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myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life4 months ago

My life, your life and an ocean of life. This is the oder of the universe that love begets love.

When we are in our adolescence we get attracted to the opposite sex and in most case we end up falling in love (?) and it continues for few till it gets the final touch but in majority it meets premature death.

Well while I was in 9th standard i fell or should I say that she fell in love with me and we just loved and did not do anything ok. But by the time I passed out my High school my love hanged and all was over.

Had you had such thing while you were in school? Please share.


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tags:  school, love, mature content, love in teen age, puppy love
 
1. myLot reputation of 90/100. aminul8427 (1261)   ranked 1,404 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

Hi Rajib! Falling in love in school is not so realistic. When I was a student of class ten, then I liked someone but I could not tell her. Later on she became doctor and I became Engineer but still we could not tell each other about our feelings. She got married with another gentleman and I also got married with another girl. Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi Aminul.

Kemon, boledibo ki sabai ke? It happens. natural. But I feel my engineer friend that you should have told her your feeling. May be the history would have been differently written.

Thanks for sharing.


myLot reputation of 90/100. aminul8427 (1261)   ranked 1,404 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

You are very right. Tumi thik boleso. Have a nice day.

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. krupesh (1069)   ranked 2,222 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

Yes when I was in 10th std I fell in love or rather it was infatuation.It was till we parted ways after 10th.She joined a different college & joined another.Thats it.After that no communication.I had a lot of flings when I was in college.There were all very short.Finally mine is a love marriage.Now I dont look at other gilrs like that(like that).hahahawink


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi Krupesh, is not it fun that the flow of emotion at that period would be so strong that we would if possible rebel against the world but when time lapses and you grow a little bigger things yet again takes another shape.

Thanks for the response.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. coolcat123 (3472)   ranked 1,148 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

now, when we grow up, we realise that the feelings for some one in the school was not love rather an attraction which we have mistaken as love.
no seroiusness that time and the time soon comes when we realise the truth as the school time is the time of misguarding and having new wings to fly but not the correct time to do it.


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5908)   ranked 632 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

I remember the song 'Puppy love'. Falling in and out of love was common in those teen days when the true meaning of love was still at its infancy. It wasn't true love though but just infatuation. Just being attracted to that nice looking guys from the next class. As I entered college, the desire to love and be loved becomes more intense. The few flings I had add up to my experiences with the so called love but of course I had never gone beyond the boundary of friendships. I was too naive and ignorant that kept the distance of the relationship at arms length. Being daughters my parents were not happy to see us going out for dates and was anxious to find suitors for the daughters. Much to my annoyance I was forced to marry the first guy that came knocking at my house. There was no choice but to agree and that ends my freedom. The rest is history. Every women should have kissed many toads before meeting their prince charming. Would it not? rasp


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Ohhh those days!!!! how hard I long to go back to that time. If possible I would rewind and be again the teen lover waiting for her letter to come and listen the pounding heart and the dying desire to steal a look!!! Where o where art thou now?

Time has changed my dear. You are a grown up (boyish)fellow and look the reality. And yes i see the reality and it is nothing.

So you too had love love feeling and did not fall somehow? I fell coming to college too and it was serious and had vowed not to separate in this life. But destiny had something else in store and we got separated and the poor me (?) have not seen her for the past 15 years.

"Every women should have kissed many toads before meeting their prince charming. Would it not?" the answer is YES.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5908)   ranked 632 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Reminiscing the past love story do bring the thoughts back to the one you have loved and lost. Heartthrob which I believe you are still dreaming of the day to meet her, to know how she fares in life, to see her now in here gray hair, a little wrinkled face and probably a bit out of shape. You wonder what life would have been if she had been the one, the queen of your heart that runs the fortress and bear the fruit of love. It has been a chapter in history for every one of us who has been sailing in the sea of love once upon a time. May the memories once cherished be for keeps to cement the ongoing life of our (God) chosen mate. The bitter sweet memories lingers on.....I wish how I wish it could have been different. But believe me our fate lies in God's hand. Two souls braved sunshine and storm together, stand like two great trees, their branches intertwined, facing the sunrise of God's tomorrow. That is the family given by God to your care!thumbuphappy


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi madam,

The lingering sweet pain prevails and loom large as I ponder over those years which is a history now. i hold exactly the image when we had last see of each other and now with gray hair here and there and an elderly look would squeeze my heart, may be she is not the person I was in love and was ready to fetch the star in the sky.

What a paradox.

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5. myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5471)   ranked 185 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

I sure did and I ended up marrying him after seven years! I met my first love when I was fifteen and he was sixteen. We stuck together until I turned 21 and we got married. It was all like a fairy tale until four and a half years later when we learned that we got too together when we were way too young and sadly it came to an end.
It was a case of right person wrong time. We have both remarried other people and we have children now and we are happy and I guess that it how it was meant to be. No regrets, it was a lovely part of my life.
happy


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi Paula,

So it was 7 years wait and then union and again minus union but the tender memory are still lingering around like the aura of fragrance. Very nice if there is no regret. Do you see each other some time? How do you feel recollecting those days? I too loved and missed before we could finally unite. It was a long 5 years voyage and the ship could not rich the shore and there occurred shipwreck. sad


myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5471)   ranked 185 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

We have only caught a few times over the years and the last time was about three years ago and that was only by phone. We separated in an amicable way and hold no resentment for one another and we are both happy that our lives are content with new partners. happy


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

That is great indeed. Separated still there is no ill feeling towards each other and instead both are contended with each other's new partner. Really nice and feels lie a fantasy story. surrender

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. Sir_bobby88 (6942)   ranked 3,937 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

well i did fall love in school and i do love my primary school life yea .


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

So what happened afterwards? You have not detailed here.

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7. MLEML88 (14)   ranked 29,241 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

I will end up my college life with being no love in college.Before entering college,i was busy with my study,and had no time to be in love.Even if having time,we aren't allowed to do that.Plus,i am a girl with so much curiosity in my small mind,so that i am eager to love,or be love.After entering the college,the feelings become more intense than before.Instead of waiting for someone,i am always searching for those good looking guys,and taking initiative to tell him what i feel about him.But always fail!
Maybe i will miss opportunity to be in love in college!


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi friend,

Do not worry one day you will find one who would love you beyond anything. and one thing try not to reveal your feeling too soon. good luck.

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. taztheone (1209)   ranked 988 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

TO be frank I had my first love when I was in 7th grade, then in 8th. Well you will feel love after you are at a stage where you realize the difference between a girl & a boy or when you understand the relation between a girl & a boy. However the Love when we where small can be called as immature love & until you become an adult, you won't realize the true meaning of love. thumbup


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi taz, so you were twice in love in school. I, however, not try to prescribe if bad or good but know that almost all we have the similar experience at that stage. Might be that is puppy love and when we grow up that love or infatuation vanishes and we have entirely a new definition of love. And it still keeps on changing colours.

Thanks for sharing. happy

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9. myLot reputation of 86/100. triptibaby (258)   ranked 5,592 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

Hi Rajib, I forgot to fall in love during my school days. To be true, it is quite difficult to fall in love during school days as we have the restrictions at home to open up to others. Moreover, I was studying in a girl school. In our part and in our time, falling in love was something which people don't approve.


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi trpti,

Lol forgot to fall in loveblinkblink???? For the first time I am getting conversant with such experience and expression of people that they forget to fall in love.

Yes I accept what could have restricted you from falling in love. Specially girls in here have to be too careful not to get distracted by the boys. Home is the main hurdles and might be it was not so easy a subject to converse with each other.

Thanks for the response. Do not take offense.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. derek_a (5152)   ranked 1,280 out of 38,421 in life   4 months ago

Oh yeh, that was a long time ago. I was just 12 years old and got to know this girl in my class and we were just hooked on each other straight away. The problem we that she was from overseas and was only in my country for six weeks whilst her mother was visiting some sick relatives. She had to leave, and I went through a strong sense of loss for the first time in my life. I just couldn't understand it and it took months for me to get over it. Had she stayed, I don't know what would have happened, it would probably have just faded way maybe.. or maybe not.. happy - Derek


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Hi Derek,

My heart goes with you. how badly you must have had missed her as she was no more there. I can understand your feeling though now I may not be in that stage still can recollect those days and the emotional state attached to that age.

Did she love you? Which country she was from? Just curious.


myLot reputation of 99/100. derek_a (5152)   ranked 1,280 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

Yes. She said she loved me, and we both cried on her last day. It was quite an early wake-up call for both of us I think! She was going back to the USA and my country is the UK. happy - Derek


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2494)   ranked 964 out of 38,421 in life  4 months ago

This is a foul play by life. Ok if you are still content whatsoever you have life wheel go on...

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