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myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends4 months ago

What will you do if you find out one day your best friend is a homosexual accidentally, your first reaction is figuring out how to end your friendship with him/her, or you just don't care much about it. Let us know how you deal with it and show us the proper way of handling it.

I personally don't think it is much of a big deal, i will just go on with our friendship and remain anonymous in his/her sexual orientation, i will continue to respect his/her rights to choose and right to privacy without mentioning it to any body including all our friends. rolleyes

 
 
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BinaryKat (395) response was accepted on 10/8/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. BinaryKat (395)   ranked 1,653 out of 1,701 in friends   4 months ago

The old saying goes to each it's own. I wouldn't have a problem with my best friend being a homosexual. I think it is really their business what sexual orientation happen to be. I will still be supportive.


myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends  4 months ago

I am having the same view too, Kat! I am still as supportive as before to him. thumbup

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (813)   ranked 1,652 out of 1,701 in friends   4 months ago

What a predicament you've got there. It is even more difficult had the length of years of friendship been as long as lifetime itself. But the friend thing must come in here. If you are truly friends, you could ask and discuss. If you choose not to say anything, the friendship will suffer because you would become inhibited or cautious. But if you are open about it, it would be easier even for your friend because he knows somebody understands him. There are instances when homosexuality is a byproduct of gene deficiency. It can't be helped. But the homosexual perverts is another matter. If your friend is making a pass at you, you have to caution him to stop because that will lead to an entirely different story. Sigh!


myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends  4 months ago

I did know a friend who is homosexual accidentally, but since he doesn't make a pass on me like a pervert, i never mentioned anything about it to him, but it does make me a bit of caution in whatever i do in front of him. lol! lol But i still keep him as friend and in contact like usual friendship, i am still supportive of him as before.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. animegirl334 (1709)   ranked 1,650 out of 1,701 in friends   4 months ago

I wouldn't mind how my best friend's preferences is. It probably would be easier on their life if they weren't but a best friend is a best friend and I'll be supportive no matter what happens. I actually do have a best friend who is homosexual. It took him a long time to open up to us but we'll accept him no matter what. It's still the same, he's still him and he's still my best friend


myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends  4 months ago

I agree with that, girl. It is still the same person to me knowing he is a homosexual or not. As for me, a person sexual orientation has nothing to do with me choosing a friend, it is not in my equation for friendship. lol

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4. myLot reputation of 70/100. frozenimage (422)   ranked 1,651 out of 1,701 in friends   4 months ago

There is nothing wrong with homosexuality. Only ignorant and insecure people think otherwise.


myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends  4 months ago

That is right, only ignorant and hateful people constantly chastising homosexual, just like any others minority groups they like to bash. rasp

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 809 out of 1,701 in friends   4 months ago

I would continue to meet my friend after that because I care for my friend even if he/she turns homosexual, he/she will continue to be one of my friends. I do not care too much about that because I value the person as he/she is.


myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends  4 months ago

A human being is still as valuable as it is, no matter his/her sexual orientation . I just don't understand all of these mistreatment and bashes on homosexual by certain group of people in our society. I will still care and value my best friend as before even after knowing about his preferences like you do. med889!

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. seymiss (459)   ranked 1,648 out of 1,701 in friends   4 months ago

Hi my friend,

I also wouldn't care less about the sexual orientation of that person its the person that iam bonded with not what he/she do with his/her private life.

Anyway lamp long time no hear hope all is good at your end?

cheers!happy


myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends  4 months ago

Hi, Seymiss i am still hanging in here, thank for asking. Hope you are fine over there. You have a great attitude toward your friend, i think your friend will appreciate you very much for having good understanding of her. thumbup

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7. dean21xian (49)   ranked 1,654 out of 1,701 in friends   3 months ago

When I found out my best-friend is a homosexual I will let him know that even though he/she is homosexual its not a problem because if you really care of your friend or best-friend you wont leave them lying in pain, struggling by their own. True friendship comes form the heart of each of you. P.S As long as he/she will stay friend for me I wont let him/her out of my life...


myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1828)   ranked 685 out of 1,701 in friends  3 months ago

Your friend will appreciate your friendship, since you have a right thought and great attitude in viewing your friend private life in a positive light, thank for your response. thumbup

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