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myLot reputation of 63/100. jeiay41 (484)   ranked 2,068 out of 19,372 in questions & answers4 months ago

I've been curious quite some time now thinking why this marriage is only for two different people without any blood relationship. I ask my mom about this and she said it a cousin married his cousin the baby they will created will be abnormal.

So mylotters, what are you thoughts about this issue. I'll be happy to read each of opinion you had.

 
 
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tags:  relative, inbreeding, incest, mature content, cousins
 
1. myLot reputation of 66/100. Jill22 (227)   ranked 11,520 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

It's immoral for our culture and religion! I don't know with yours!


myLot reputation of 63/100. jeiay41 (484)   ranked 2,068 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

why in my home town living in the forest, its legal?


myLot reputation of 66/100. Jill22 (227)   ranked 11,520 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

huh? I didn't quite get you!

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2. Realsmack (91)   ranked 2,839 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

Look, if you want to marry someone who is related to you then go right ahead. The only thing you have to deal with is society. Don't get me wrong it's pretty nasty to marry someone whom you are family with. But you have your wants so hey go for it.

I don't understand out of all the people in the world why you want to marry someone you're related to. But it is what it is. Don't look for a reason why you can't because when it all boils down to it, you can do whatever it is you please. There is a loop hole around everything. If you're looking for clarity or clearance for this watn then I would advise you to let it go because more than likely you aren't going to find much.


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2333)   ranked 2,772 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

If you marry someone related to you up to first degree your babies going to have a defect or abnormality. During the old days the rich and powerful people married their relatives so there power or fortune would not be transfer outside their kin. I think if you marry your relative the society going to judge you. My mother told us that in their province there's a rich family that married their relatives because they want to retain their fortune. There children have abnormalities.


Realsmack (91)   ranked 2,839 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

And then that is whereI say if you are ok with your kids being abnormal then hey go for it. Not my kind of thing but for some people, it's a ok. I'll never understand but there are alot of things I won't understand.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. learn2earn (10828)   ranked 2,887 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

It is not good to marry someone in our family because God designed it to be so. God commanded His people not to marry their own kindred up to the fourth generation. Therefore, if God commanded it, it has significance, and if people intentionally do it, they will suffer the consequences, usually the curse that is associated with it. Therefore, it would be best to follow the commandment of the Lord and be blessed, rather than being cursed forever. happy


myLot reputation of 63/100. jeiay41 (484)   ranked 2,068 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

So you mean this is all religious stuff? But when it comes in civil rights, is this a legal act?


myLot reputation of 91/100. learn2earn (10828)   ranked 2,887 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Thanks for the B.R. Whatever man may say, it doesn't matter. What God had designed is final and irrevocable..


rocket2020 (80)   ranked 2,622 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Have any one seen God? Did You have any direct contact with God??? My dear learn2earn their are religion(or rather God) which ask it's followers to marry their own people,like when a Niece get married with the maternal uncle specifically in Muslims society they find it very correct one, to follow the God commands,and I am sure you too know it very well, then Your God and the God of Muslims faith are in direct conflict,so it's all rubbish!!! what really matter is that your Wisdom,your judgment,your upbringing,and so on.
Again please notice the civilization; which was the older one, and the religion associated with it;at that time they were ignorant scientifically just like wild animals but have hugh flexibility to do the research through error and trial and there by came into a concrete ideology while the latter religion more or less were a kind of revolt from the previous one which gave birth to a whole new religion and again another revolution and another religion with totally different ideology.So this chain reaction continued (here one thing is important that the latter religion were indirectly proportional to TIME that is to say that the latest one or the latter one are having less time to think for....therefore no such trial and error episodes...,an accidental religion without any base of its own,hence a ridged one).
At the end there is only one all mighty God,and remaining all the other things or the problems are created by we human beings and therefore the time tested methods are the best one and therefore few are lucky one's who belongs to the earliest civilization by product while the latest are the roughs one.Go into the History one will find all the truth about their future..... So find it out your self and be fair to your thinking.....


myLot reputation of 77/100. jamesnitp (751)   ranked 4,029 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Well, that's the only reason why muslims even after being given special rights and more facilities are backward as compared to other religions.
Believe it or not you try to increase your population by producing more babies. But while others by making newer relations with marriages.
It gives the whole community a refreshing, and rejuvenates all.
People like the relations very well.

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4. CroakDesigns (99)   ranked 5,674 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

I can't understand why anyone would WANT to marry a relative. Are you talking first cousins or distant cousins?

A baby between cousins would not necessarily be abnormal, but if a certain medical condition runs in your family, the baby would have a greater chance of inheriting it, as it would be getting the same genes, or similar, from each parent.


In this day and age with all the fertility clinics and sperm and egg donors out there, there is a possibility that some day somewhere, half siblings, or cousins, WILL meet and cultivate relationships with each other and never even know it.


myLot reputation of 63/100. jeiay41 (484)   ranked 2,068 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Ahh, i didnt know that. If you have a blood line problem it will be probably have high possibility that the children will get the bloodline diseases.

I think this is the most relevant fact i didn't know up until now. Thanks for that info friend, your surely studying good when your in your school days.

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. madugulagopi (664)   ranked 1,639 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

It doesnot have anything to with God or religion.It has to do with science and genes It has been proved geneticaaly that if people who are genetically closely related get married then it will have an affect on the children they will have.The effect may be some physical problem or regarding mind.That is why people advise us not to marry our relatives.Ofcourse it doesnot happen in every case but there are chances.Anyway when i say relatives i mean those who are very much close in bloodline not distant ones.
That is it.When ppl say not to marry ur cousins its because for the children that you will have but not about religion or something.The main problem comes with ppl who marries their own sisters daughter that is girls who marry their maternal uncles.Those pairs are genetically closely related and so in those cases problem arises remaining cases I don't think there would be great problems.SO this is the reason for this but don't put it on God or religion...


myLot reputation of 63/100. jeiay41 (484)   ranked 2,068 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

I just read all of the comments here and most of you give negative vibes towards having a baby. How about the two person have a genius genes from einstein and thomas edison, would it be great if your child will going to invent a futuristic device that no one can ever imagine like a "teleportation device". That would be fun.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. mike197601 (2867)   ranked 527 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

I just checked and apparently it is legal in the UK for cousins to marry but not advisable.
Any blood relatives who marry carry a far greater risk of producing a genetically defective baby or their offspring doing the same.

Basically it is illegal for close blood relatives to marry and also a very bad thing for the collective gene pool.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (3101)   ranked 771 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi Mike, I think that it is still legal in the U.K. from Queen Victoria's time when some of her children were married to cousins. Europe and Russia one big family. I had friends who were first cousins and married. The sad thing was that they were the product of the union of two sisters marrying two brothers. She never even changed her name. One of her two sons has real mental issues but both of her sons who are now in their late 30's have never married or had children. My friends are still together but their children do not live in the same country and see them perhaps once or twice a year. Personally, I always thought that they were somewhat selfish to have children. They were so close relatives that the wife never even changed her name. I agree with you that it is awful for the collective gene pool.

 
7. myLot reputation of 90/100. blueeyedmommy03 (201)   ranked 5,843 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. marguicha (3595)   ranked 87 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

It depends on how far the blood ties are. In my country you can´t marry a sister, brother, mother or father, but you can marry a cousin.
Chances of having problems with the children are bigger. But it also happens, and worse, in secluded places because there´s a lot of inbreeding.
I doubt that the chances of having an abnormal child are so much more if it´s just once. It´s worse if it ocurred during several generations as it happened with the european kings.

 
9. myLot reputation of 65/100. AjithAnnadurai2009 (361)   ranked 3,982 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

if we marry a relative that is same blood relationship means, it will severely affected the new born baby . Because i m experience in this one . My mom and dad are same blood relationship . So i m affected by many diseases till now . so my point of view is not marry the same blood relationship

 
10. myLot reputation of 90/100. doulaworks (280)   ranked 282 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 months ago

how would you feel if your parents were related? that might help you sort this out. think of the poor kid, hi, my name is XXXX and my mom and dad are cousins,/ brother & sister? that would be hard for them to deal with. I hope one who does this has tons of dough for a good shrink. life is had enough with out mixing family, with family. besides, I have met my cousins and none would even interst me. lol even the good looking ones lol,

 
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