is being single important to u???

While i love being in a relationship and having someone to share happiness and worries with and someone who really cares at the end of the day i think its important to take time to be single and figure out who you are as a person sometimes, you cant rely on anyone else for your happiness a partner can only add to it! I think people lose there personal identity sometimes as part of a couple and its nice to have time on your own to rediscover your own passions and likes and dislikes without having to factor a partner into the situation!

right now, it is for me.

I enjoy the independence, the privacy, and I can maximize my time so much


...if I have a man in my life, he takes some of my time,,,and I value my time so much.


and I value my independence...being in a relationship means having to consult one way or another with your partner..
I don't need that in my life right now.

You get mad when you are single.Maybe you should find a girl friend now.It is boring for someone alone.Someone wants to be single,like me,I have no girl friend now.Sometimes I feel unesay,there is no one to talk to you with something.In that case,I will chat with my friends and do something else.

I am enjoying my singleness right now though I long for someone to hold me when I have problems or when waiting to fall asleep at night but I am not ready yet for a relationship. And finding a good man is really hard these days, most of them anyway are already taken and the ones left so far are jerks, well the ones I met anyway. lol

I'm 22 years old now,but the truth is that I've never fallen in love before.during my 22year-long lifetime,I loved someone,but he never knew what I felt because I had no courage to tell him about my true feeling.life is this,you loved someone while someone else loved you.
being single?focus on your work and you 'll feel better.

Being single to me is a sense of relief, as well as a sense of independence in my viewpoint. I have had a few dead-end relationships that just didn't turn out the way I thought that they should have been. Sure, it wasn't easy moving on after such experiences or bad times, but then I looked on the bright side and seen that I am capable of forming my own views and my own independence from making my own decisions. Being with another individual, in any formation of a relationship binds two lives together and can cause friction to both lifestyles and habits of either individual.

To be single in my viewpoint is to have freedom to be who I want to be, and not have to reshape my real self in order to make someone else happy. Experiences are different for everyone of course, as we all live differently and experience different personalities of people. Overall, what I can only really suggest is that if you feel good about who you are dating/ being with, and in turn the significant other feels the same way about you, then there might be a worthwhile chance to be happy. It all depends on what your heart feels and your instincts about what your heart is feeling. That's the only way you can learn about yourself, others, and the world that we live in today.