92/100. angelajoy (1523)   ranked 2,540 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I agree with you louren. I often think that I would not care about what everyone says about my appearance as long as my partner thinks that I'm pretty.


myLot reputation of 84/100. magickat (348)   ranked 4,408 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I agree entirely. My boyfriend finds me beautiful so why should I worry what anyone else thinks?

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. animegirl334 (2532)   ranked 5,557 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I think life would be really hard for all of us is we think of ourselves as ugly. I don't think about my looks much because I know my family loves me no matter and whether others like my appearance isn't as important. I also think my mother is very beautiful.


myLot reputation of 69/100. sailor10 (1287)  3 years ago

hi
Isn`t it amazing that all of us think that our mothers are the most beautiful creatures in this world. Only when we grow up we make the mistake of changing that opinion but that is our mistake and a very costly one at that.

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5. myLot reputation of 63/100. crisanta85 (183)   ranked 3,342 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

We all are God's creation and each of us is God's reflection. But to the eyes of humans, they most considering the physical looks as the primary beauty of a human. But for me as long as you have the kind heart, no one is ugly..

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. pupupd (832)   ranked 3,538 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Yes, if all of us can love each other that way, we all would be happy and fully content, as love is what every living human being desires the most more than money, because money is temporary greed. Love from someone will last a long time for whole life.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. geminikid (1066)   3 years ago

I am not happy with my looks, but I totally accept it. The Lord created us in his image, didn't he? Knowing that fact makes things more enjoyable :)

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. voldrox (3522)   ranked 451 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

i have never actually felt that i was ever ugly, and i don't think there are any "ugly" people in this world that is if you look at the person from the outside, but yeah if you go personality wise there are quiet many ugly people out here... one thing i would like to say, if you are good as a person no one will ever say you are ugly... both me and my bro are very similar, we are the silent listening kind ones and i am sure many people like us and yeah definitely no ones has ever said that we are ugly LOL... basically what i want to say is that, good personality outshines everything else and their isn't an ugly word in the dictionary that is meant to mean anything for you.... you know that is why your kids love you and called you good looking and attractivehappy

have a nice day sailorhappy


myLot reputation of 69/100. sailor10 (1287)  3 years ago

Hi
Since the compliments came from my children i am elated.But you know what is funny?People look at you and identify one particular unattractive feature and judge you on that alone.Cheers!


myLot reputation of 98/100. voldrox (3522)   ranked 451 out of 19,281 in questions & answers  3 years ago

that is so true Sailor, i completely agree with you, some people think i am rude just because i am not good at talking in public. . .

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (11773)   ranked 27 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

sadI don't know. maybe not good looking but ugly is another word an it depends on the perception of other people on you. for me, am satisfied for what I am and i don't need other people to judge me. il just be myself. the World is filled with beautiful people. in their waythumbuprolleyes

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. koalapenguin (1372)   ranked 1,254 out of 19,281 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Yes, absolutely sailor!wink No one's ugly in the eyes of a lover. thumbup I created a discussion called "Are you Beautiful?" I think it has the same meaning as this one, right? You could read it if you like. Here's the link. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2063450.aspx.

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