What Do I Do Now?  | | As many of you know, I am fresh out of an almost 6 year relationship. We broke up about a month ago, got back together, broke up again. It is permanant this time. It was a very bad relationship, full of abuse, both physical and mental. I developed mental problems, had no friends, etc.So I need to know what do I do now? How do I get back out into the real world, make friends, enjoy life again>? Have you been in a bad relationship? How long did it take you to "recover"?
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| | | | | | 1. learn2earn (10543) | 4 months ago | Until now, I am still in the recovery period after my dearly beloved have asked to leave me because she doesn't love me anymore. It may be really tough at times as the burdens are building up. But I just encourage myself in the Lord my God. I have new friends and new acquaintances. I think that it's good for you to be interested in other people...
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erikmama (1882) | 4 months ago | I look to the good Lord above for help...I have no friends or family to depend on. He will see me through it! Thanks for your response!
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| | 2. Graceekwenx (537) | 4 months ago | hello erikmama... i too had been in a bad relationship but not like yours. there were also financial issues involved. I was able to recover in 3 years. slow huh? really... when i fall, i really fall down hard.
you can get back into the real world by tapping your family, try getting strength from them... and i forgot, i would suggest that you pray. Prayers had helped me a lot to get on my feet. you might want to get yourself involved in some groups who have the misery as yours and try befriending one of them as both of you have a common background.
Good luck erikmama. I will include you in my prayers ok. Allow yourself to cry, it is very normal.
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erikmama (1882) | 4 months ago | Prayers are about all I have...I have no friends or family to turn to. The tears were gone long ago, but it is hard at times. I was with him a very long time-just us. I know God will see me through it all. Thanks so much for your response and your prayers!
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Graceekwenx (537) | 4 months ago | yes dear you'll make it through. try cleanup in your place at home and at work, and then go with support groups. Mylot is a therapy also. so dont loose touch.
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| | 3. dumblnddzzy (10258) | 4 months ago | hI SWEETIE,first off congratulations for finally getting out of a abusive relationship...it takes a lot of guts to getout & stay out of it...I was in a 25 year relationship that was extremely abusive.Mentally,physiclly,emotionally & sexually. I've been thru some things tht NO woman should ever haveto go thru &live to tell about it...if you want to talk to me 'pm' me &i'll help with whatever you need help with..it does take a lot of work to stay away from him...Lori
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