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myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 14 out of 12,336 in friend3 months ago

I wanted to thank my friends in all the midst of yesterdays turmoil. I just can't thank you enough for believing me or having some faith in me. I might have done one mistake but the rest of the whole thing believe me was never how it was told. I am amazed at how many people just took what was written as fact, jumped to conclusions, and then stoned me. Honestly that is the way I felt, stoned. I read each and every comment back on that discussion and it hurt for those who have written to me before and believed it the discussion.

I have a friend right now (where I live) who is being accused of something and I have been helping the family gather evidence to prove his innocence and I told my husband that I felt so sorry for him because he knew as well as I did that he didn't do it. He doesn't understand my need to help but then my husband knows that I just help out when I shouldn't. I thank my husband for having faith in me about things. Just a few weeks ago he did something that I thought was awful but we talked about it and I had jumped to conclusions. It's good to listento the other side first before doing things that are forever changing in the relationship. For those who cared enough to notcast the first stone, thank you for having some faith in me...... happy

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 78/100. adam1980 (453)   ranked 3,228 out of 12,336 in friend   3 months ago

i have no idea what went on but i am glad that there are good people that supported you in this


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 14 out of 12,336 in friend  3 months ago

The next two mylotters make sure you have them on your add friend list....they are the greatest.... wink

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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. skysuccess (2319)   ranked 4,797 out of 12,336 in friend   3 months ago

andalond,

I feel that there is nothing to be anxious when you are never guilty of any misdeeds. An accusation without any base or concrete evidence is just nothing but empty hollering.

It is important that when things happen, we should never forget to remain calm and levelheaded to hear from all sides. As the saying goes: "More haste; less speed" so if one rushes through the process, we will just miss the vitals and let the culpable party run away with murder.

I am glad that you have learned a very important lesson and just hope that all will be well with everyone. Also, as good friends we should never forget who our friends really are.

Just share an old Chinese proverb here: "Over a long distance, you learn about the strength of your horse; over a long time, you learn about the character of your friend. "

Take care and have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 14 out of 12,336 in friend  3 months ago

Thanks for all the support and advice you gave me Skysuccess. I will follow what you told me and yes....I have learned from this whole experience. So don't ever ask for my number.. winklol


myLot reputation of 80/100. skysuccess (2319)   ranked 4,797 out of 12,336 in friend  3 months ago

andalond,

Or you can always say "No" to me, you know?

I am sure I ain't that unreasonable as not to accept a "No" for an answer, right?wink Sometimes, we just need to say "No" and I am sure it saves a lot of hassles at the end of the day.

Take care and have a great weekend. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 14 out of 12,336 in friend  3 months ago

Thank you, they should have a group that just teaches you to just say no. My husband lectured me last night on the whole thing but I took it at heart for what it is, he actually doesn't have a problem telling someone no so my parents tell me send them to your husband when you can't say no. lol Yesterday a friend came over and all I wanted was to sit at home with the kids and later see a movie. Well my whole day was changed when we got invited to go here and there. I think I did it mainly because I knew they were sad about what was happening in their life right now. sad

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. onlydia (1609)   ranked 73 out of 12,336 in friend   3 months ago

Well, sometimes we need to remember also how we would act in that case. But I have known you for a long time now and we have been there for each other on all kinds of things. You will be OK and take care my friend. Your friend onlydia


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 14 out of 12,336 in friend  3 months ago

Thank you so much for all the support you gave me during these times. I finally figured out how to report the abuse the right way so that is why it took so long. sad You made me so happy when I read your email. I felt thank goodness you didn't judge me the wrong way. Thank you....


myLot reputation of 98/100. onlydia (1609)   ranked 73 out of 12,336 in friend  3 months ago

This is my take on it just leave it alone. And it will all be good. Son't loose what you got from it. You will see later not right away but later on. Read your bible and you will see. Your friend onlydia


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 14 out of 12,336 in friend  3 months ago

I will Onlydia, in fact I got to get the kids ready for church today. I thank God that this whole thing didn't escalate. This was one hard lesson but all for the goodness of what our choices in life can do.

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