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myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes4 months ago

happy Hello:) When I was in school years ago, we had a "dress code" but did not wear uniforms. There are some debates today about dress codes and uniforms...some believe it robs a student of their individuality, while others feel that it puts students on equal ground and helps prevent "labeling" of some as odd, poor, etc.

Do the students in your area have a special dress code or do they wear uniforms? Or are they allowed to dress however they wish? What do you think is best, and why?

Karen

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. ibuemma (1226)   ranked 152 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

My daughter's school don't have any uniform but they do have the dress codes. So, they can wear anything as long as they are not violated the dress codes.
When I was in school, I did wear uniform. My mom said sometimes it's better with uniform, so it don't give a headache on what to wear every morning.
My daughter only 8 and 6 yrs old, and a lot of times we kind of argue of what she going to wear the next day...LOL...which is won't happen if they have uniform.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hello Ibuemma. Your mom has made a good point that I had not thought of. My three daughters used to agonize and fret and take forever to decide what to wear to school each day. So yes, a uniform would resolve that LOL.

I appreciate you sharing that. thumbupthumbup

Karen

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. lologirl2021 (1629)   ranked 60 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

Well in my area where i live there are pubic schools, magnet schools, charter schools and private schools. The charter and private schools all have a uniform they have to wear from school that they had to buy from the school. All other schools that are in the county must wear a collard t-shirt tucked in with a belt. This dress code is kind hard for some kids but they let a few slip buy hear and there. Some of the high schools around town only allow collard shirts of certain colors which is kinda ridiculous but i guess its better that way for that school. NO schools allows flip flops and you must not wear them ever you must have a shoe not look like a flip flop to wear it to school. Dress codes can be good and can be bad.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hi Lolo. As you said, there is good and bad about dress codes, but flip flops are banned here, too, for safety reasons. I do agree with the logic of that. Also, kids here cannot wear things that show too much flesh, etc., which is just common decency.

I do know that when something allowable is a fad and expensive, it sets some kids apart and they are labeled "poor" or picked on. To me, that is sad. sad

Take care and have a great night. thumbup

Karen

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. pinklemonade (366)   ranked 398 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

In my country all schools wear uniform and I am glad. Our uniforms were horrible, expensive and uncomfortable but I have a feeling bullying would be a lot worse than it is now if no uniforms were present. School is already divided up into groups of people and if students were able to express themselves as an individual even more I am sure it would come even more extreme. I suffered from bullying throughout school with our uniforms on, I used to hate the days where for some occasion we got to wear our own clothes. It was horrible as everyone judged you on what you wore. Weirdly enough, I wear my own clothes to university and did at college too. I think it is more appropriate when you have left school as you tend to leave that kind of childishness behind.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hi Pink...nice screen name:) I agree that uniforms put all the kids on a more equal footing as to how one looks and that less teasing would result. I see that as a positive thing. thumbup

And yes, once we reach college, it is far less childish in the respect of picking on people for what they do or do not wear.

Thank you for your input and have a good night. thumbup

Karen

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. mimpi1911 (8087)   ranked 431 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

happy

Hi Karen!

How are you doing? Miss you.

Coming to the discussion, I am in favour ofa dresscode till school level. I feel itsessential in the growing process of a child.The feeling of being one and also not being distracted by prosperity andextravagance is very important. This also instills in us a feeling of oneness,decorum and obeyance.




myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hi Mimpi...it is so nice to see you:)) Like you, I also believe that a dress code or uniform is a good thing to keep the children more equal as to what is worn. It doesn't make one stand apart from another and discourages kids from picking on one another about who can or cannot afford which clothes. thumbup

Thank you for you input, and again, nice to see you:))thumbup

Karen


zanragtg (27)   ranked 1,942 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

if i am a headmaster (your school) i'll make it up to you


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy LOL, thank you Zan...have a great evening!

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11268)   ranked 123 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

tHEY DO NOT WEAR UNIFORMS BUT THERE IS A DRESS CODE & THEY STICK BY IT as they should. Some of the students boys & girls alike would come to school w/it all hanging out if they could. Wonder where the parents are when they do this?????


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hello my friend. I am glad they have a dress code in our schools, too. Even young children have a tendency to dress too provocatively these days if rules are not enacted and enforced. That kind of behavior comes soon enough as it is!!

I hope your evening is going well. Thank you for responding. thumbup

Karen

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 285 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

Hello my friend smoochess to you happy



I think school uniforms are the best thing since banana pudding, not only do they look nice when you see all the kids dressed in their uniform it saves a lot of money for the parents, and like you said it cuts down on the teasing for kids that might not be able to afford the expensive jeans or whatever it is others kids may wear, I love the idea thumbup


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Smooches back to you, Miss Kitty! I am also all for a dress code, and better yet, uniforms! It saves problems in many areas...what to wear each day, how much money must be spent on the clothes, and yes, no one need feel set aside or inferior or superior when all dress alike!thumbup

Have a great evening. thumbup

Karen


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 285 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


Best thing that ever happened to these schools if you ask me thumbup


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 285 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy

How is your day going so far? I could not get online, when I did get a connection I was barely holding on, now it seems o.k so I had a really slow start to day, have to play catchup and clear my notifications lol shocked


smoochess my wonderful friend happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

thumbdown Ugh! I hate when the internet connection is flubbing. I've had sort of a tired day, but busy between a couple of rests, since it's chilly and rainy.:D

I'm glad you finally got online!!thumbup

Smoochers.

K


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 285 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


Yes I am glad as well, its really nice outside today I am happy, I hate the heat lol angry


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

thumbup Too much heat is hard on me, too! So enjoy the coolness:)


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 285 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy



Trust me I am, sitting in the window right now lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Good mornin', Sunshine!


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 285 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

Hello my friend happy


Well I got this one a little late thumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. CORDALE (367)   ranked 610 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

Hello karen I live in alabama and yes this year we went to uniforms. It was a pain in the butt to have to buy 5 sets of uniforms for all 4 of my kids but now that this is over with I think this is a great idea. The uniform policy has put a end to our boys walking around with their pants hanging down showing off the behind and although it hasnt stopped this completely it is has decreased it significantly. also I have noticed my sons taking pride in making sure they are within the school code with much more serious precautions. So I do think that uniforms are the way to go and for the parents of large families like myself we dont have to worry about kids being teased because they dont have the namebrand clothes. Everything is now basic.
Thanks!


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hi Cordale. Clothes seem to cost so much no matter what kind they are! I am happy that the uniforms have had a positive effect on your sons. I can also see a great advantage for kids who cannot afford all the name brand things which cost a fortune! thumbup

Thank you for responding thumbup

Karen

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13865)   ranked 143 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

In my opinion a uniform is far preferable, we had a dress code at our school and had to wear all the right clothes, failure to do this meant we were either sent home or letters to our parents warning us about the rules of wearing the correct clothes, and jewellery too, boys weren't even allowed to wear earings, that's how far I go back! I do believe this is for the greater good, because if you were able to wear your own clothes there would be added bullying for families who were not able to dress their children in the latest fashion or with designer labels and tags would be subject to bullying and called names. Bullying was bad enough at me school, believe me I was the subject of it, I think if we didn't have uniform then I would have got bullied even more, as my family were not rich, far from it. It also distinguishes the school by the uniform so if there is any trouble outside school it reflects badly on the school and the perpetrators can easily be named and shamed by the uniform they are wearing, so it teaches them that their behaviour is not only monitored in school but outside too. I do hope they never decide to do away with uniforms especially in this day and age where designer labels are a must and sadly bullying goes on.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hi Wolfie. We also had a dress code "back in the day," mostly for purposes of decency (mini skirts were "in") and for neatness. Girls were not allowed to wear jeans or slacks, and boys had to keep there hair short enough not to hang over the collar of their shirts.

I was teased a lot for hand-me-downs in grade school, so uniforms would put an end to that, and as you said, it makes it easier for one to identify a childs/teens school affiliation!thumbup

So, up with uniforms...and have a great evening. thumbup

Karen


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13865)   ranked 143 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

You too! I'm off to bed now Karen, night night, sweet dreams!


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

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9. myLot reputation of 86/100. lwelizabeth (159)   ranked 609 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

Lately, it seems that more and more schools in my area are enforcing uniforms. When I was growing up, there was no dress code until I got to middle school. (I'm not sure if that was distrcit-wide or schoolwide though.) When I got to high school, I actually attended a school for two years, one of which enforced a dress code. After that I left and went to another high school which had no uniform requirement although it did have a dress code. Honestly, my best memories from high school, or any years of schooling for that matter, were from that one year I was required to wear a uniform to school. I don't know if it prevents the 'labeling' so to speak, but it does seem to have had an affect on the majority of the students academically speaking. It seems that students were able to focus better without the distraction of another students loud t-shirt of outfit, if that makes sense. And no one could get made fun of for their outfit because everyone else was wearing pretty much the same thing, though there were slight variations (mainly one of four different colors were allowed.)

(Wow, this is quite long..apologies for those who don't like to read that much!)


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hello Elizabeth:) I had dress codes when in high school, too, and yes, kids that age are very much into styles, trends, and friends. So a uniform definitely would have squashed some of the distractions that hindered study!thumbup

And with uniforms, no monentary distinctions are obvious. That always makes it harder for those who cannot afford to go trendy or name brand. It's a shame, but that is how it has been for a long time.

Like you, I think uniforms are a great idea!thumbup

Karen

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10. zareenalot (63)   ranked 1,038 out of 1,972 in clothes   4 months ago

Hi,Well talking about uniforms and dress codes in schools i think its necessary to maintain unity among all.There is nothing that by having uniforms students will lost their individuality.By having these rules students can be controlled in certain limits.In our country every school has uniforms and some colleges also have some dress codes as per their rules.So,i prefer these dress codes in all schools.And anyhow one day in a week is allowed to wear normal dress in some of the schools.If they want they can dress up as they like but according to dress code rules.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2721)   ranked 14 out of 1,972 in clothes  4 months ago

happy Hello Zareen. You make so much sense in your line of reasoning for prefering that all schools should have uniforms. And yes, for other days, a dress code. Such guidelines do prevent many troubles and begin our young people on a more equal footing. happy

I appreciate your input here and wish you a good evening. thumbup

Karen

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