Signs Husband Having An Affair

Gosh Umi that's a hard one. I would say if he's threatening to do it either he already has and feels bad about it, and this is his way of letting you know, or he's wanting more attention from you, and thinks that if he threatens an affair you will basically jump when he says jump.

In my past experience when my ex was having an affair one of the first things he did was he began to accuse me of having an affair. He would threaten to leave, I would catch him in little lies like he would say he was going to be at a friends house, well I wanted him to stop by the store on his way home so I called his friends house and found out he wasn't there at all that day. He would come home later, or sometimes not at all and say he stayed over at his friends house because he drank to much and didn't want to drive home.

I'd say if your husband hasn't had an affair yet, he is definitely thinking about it. Have you asked him why he wants to have an affair? There has to be a reason for him to say these things, maybe there is a way you two can work it out.

Best of luck to you both.

actual signs of each man is different. There are more often give presents because they feel guilty, there is also a fact ignored by the wife. the signs must not be predictable. we must believe it with my husband. even though my husband had an affair, but I never asked my husband. the signs, the husband has another woman, will appear alone. we just have to careful with the changes in the husband.