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mommy101 (20)   ranked 5,700 out of 6,696 in had children4 months ago

I am a new mother of a boy who just turned one and I am 5 months pregnant, ive never felt so frustrated and lost in my own shoes before. i feel like i get mad at everything and i have no control over it! im always so exausted adn im always worrying about something! my biggest worry now is that i wont accumulate enough hours for mat. leave. My boyfriend that i am living with has no clue what it like to be me and he is complaining that i "nag" too much about everything! the only thing is he has no idea what im going through and it seems like its more work with him here!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 80/100. ZephyrSun (3498)   ranked 95 out of 6,696 in had children   4 months ago

It's really hard when you first become a mother and since the baby doesn't come with a user guide it makes it even harder. It has to be even more hard when you're pregnant and have baby. I have three boys 13, 11, and 5 and with the first one I thought I was going to die with everything I had to do and learn. You said it seems like more work with him there, that is exactly how I felt as well. Do you have any friends or family that is close to you that could maybe take your 1 year old a few hours a week? Believe me even those few hours alone help a lot. Even if it is to only take a nap, it really helps.

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. ybonjoc (939)   ranked 1,560 out of 6,696 in had children   4 months ago

Hello there mommy101,
I know how that feels.I am a mother of a 1 year old boy.And the time I gave birth, I got so scared of having another 1 again.To tell you honestly, I have no plans of having another baby again.When I got pregnant, I really felt so depressed, a lot of worries that is haunting and bothering me.And hubby does not understand my concerns and what I am going through during my pregnancy.
I think the best thing I can say to you is, you need to explain those things to your bf to let him understand what you are going through.Explain to him the things that worry you.I hope he can understand.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. patriciaqualls (4604)   ranked 668 out of 6,696 in had children   4 months ago

The feelings that you have are very normal.
My daughters are 15 and 12 and when I was pregnant
with my second daughter it seemed like
everything bothered me. My ex husband was never there for either
one of my pregnancies I guess looking back that was a good thing for me.
But he was never there for me when I needed him. Just take
one day at a time. You will be ok everything will work out.
Good luck to you and congratulations.

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