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What is the right age to have a baby? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 94/100. aweins (3622)   ranked 69 out of 1,906 in have kids5 months ago

i have a daughter and i think i should have it a bit more earlier. now i feel i have less time for her and have many more issue that are pending to complete. and baby is a thing that have to be given more than your hundred percent, i think. i donno what others think or have their opinion on it.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 376 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

I will prefer to have my first baby at the age of maybe 27 to 28 because once I read in a magazine that it is important that a woman give birth to their first babiy before attaining the age of 30 because else the child has a risk of not falling pregnant herself, so I have already talked to my partner about it. However I also believe that miracles exist so maybe even after 30 it will be fine.


myLot reputation of 99/100. 3SnuggleBunnies (3557)   ranked 429 out of 1,906 in have kids  5 months ago

Just don't wait too much past 30, once you hit 35 you are automatically considered a high risk pregnancy. Honestly 35 isn't that old but the risk factors for birth defects ect increase. I had my last @ 31 & I felt that was too old*LOL*


myLot reputation of 94/100. aweins (3622)   ranked 69 out of 1,906 in have kids  5 months ago

thanks for your responses dear friends. i fully go with you that after thirty the risk increases becasue this is the same thing that my doctor also told me. i waslaso planning to have a baby after thirty but she said that it will be too late and there will be risk also. so now we are having a baby and she and she is one and a half year old.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (3492)   ranked 1,877 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

I got kids late also. But I resigned from full time job. Rather, I spend more time with them. It is always the best if we are hand-on with our kids.


myLot reputation of 94/100. aweins (3622)   ranked 69 out of 1,906 in have kids  5 months ago

hi dear freind, we are also having a baby and we have just one daughter and we are happy with it. it is too expensive to have more kidsand meet their needs and ful fill all the responsibilities too. i too dont do any work out now. i am a full time mother and give full attention to our daughter.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. anna728 (579)   ranked 258 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

I think I would like to have my first kid in my late 20s. That's late enough that I have had plenty of time to have fun and have a steady job, etc. but not so late that there will be high risks for complications and genetic disorders in the baby.


myLot reputation of 94/100. aweins (3622)   ranked 69 out of 1,906 in have kids  5 months ago

hi dear friend, you are very sensible in that. and i fully agree to you. we also have our first baby in that age . i was not very much late but then too our doctor advised us that if we want to have a second baby we should plan it soon.

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4. myLot reputation of 76/100. wahyueQ (184)   ranked 1,751 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

I think the best age to have a baby is between 25 - 30, because that is the best age to get a baby. If we are too young and have a baby, I afraid we still not ready mentally to have a baby and if too old I afraid to the mother's health.


myLot reputation of 94/100. aweins (3622)   ranked 69 out of 1,906 in have kids  5 months ago

hi dear, your thinking is like mine and i feel that first we should be mentally and physically prepared . we should act like matures and then should have a baby. 25-30 is a very decent age.

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. srganesh (3584)   ranked 307 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

I think you should have all your babies before the age of thirty five.Medically speaking,they say that the pelvic bones becomes much stronger after that age and you will face trouble in normal delivery.In an other angle,we need ample space between the siblings and a three or four age gap is enough.So,consider your first child's age and go for the second.Cheers!

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6. myLot reputation of 85/100. tutor19us (328)   5 months ago

A baby will demand 200% of your attention and has to be nurtured with care and affection. For that you have to be young enough to run behind it in the growing years. I think the right age to have a baby is 25. After 30, it becomes riskier to have babies.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. polo_princess (594)   ranked 21 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

I dont really think there is a right age to have a baby, as a lot of it id down to each individual couple and when the time is right for them. If i had to choose i would say 20 - 30 years old, I feel that between these ages you are in your prime, youve had enough time to build yourself a life, job, home etc and then you can begin to settle down.

I had my daughter when i was 22, well i still am 22 lol but i felt it was the right time for me.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (10835)   ranked 2 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

Medically the right age to have a child is during the early to mid twenties. Practically it might be from the mid twenties to the early thirties. The mid to late thirties would be a bit late to have a baby. The teenage years are early to have a baby. Pregnancy can happen and when it does it is best to make a lovely home ready for the baby. I had my first son at 22, my second son at 34 and my daughter at 36.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. caragh2608 (1046)   ranked 52 out of 1,906 in have kids   5 months ago

I think a good age for a first child is between 22 and 25. I had my first at 18 and my second just after my 20th birthday, I am happy with the way things turned out for me, but some people wouldn't be ready as early as I was, and some may resent giving up their youth to care for a child. I think people should stop having children before the age of 35, partly because of the risks involved, and partly because what 50 year old wants a 15 year old driving them insane? lol

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. eftychiap (291)   5 months ago

I am 27 and I got married a year ago with my husband (which I met 4 years ago). We will now move to our new house and we decided to spend time alone in our house, live it and enjoy it in the maximum and then after a couple of years start trying to have a baby. My hubby is 33 yrs old now, but I thing age doesn't matter. A baby should come when you feel ready inside. You will always have little time due to work, pending issues and obligations that must be done. So whether you have a baby soon or later, the time given for the baby is really a lot! Your life changes and you will give your best shot to do all of it. Work, pending tasks, care of the baby and of course not to omit your attention to your partner. That's a woman's life unfortunately. It's hard, but every one can do it. Just believe it, and try to do your best.

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