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myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life5 months ago

My son is ten and up until a recent celebrity death had never heard of MJ. But it took over the Greek news and each day he would inform me of something new he'd just heard, he was murdered, he killed himself, he's still alive, they're fighting over the money. It still goes on and yesterday he announced he now has a video game out even though he is no more. So what has my delightful son gone and done?

Found MJ's videos on the internet and is now blasting them out to annoy me. I suppose I should blame myself for not censoring the news but I think the news is good for chldren. But obviously not when reported to excess. Your thoughts.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. stvasile (5393)   ranked 564 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

It seems to me that the people that make the news are getting more incompetent and stupid each day. That's why when they have a news subject like the one of Michael Jackson's death, they exploit it as much as they can, even if there is no substance behind it. I have nothing against MJ's music, there are songs of him I really like. It's just that now, after his death, we are being intoxicated by it. Why didn't they played his songs before he died?
I also think people are overreacting when they describe his talents and accomplishments. The latest stupidity I've heard is that people are proposing MJ for a Peace Nobel Prize... Did you notice how his accusations of children sexual abuse are gone now, as if by magic? Now he's all good and deserves a Nobel Prize...

I apologize for deviating from the subject a bit... to come back to your question, I think the news channels are just vultures feeding on all carcasses until they can't get anything from them. The stupidity of topics presented is also beyond measure - one of the latest news I've heard is that the American news bulletins are making a big case because Michelle Obama wore shorts...


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

You have exactly taken my point Stvasile, when celebrity nonsense takes over the news what are we reducing our knowledge to. Okay report it once but not endlessly. Is it any wonder I don't hear of anything happening in your country if the news is obsessed by things like wearing shorts, I have to find out on here about organ stealing in India because all the TV news reports are filled with things of little importance. I was particularly suprised that the Greek news made such a song and dance with all the MJ coverage as I don't believe he was particularly newsworthy here before this and certainly Greek music remains the music of choice. I especially cringe when deaths of worthy people receive no more than a passing mention.
As you also rightly point out the previous criticisms miraculously drop. Years ago I was absolutely appalled when the coverage of a royal in the UK dominated the worldwide media even though the persons fame was simply being married to someone of inherited title. Even my favourite quality paper which only the week before had been denigrating the mindlessness of this person there was barely an inch of space not dedicated to the event and suddenly turning this person into an icon. It was pathetic. On the same day the death of a rather great writer Jeffrey Bernard, received approx two lines of obiturary, he would have been intensely annoyed by that as he did rather like to be in the limelight.


myLot reputation of 95/100. stvasile (5393)   ranked 564 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Sir Edmund Hillary died on Jan 11 2008. Nobody mentioned his pass. He is of course known for being the first man on the Everest. He also helped building many schools and hospitals in Nepal, helping the Sherpa people. He declared this was the greatest achievement of his life. He was never nominee for a Nobel Peace Prize.

In a short while, on Mars 19 2008 died Sir Arthur C. Clarke. He as a brilliant science-fiction writer and inventor. You might know him for writing the Space Odyssey. He helped testing the first radar and he is the one that proposed the project of the satellite communications systems. In his late years, he settled in Sri Lanka trying to solve the mysteries of the World. Nobody mentioned his death either...

My eyers wet every time I remember these two great men are gone. And they are only two examples, like many others...


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

For me it was the death of Simon Wiesenthal, my greatest hero, who barely received a mention yet deserved a whole month of coverage. That would have been news which could have really educated younger generations.


myLot reputation of 66/100. psycospaz (199)   ranked 7,798 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

I didn't know that Sir Clarke died! He is one of my all time favorite authors and people in general!

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. LetranKnight25 (4581)   ranked 613 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

glareSometimes am not even sure if the media is aware that their news is affecting the child. I am sorry if the news of Michael JAckson has somewhat affected your child..maybe it's best if you can divert him some other games or toys rather than that MJ stuff, how ever it's also true that there was a Michael Jackson video game in Sega. thumbup.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi Letran, I rather suspect that you have also grasped the point i was making, my child has been amazed that something of so little newsworthiness rather took over and for so long. So I have the question what did he do, well he made songs and danced, tried to turn himself white, lived in an expensive disneyland style house, had no sense of how to deal with money, and invited young boys to sleep in his bed. This was the extent of what I knew and filled my son in with (I'd watched the Martin Bashir interview). But even after my explanation he still found it annoying to sit through so repeated coverage of the same thing but then began to find it all rather amusing. The point about the game seemed to be what's the point as he won't get the money now he's dead, which lead to an explantion of exploitive lawyers.

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. Sandra1952 (1614)   ranked 6,007 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

Hello, Thea. I expect your son is just going through a temporary kid's obssession on this, and by this time next week he'll have moved on to something else. Difficult as it may seem, you can hasten the moment by ignoring the MJ blasts if you can. The positive thing to take from this is that your son has at least exhibited an ability to absorb and process what he hears on the news.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

happyHello Sandra, I think my son was rather intrigued by the whole idea of something continuing on the news for so long and the latest craze of playing the music online is simply to annoy me. He already has a knack of absorbing the news perfectly and dragged out the map the other night to try and locate exactly where the recent fires were.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13920)   ranked 83 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

If they don't hear from the news, they hear it from other sources even at that age my friend, so even if you do censor the news etc, they will still find out, does he use the computer? He can pick up things from the internet obviously, with newsflashes that come on Yahoo for example, he can pick things up from school, from his peers even just by listening when he goes out, so you can't stop him hearing about it and sadly that's life, you want to protect your children from what's going on but the sad fact of life is that they have to know that the world is not a wonderful place and bad things do happen, it also I believe makes them tougher as well and probably smarter too, because he is learning, whether he is hearing bad news or not, he is still learning and probably he knows more about MJ than Wolfie, so that is something. We cannot shield children from everything sadly. Your son actually sounds quite intelligent and obviously older than his ten years which I think is admirable. But never blame yourself my friend. I am sure he would have heard about it regardless.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi Wolfie, now you've actually read me all wrong on this one my friend. Whilst of course I wish to protect my son physically I would never attempt to censor the news from him to protect him from things going on in the world, my objection here that he was constantly bombarded with the same piece of news with its many interpretations. Obviously I check what he is exposed to but he has only just started using the internet and he knows what he is allowed to use it for and not to wander into dodgy areas there.
But actual news, no matter how disturbing, is part of life. Take for an example the worst news which could have ever been broadcast, the discovery of the nazi concentration camps and what was happening there. It was also happening to children and if some of those children managed to survive what they had endured then surely another child should learn from that and not be protected from it, but obviously with a mature adult on hand to explain the circumstances in detail.

Thank you for the kind remarks about my son, his remarkable intelligence is recognised by all in our area and he is a much adored child.


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13920)   ranked 83 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hello my friend, please forgive me as it wasn't a deliberate misinterpretation of your discussion, I guess I went off on a tangent and digressed away from where you were coming from.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Nothing at all to forgive my dear friend, your view was welcome and would probably be the one which would concern most parents, rather than my own interpretation. As I just commented to the first responder though I believe that there are far more worthy people whose deaths should be commented on much more and would benefit many with extensive coverage. Unfortunately these now pass as just a footnote in history.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 6,279 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

Hello my friend happy


Well I was a fan of Michael Jackson not a huge fan but a fan none the less, my grandson became really into him 2 months before he passed everyday on youtube watching/learning his dance moves I must say he is really really good at it, when he sings songs like man in the mirror he ask me what does it mean, my baby is 6 well 7 now and I explain to him what the songs mean the he really gets into now that he understands, now that Michael is gone I encourage my grandson to watch/dance/sing to his music I like to listen to it as well, I figure this can't hurt him, he will actually learn somethings from this man.


I do know what you mean if you don't like the music it would be hard to tolerate, some of his lyrics are really deep and gives us food for thought there is never anything wrong with that right?


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi Kitty, nice to see you again. There is nothing wrong at all in your gransond enjoying this music or dancing along.

You don't know me well yet though and will find if you bear with me that I tend to use one subject to explore another one and the intention here was to give consideration to the excessive coverage of a celebtity death at the expense of real news being reported. This was meant as an example of news being dumbed down to mass appeal whilst newsworthy things go unreported. My son has just informed me though of the latest news on this subject, that the British prime minister is being attacked for sending condolences to the family, I'm not quite sure how to interpret that one beyond wondering if he did that why it was necessary to make the fact public. I hope my little digression doesn't put you off. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 6,279 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hello my friend thumbup


Oh no sweety not at all happy, what I should have done was touch on the media aspects of the post myself, I kinda got caught up in the music and forgot my train of thought lol, although granted there was many other things going on in the world and they should have taken that into consideration I do feel he deserved all the coverage that was given to him, Michael has been around for a long time and he was huge in his own right, to just let the public know that he passed and talk here and there about his life to me would have been unfair to his memory,he deserved the coverage in my opinion after all they could not stop speaking about him when he was alive,so this is how I feel and in no way do I see you any different I still want to exchange thoughts with you as much as possible just keep in mind I wont always agree and hopefully I will express myself in a way as to not offend anyone.


A lot of people feel the way you feel so its really good, how boring will this world be if we all agreed on everything thumbup


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi again Kitty, what a nice approach you have. Differences of opinion make discussions my friend and we can certainly agree to disagree on any subject you like as long as it is conducted with politeness which I'm sure will be the case between us.

So you approved of the mass coverage whilst I did not, maybe the happy medium would have been for the media to produce individual programmes to cover this event rather than blast it all our randomnly on the news. Certainly this appears to be a new phenonemon within the last decade, at least outside the US, I don't know how events like this were previously broadcast there. But in Europe a death would be reported on the news and then maybe a memorial programme screened. But then again I stated openly somewhere else on this discussion that if it had been the death of someone who I believe made a huge contribution to history I would welcome a month of coverage on TV. I suppose the question would be should we extoll celebrity or lives of more historical significance but I can tell from your own words that you believe in this instance that this person was a relevant figure in your life. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 6,279 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hello my friend happy


Thats makes a lot of sense having a specific channel so if you want to tune it you can, like I said I was a fan not a die hard fan like a lot of other people, I do feel he got his just and it only shows how important he was to a lot of people, not all but quite a bit,some people feel he didn't get enough coverage I don't know I Feel bad for the man either way I believe he was misunderstood in a lot of ways, virgos tend to be that way I feel no one gets me, no one understands me, being here at mylot helps me with that issue. thumbup


Never worry I don't think we will disagree much to be honest with, if I find that we seem to disagree more than agree I will not respond although a good debate never hurt anyone who wants to debate all the time, so we will be fine I like sharing thoughts with you my friend.

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. Philbo (428)   ranked 6,493 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

The news is more than just news or maybe less depends on your point of view. It has the power to shape how people think about things. It is an incredibly powerful marketing tool if you can harness it. I think Michael Jackson may make more money dead than he did alive. On the bright side he may be really into this music right now but he'll likely get tired of it after awhile.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi Philbo, I could understand the media being manipulated into becoming a marketing tool for a dead popstar in America, as celebrity there has more day to day coverage in the media. I am completely suprised though that it was even mentioned more than once on Greek news, but actually has virtually taken it over to the disgust of many Greeks who are sick to death of it all and probably had little notion of who he even was. It raises the question perhaps of who is manipulating the Greek press into this lunacy. Advertisers perhaps?


myLot reputation of 79/100. Philbo (428)   ranked 6,493 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

I'm Canadian and many of us are as sick of it as you are. I also know that many Americans feel the same way.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11534)   ranked 616 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

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myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi Aunty, my son has been following the news because it has overtaken the news and he realises what a waste of time it all is as he reports with increduality yet another development. His usual is 'they're stll going on about it on the news and he's still dead'. There is no chance of my son making a hero of out of him and searching the video was just fun to annoy mummy.
It has raised plenty of questions though which we've been able to discuss, how to budget, why one person can dominate the news by just singing, how not to live in a fairy land, etc.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11534)   ranked 616 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

I know your son is a smart young man. I think it's important for kids to be interested in the news, more of them need to be. I think u are very smart to encourage him to keep up w/what is going on in the world. I just didn't want him to think mj was a hero because in my opinion he is not in any way.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi Aunty, he might still have his cartoon heroes on his ten year old side but i think he's bright enough to see through celebrity and pick heroes worth having. Ok I've just asked him right now for 3 people he admires; he came out with Mummy. Alexander the Great from Macedonia, and Jackie Chan.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11534)   ranked 616 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

He sounds very bright. Seems as if u have done a good job w/him. thumbup

 
8. mladenovicvuk (8)   ranked 30,993 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

Seriously I hate MJ,when pop,rock,metal star are death everybody makes them Gods...MJ is just another Elvis Prisly:))


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi mladenovicvuk, so you also disagree presumabley then with the mass media coverage of a basic non story of little news importance. I remember hearing of the death of Elvis via Radio Luxembourg but in no way remember the media then talking about nothing else for the next month, there was still real news to be reported on then.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11534)   ranked 616 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

There is no comparison between elvis presley & mj. I was a huge elvis fan & don't appreciate such a comparison between the two. Elvis did have drug prooblems & that was such a shame BUT HE WAS THE KING & ALWAYS WILL BE IN MY BOOK. He was not a child molestoe like mj was. very bad comparison in my opinion. angry


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

I hope that was directed at the newbie Aunty.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11534)   ranked 616 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

It sure was thea, made me ill for him to compare elvis to mj.

 
9. myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1186)   ranked 823 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

Dear Thea,

It is the same here in this part of the world.
My son heard of MJ but nothing much about him besides
the knowledge that he is a singer, which later get fairer
skin and had done plastic surgery. But since June 25th 2009,
everyday, everywhere - TV news, Yahoo News, blogs, e-mails,
radio all about MJ. Out of sudden he is busy searching about MJ
in the net, putting MJ videos on his blog, watching MJ concert
on Saturday night since the TV channel still dedicate MJ month
even now already in end of August! In the whole month of June &
July almost all the channels in the radio playing MJ songs everyday!

MJ 'moon walk', MJ songs titles...then he would say 'I never knew
this song is MJ song!, then he read newspaper recently on the report
of MJ overdose..so on and so forth!

You know my son like about theme park, now he is wondering how big is
MJ 'NeverLand' theme park... rolleyes

All the best and take care!




myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Hi Iriene, your son seems to have got it bad, in my own sons case he just can't believe that this one event can drag on so endlessly and the video was only found to expressely annoy me, not because he wants to emulate him. But even in Malayasia now it has taken over the media, I would rather see a news report from Malaysia which of course will never happen unless you were to suffer a large national disaster. Such nonsense coverage and obsession leads to less real news being reported. Please explain to your son the wastage of money over this neverland theme park and how bad budgetary practices would surely have lead to its forced selling to cover the debts. Thea

 
10. myLot reputation of 66/100. psycospaz (199)   ranked 7,798 out of 38,461 in life   5 months ago

There are many problems with the Media, however most of them stem from us, the viewers. News shows are just like any other TV show and need ratings, so they have reformatted their shows and what they air to get people to watch, and I guess it is working. Even though so many people say it that they are sick about hearing about MJ or the Obamams they still watch, which still drives up ratings, which tells the news people "they must like it, let's air some more."

I have some friends that are in visual media and they hate what it has become. Spoon (my best friend in the whole world.) is attempting to become a movie producer and even has a few scripts written, but main stream Hollywood won't even look at him, because his stuff doesn't fit into the new "Hollywood" look. I guess because his scripts aren't either all hippy lovey or over the top gruesome like SAW.

Great topic though.:D Happy Mylotting!


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

hi psycospaz, the point you make is something I really hadn't considered that much, that the news is now goverened by ratings so obviously then it dumbs down to mass market appeal. It has always been that way with newspapers but I always think of the news as more of a 'public service broadcast.' In the UK the BBC represented the government line so was always to be taken with a pinch of salt, but at least it funded other new options for the more serious minded, such as the excellent 'Newsnight'. Together with Channel 4 news we could appreciate investigative journalism rather than the headline facts with no depth. But as you are now depicting a ratings war over news coverage then without doubt the nonsense celebrity culture will come to dominate the news out of all proportion.


myLot reputation of 66/100. psycospaz (199)   ranked 7,798 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

I really started noticing it when the morning shows changed their formats to more of a talk show, happy go lucky feel. And that is when I quit watching the news. Fox and ABC is the worse for those types, I think. But if that is what the masses want, that is what the masses get.


myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4760)   ranked 3 out of 38,461 in life  5 months ago

Don't you have any unbiased media who question. Whenever I've seen Michael Moore he always seems to have a pretty good insight.

 
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