Hi single Mylotters! Do you face any problem?

As a single,the only problem I am facing right now is everyone,specially aunties and uncles asking me one irritating question all the time,that is "When will you get married and when will you settle down in life?"
So I have made a SINGLE request to them,to leave me alone if this is the only topic they want to discuss with me....Other than this I have no other problems so far,touch wood!! I sleep,eat,drink and be merry all the time as I keep myself busy with loads of interesting extra curricular stuff like arts,crafts,PTC sites,internet and Ofcourse MYLOT:))

Living alone has it's advantages & disadvantages. I have been alone for a very long time & have adjusted fairly well i guess. I hope u do to.

hi aminul8427 oh my yes when I was first a widow I had a lot of'
problems just trying to sleep I missed my husbands prescence so much'and often dreamed I felt him in the bed beside me.it took'a lot of getting used to.but now its been so long that the pain of his'loss and his company have softened,not completely gone but now canface life as a single woman. took a long time.one of the worst things early after his death were the times when I would hear a joke or some neat thing that I thought oh must tell Garland about that,only to remember that he was gone.that was always a jolt. like my friend adrienne who was a character out going gruff but loveable,suddenly she discovered she had lung cancer and well strong as she was she died just two months after that and for a long time I could hear her call hey hatley whats up, are you okay, girl with that cold you should be home in bed, only she wasnt there anymore just the memories of her voice and her personality.

Hi aminul, it is not only the single suffering this insomniac but the double are also suffering.

Hi Aminul. I had been married for a long time and had never lived alone until I got a divorce. When I first lived alone, it felt strange and I did have trouble sleeping. I kept myself busy, and then would just let myself fall asleep on the sofa or on top of the bed covers when I finally became exhausted enough.

As time went on, I came to love being single, and the freedom of living alone and being my most real and comfortable self was wonderful.

I hope you soon start sleeping better.

Karen

Hello aminul8427! I hesitate to respond here because I'm not single but this one is kind of interesting to me. So maybe let's go back when I was still single...Actually, I don't think I ever have insomnia when I was single. I had insomnia when my husband and I were away from each other. But now that we're together, I always have a good night sleep.

hi aminul, such probs are with all . we are facing such typical questions from out society and if u r not getting a sound sleep then take a walk after dinner .then u wil realize it is beneficial

I also suffer from insomnia. Most of the days I cannot sleep well as my mind keeps on running and I take about 1-2 hours to fall asleep. I really find that annoying. There was even a period of time when I would only fall alsleep at 10-11 am and wake up at around 6pm.

Hello my friend aminul8427 Ji,
When we are all born, we feel warmtness of mother's lap, which is shared by other members in the family as we grow. A time comes, when we become double by marrying to full-fill nature's cause and continue to return our dues to family and society. So again we get good sleep. Why do'nt you simulate your conditions. Get doubled as you kow the reason is single. May God bless You and have a great time.