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myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god 3 years ago

Some people blame God for the things they, themselves, have done foolishly. I also had blamed God before I knew Him personally and accepted Christ Jesus in my life as Lord and Savior. And I think, based on my experience, some people blame God because:

1) They don't know God personally; they don't have a relationship with Him.
2) That is the result of their fallen sinful nature which only Jesus can heal and redeem.

What can you say? Please share with me about this topic. No rude answers please.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 50 out of 677 in god   3 years ago

I think they blame God, because they wouldn't like to accept that they made mistakes. They simply didn't realized that their problem is the consequences of their actions. I think there are also other people who indeed have relationship with God, and then when they're faith were being tested they blame Him. Others blame of Him also, because they have a misconception about His true identity. It's very important to know your faith and know what you believe, you need to get into deep. So in the end you've got no one to blame.

Have a great day!


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Yes, you're right. I also blamed God before but I didn't have a relationship with Him that time. Now that I have, I realize God is love and everything that happens has a purpose. Yes, we really need to deepen our relationship with Him in order for us to see the beauty of Him -- all good comes from Him and that God is really sooo good. God bless.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. Margajoe (2447)   ranked 121 out of 677 in god   3 years ago

I understand why people blame God in hard times.
Lets put it this way: When you have good times and everything is going well, you say Thank God! Because you believe that God gives you all good things.
You are not to blame for the good things. God is.

So, now there are bad things happening, you are not happy. Know it is your own fault???
God had nothing to do with it anymore???

Did you ever think that everything happens for a reason?


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Do you think God sends the bad things our way? No. For example, the death of our loved ones, should we blame it to God? God only works for the good of all those who love Him, those who are called for His purpose. Even death of a family member can bring the members of that family closer together and reconciled unlike when the deceased member was still living, there was family gap.


myLot reputation of 90/100. Margajoe (2447)   ranked 121 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Yes, like I said, everything happens for a reason. Death is not a bad thing. It is a beginning of a new life for that person.
We who are left behind find it to be a terrible thing a bad thing. But really we are just being egocentric. Because we miss this person in our lives.
When God (or greater life form) finds it is time for someone to die, then it is God who calls this person into a next live. Who are we to judge this and call it bad? God decides when it is time to die. We should accept this as a good thing and move on with our lives.

In this case, God sends things our way, yes. We see it as bad. but it is a normal life thing.
If there is a God, then we are all here for His purpose. Because God is a loving God and Loves everyone regardless. Like when you have children, you always love your children no matter what. Whether they believe you or not.

You yourself are responsible for your happiness and sadness.
Some bad things come your way because it is a lesson.
If you never experience bad things, sad things, you would never understand other people.
I believe we are here to learn. We also learn from our mistakes.
It is easy to blame God or the so called Devil.

When you blame God for the good, you also blame Him for the bad.

Have a nice day. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Hi! Thanks for that sharing. Let me add more: God "allows" bad things to happen to mold our character to be like Him. I don't blame God for the good nor for the bad now. Happy mylotting.


myLot reputation of 90/100. Margajoe (2447)   ranked 121 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Yes indeed. happy
Happy Mylotting to you too.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (2949)   3 years ago

Hi levite, I don't think your premises justify your conclusion. For example, there is this lady who is truly devoted to God. Alas, one day, her son tragically died in an unforeseen accident. Right away, she blamed God for her son's death. But of course, being a believer and a faithful, she took back her actions and statements that had been offensive to God. Many times, God is just the seeming target of our frustrations and disappointments in life. Don't worry. God understands perfectly.wink


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Let me end it this way. We are taught in childhood that there is God. When our parents go to church we also go there too until we became adult. But this kind of upbringing did not bring us really to a closer and real-time experience with God as a loving Father. But still, we believe there is God and nothing more. We view God as a distant Being that either loves or punishes humans for their mistakes or like a judge. Now, the result is some people blame God because of this thinking. Some people also think God like santa claus or a genie who gives them what they want or like. Therefore, it is not surprising that they blame God when God no longer gives them what they want. But all God wants is to come into people's life if people just invite Him (relationship) thats why He, Himself, revealed His Person through Christ Jesus (the image of invisible God)by coming down from heaven, reaching to us, to change our false views regarding Him and dying in the cross to restore our broken relationship with Him.
After knowing and learning of this truth and experiencing God in my personal life, all my false views regarding Him have changed. I have learned the right key to come closer to God is through "repentance" only and nothing more. After all, it is still God's initiative, I just responded to him through repentance and humility.


myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (2949)  3 years ago

Life experiences vary. I am fortunate that I understood God early on in my life. That is a blessing. Some people got to know God after violating the ten commandments, like Augustine. Or even Saul of Damascus. But God works on people according to His plan. These two personages even became two of the most staunch defenders of the faith. And God makes things beautiful in His time.wink


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Truly, God works in different ways and means to call people from all walks of life no matter what their background may be. And you're right, the worst sinner can be the greatest saint in the future if he/she just responds to God's call.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. phillip_shiny (685)   ranked 664 out of 677 in god   3 years ago

Hi friend,

I have done it. Because I was unable to suffer the trials nad tribulations that were on my way. I believe Him that He is my abba father and I am His child. But most of the time I couldn't feel Him during the sufferings which I undergo. I often thought that if I am His child then why He allows this in my life and started asking questions why.

Today I read a word from Isaiah that "shall the thing framed say of Him that framed it, He had no understanding?" It really speaks.. And another word from the bible clearly pictures out everything in Rom 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose"..So after that God knows it is for good and started believing that He is allowing this for my good.. Now its going smoothly..lol

Cheers . God bless you. Have a nice day....thumbup


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Hi friend. Yes truly, the verse you have posted above perfectly fits in here. God really works for the good of His children. If bad things happen to us, He uses it to mold our character as I have stated above. In the end, we will see God uses the bad things to create good inside us. "Blessing in disguise" as many are saying. God bless too.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. mrshughes (129)   3 years ago

Most people blame God simply because they dont want to know the caused of the real problems. They are scared to face the reality.
Its not good pointing to others our mistakes we made for our self.
Lets face reality, our life is how we made it..we all have choices how to run our life. Most accidents is caused by human mistakes..God is out to this problem so dont blame him...but ask for guidance to solve the problems we get ourself into.

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. OrangJuice (573)   ranked 274 out of 677 in god   3 years ago

I also blamed God and even leave Him.
In my surroundings, I think people blame God for two reasons:

1. God don't give positive feedback to their prayer. Prayer without real faith and correct opinion.
When we pray for something we want or we think good, but God don't answer, sometimes, God give you what you don't want or you think bad, but sometimes, no any feedback, it seems you pray to air.
For me, I've been praying for one thing in my life, and this thing is common for everyone from about 7 years ago. But I haven't gotten feedback until this June. - Even now, I still don't get what I want. I'm still praying and waiting.
Now I realize there is something wrong with my life, but before 2008, I didn't think so. What I thought was I kept praying but God, you didn't answer me.
In these situation, we always blame God directly but don't do self-reflection and asked ourselves what's wrong.

2. We meet the calamity in our lives, though we are religious - like Job in Old Testament.
What a coincidence! A young couple joined our fellowship two weeks ago. And the wife was always crying when she told us her 8-year-old son getting leukemia. How pity! And cure rate of this illness is 95%, but unfortunately, her son is in 5%.
What his husband said made me touched. He said, we know this child is God's gift to them. And this child is His, including his life, of course. But we don't know why it happened? Pls pray for us!
I think maybe we will ask ourselves, do not answer it too quickly. What will happened if you are really in Job's trouble? Really.

But of course, believing in God is a process and hard subject to learn. It need us effort whole life.


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Hi Orangejuice. Sometimes, God does not give us what we ask because it is not yet time for Him to answer our prayers. God has a right time and purpose when He answers our prayers. He does not answer yet because He still molds our character to be like Him and to have more faith and confidence in Him as what happened to the two sisters Martha and Mary when their brother Lazarus had gotten sick and eventually died. When Lazarus was still sick Jesus delayed going to their house until Lazarus died. Martha and Mary could have blamed Him. But Jesus knew what He was going to do. He used that circumstance to demonstrate His power and glory. And the end result was Lazarus was raised from the dead and consequently, the sisters faith and even His disciples increased more.
So, don't ever give up praying and trusting God and doing His will for in due season you shall reap the harvest -- the answered prayer. God bless. happy


myLot reputation of 87/100. OrangJuice (573)   ranked 274 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Yeah, thanks for your share. To be honest, I never think this story from this side.
Now I think I get more from this story.
And I'm so glad that I'm still here. Actually, I even don't know why I come back because what I pray for, God still doesn't give me. But it's amazing, right? No matter will happen, I think I will try my best to follow God.


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Yes. I remember the song, "I have decided to follow Jesus, no turning back, no turning back..." Do you remember this song too?

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. whizkid08 (562)   ranked 532 out of 677 in god   3 years ago

Very true, many people have this habit of blaming the Lord for their sinful deeds. This is innate and a part of human nature, we don't accept our mistake ourself unless we are accused by someone. Despite knowing that it is the person himself responsible for most of the mistakes he would never claim that yes, I am a sinful creature! Instead, he would go to the Church/Temple, and put the blame on God that he didn't heed to the prayers, the offerings and let this thing happen.

This is all due to the mentality of people which can only be improved if a person believes in himself and in God, with this he would usher with an influential spiritual aura, and even spread this message in the world. happy

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (11773)   ranked 166 out of 677 in god   3 years ago

happyhello levite,

Notcry only they blame but they also hate, and choose not to believe in the LORD anymore. i have no idea why, probably because they dependent so much onhim that they don't do a damn thing about their lives, they don't accept their mistakes and faults, instead they blamed it on god and that is not fair i supposed. i remember this user from friendster, which until this day he keeps on blabbering about the bible being not so convincing, this man was once a dedicated christian and all of a sudden he became an atheist. i pity the man who once had faith.sad


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

When good thing comes to them, they thank Him, yet when bad things happen to them and they don't know what to do, they put the blame on Him! Anyway, as I have said on the beginning of this discussion, I have blamed Him before but it was during those times that I had no personal relationship with God or shall I say, I did not know Him yet intimately and deeply. I think it takes a personal encounter with the living God for us, people, to understand more about HIM AND HIS NATURE. Too bad for the once dedicated Christian you have mentioned about to become atheist. He has probably forgotten what God has done for Him in the past. Maybe he had only "head knowledge" but not experience about God, what do you think?


myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (11773)   ranked 166 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

yeah, till this day he kepts on teling people that god doesn't exist and still getting verses in the bible.lol. last topic that he made was "murderers in the bible" in friendster group called Philippines united.too bad for him, he choose to be intellectually stupidlollol


myLot reputation of 94/100. levite (515)   ranked 21 out of 677 in god  3 years ago

Let us just pray for him to be enlightened and go back to God. By the way, what is his name?

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