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myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting3 months ago

I have noticed that many of the parents have been checking the
school books of their kids when the kids are going to the school,
because the kids may does not know exactly what they need on that
day time table, so the mother will check properly and keep the
books in the school bag when the kids are going to the school.
So do you check your kids school books when they going to school?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. samson1967 (4964)   ranked 2,109 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

No I will not chekc the books when they are going to school, but ensure that their bag contains all the books as per time table, in the previous night itself.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Samson,

YES YOU ARE RIGHT, Most of the Mothers are taking
care of the kids school bag and have checked properly
and make sure that have all the books according to that day time table,
and kept everything is ready in the previous night itself, because it will
make the students more easy to carry the bag on the next day to the school
without any more checking. The reasons behind is all the small kids don't
have the high matured knowledge and always they are concentrate on playing,
so they may missed some books and notes in the bag according to the time
table. Anyway to help our kids, to make their bag ready when they are going
to the school.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 99/100. vingyan06 (1251)   ranked 797 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Samson,

Do you ever check on their school works? My sister hardly check on her daughter's bag until 1 day the headmaster call her. All the while the daughter will keep her bag and ensure all the books that she needs to bring to school according to the time table. It was happen last week . That was because the girl has so many school works that were not done! My sister took her first time to check on her bag and found out so many school works that the daughter had left behind.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (2745)   ranked 297 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

I don't check their books if they are not at home. I don't think checking should be done like getting into their personals. If I want to check their books; I will do it infront of them. I don't give them a feeling that I am always behind them and checking their books and other stuff secretly.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Daliaj,

You may right, some times the small kids
does not have the maturity to have the specified
books and notes according to that day time table, and must brings to the
schools without any absence, in that case most of the mothers are used to
helps the small kids to prepare the correct books and notes and kept in
in their school bag which is very easy for them to carry their bag to the
school. But according to your idea, we don't really need to check all the
books and bag of the kids, because it will make the kids more doubts on us,
and also we should not do that when they are absence in the home. So we are
helping the kids to arrange their books in their school bag prior to carry
the bag by the kids to the schools.

Have a nice day.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. coolcat123 (3401)   ranked 1,958 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

my mother used to check my bag when i was a kid but i grew, she stopped doing so and the whole school's related responsibility was mine alone. I never packed the bags according to the time table rather i took all my books to school.
I felt hard to take the books according to the time table.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Coolcat,

YES YOU are right, most of the matured children would
take their responsibility to arrange their books and notes
in their bag according to the time table and also which is very easy
for them to carry their bag when they are going to the school. As you
have said that you are feeling too tired to check the books and notes
according to the time table, and was taken all the books and notes
to the school, did you not felt that too weight all the books in the
bag? So try your best to check everyday and arrange the books and
notes with time table which is very easy and also to reduce the
weighted of the unnecessary extra books and notes. So just be relax
and will try to take the books and notes according to that day time
table.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 95/100. coolcat123 (3401)   ranked 1,958 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

i used to choose the biggest/largest bag of the shop in which all my books would fit.many teachers said me about my bag but i was very lazy person and still took all the books.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (8829)   ranked 1,711 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

Hi Bin!
We keep a check on the Note books and text books of our kids and how do they complete their class work and home work and when required, we guide them, how to write better answers for questions, so that they do not face problems during their exams.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Dpk,

You are right, most of the parents have the responsibility
to check the all the notes and books in their school bag
and also to keep according to that day time table which is very easy
for the kids to carry their bag to the school, part from that as a
parents we have to check the all the home work and answers in the
notes if anything is not satisfied then we may help them to correct
with right and good answer which will again make our kids more easy
in their times of examinations. So have a look all the times on our
kids notes and books which will make our kids more understanding on
their subjects.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (8829)   ranked 1,711 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Binthu!
When kids were very young, then I would help them arrange the books as per time table and later when they grew up, I left the job to themselves. However, we kept asking them about the work done in school and kept sorting out their problems about home work or about finding answers from the book. I agree with your other suggestions.
BTW, how many kids do you have?

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Yes dpk,

When the kids are too young then we have to helps them
to arrange the school bags and must contains all the books
and notes according to the Time Table but in later if the kids are became
elder and having the capacity to understand all about the subjects and
school routine work, then we have to handover to them to take care of
everything particularly on school related work, which will helps them
to improve much more better. But at the same time whether the kids are
younger or elder they need good concentration as well as proper guidance
for the education, to get the best grade at their subjects.

Have a nice day.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. Sreekala (1652)   ranked 222 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

Hi Binthu,

Actually my son’s teacher has told us (parents) that let the child alone to arrange his/her bag and you please check it later for making sure that they are carrying the needed books only. I may check his bag before leaving to school due to the weight of his bag, just to make sure that he is not carrying any unwanted stuff. But I am not preparing his bag, I ask him to do the same so that he will learn to shoulder some of the responsibility. So he is making his bag in the night itself and I may recheck it in morning only.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Sreekala,

You are perfectly right, it is also to be considered
as a good habits and to be performed by our kids. As you
have said that giving the chance to our kids to prepare the school bag with
all the necessary books and notes and again as a parents we may check to
confirm the order of the books and notes and to make the bag ready without
any more unwanted stuff in the bag. So as a parents we have to helps our kids
to guide in the home work, as well as teach them good ways to answer
the questions both will help them to get good grade in the examinations. As
the matter of school bag, we have to check in the morning when they are
going to the schools, it will ensure that they don't carry any unwanted
stuff.

Have a nice day.

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6. myLot reputation of 78/100. Puneet097 (108)   ranked 11,757 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

i m though not a mother but a doting brother and my little sister is very cute and she often forget to manage her bag so on behalf of her i do her work.

And it feels very good to me so i can understand yours feelings towards ur kids as u always discuss about ur kids and that interests me most


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Puneet,


Appreciating your deep love on your sisters and also you are
enjoying to participate on all the work of your sister. Yes
that's right, most of the small kids does not have the mentality or matured
mind to have the necessary books and note books according to the time table,
so we have to helps them to arrange their books and notes on their school
bag which will easy for them to carry when they are going to the school.
Most of the parents, especially mothers would always watch and check the
school bags of their kids prior to send them to the school. That is also
one of the best method to avoid the missing of any books to the schools.

Have a nice day.

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. mdvarghese (991)   ranked 11,801 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

We used to check the books before my daughters going to the school. The elder one will take all the books and instrument box properly in her bag. The younger one needs our help to take her necessary books every day. The elder one was also like that when she was in Primary.

My dad used to check all my books until I completed my high school.I used to get
minor treatments from my dad for not maintaining the books properly. Even now he used to tell me that I was in the company of naughty boys and I was the captain of the group.

I used to check their books after coming from school. Here also the elder ones books are very neat. The younger ones some books are made dirty with her crayons.I never punished her. I will always encourage for her drawings.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Varghese,

YES That's right, most of the young kids are does not have
the much knowledge about the work particularly related to the
school so we have to help them out to arrange the books and notes
on their school bag prior to go to the school, but at the same time
with regards to elder students the have more matured mind and also they
knew all the work related to the school, so we have to handover all
the school related works and they will take care of it. So taking
more care and importance on our kids, which will helps them too
to make their life much more better like your personal and younger
stage level.

Have a nice day.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. thhoon72 (172)   ranked 11,803 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

Hello Binthu, how are you lately? I used to check my elder daughter's school bag and homework when she was still in the 1st year of her primary school. This year, she is in 2nd year and I have stopped checking her bag. I want her to be independent and ressponsible for her own schooling stuffs. I started to let her pack her own school bag since March this year. At first, she did miss out some books and homeworks. I keep telling her that she must learn to take care of her own schooling stuffs and mummy got to work and cannot be checking on her everytime. I am really very glad that she is getting used to it now and getting better each day. Cheers=))


aamir030586 (74)   ranked 13,681 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

yes i check of all of my sons books and workbooks...

im too scared if he gets low grades..thatz y i always keep track of his tests..and exams..

im also scared that he does not indulge into bad habits...thatz y i keep spying on my son...hes just 4 yrs old...


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Thhoon,

I am fine and thank you and also expecting the same from you.
YES YOU Are right, most of the parents especially the mothers
are used to check their kids bag whether having the all the
necessary notes books and text books according to the Time Table
prior to go to the school. As you have said the kids are well matured
then we may handover the responsible to the children to take care of the
books in the school bag by them self when they are going to the school.
Most of the younger kids are does not has the knowledge about the books and
notes in the school bag. so we have to helps them to arrange the books
in the School bag and which is very much useful to the kids when they
are going to the school. As a parents we must take more care on the kids
studies, as well as all the home work and grade in the examination, all
will helps the kids to improve the personal life carrier when they are
in the school.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Aamir,

Don't worry about your kids I am sure that they will perform
in the school best and also they will learn many good things
from the school. As he is just 4 years old, so just try your best to
helps him on his school activity, like teach him well in the home prior
to go for the examination, and also you have to check frequently his
test papers and will give him more encouragements to improve his studies
As a parents you have to mingled with him and should know the mentality
of the kids as well as the requirements of the kids too, and will try
to satisfy the kids by providing his requirements, may he is more happy
and became more friendly with you. Then he will do better in the school
as well as in the personal life too.

Have a nice day.

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9. myLot reputation of 80/100. skysuccess (2275)   ranked 1,854 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

Binthu,

As parents, we believe that children should pick up good habits and hence my wife is actively involve with going through their time tables to pack their bags for the next day.

Not only will they go through the packing of relevant books for their next day's subjects but their homework that are to be handed in and proper stationery for the day.

I feel that this is sufficient enough to ensure that they will have the books and not miss out on any necessary things for their school day. Also, the process will ensure that they learn and maintain a good habit of getting prepared for their future.

Take care.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Skysuccess,

Yes you are right, most of the mothers are looking for more
care on their kids and also they are checking each and everyday
the school bag and make sure that having all the necessary books
according to time table of that day, prior to go to the school at
next morning. Because most of the kids still they are learning
and also they don't have the knowledge to arrange the books in
the school bag and thus looking for a help from her mother.

So, as a mother we have to concentrate on our kids activity in the
schools, like examination, class work, home work, test marks etc.,
and also we have to encourage our kids to have more success in their
class as well as in the examinations, which will make them more happy
and also they have the chance to improve in their knowledge in
the school as well as in the personal life.

Have a nice day.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. vingyan06 (1251)   ranked 797 out of 14,888 in parenting   3 months ago

Hello binthu,

My children are still to young to go to school, hence I still not have the chance to check their bags, lol! But I think I will do so once they are schooling. It is important to check their bags. They might not know what they need to bring and this is to ensure they will not miss out any books or stuff if parents check the bags. More ever it is good to check the bag so that the kids will not bring any unneeded books be it a text books or work books. And then they don't need to carry a heavy bag to school. I just pity with the school kids that need to carry so heavy bag to school everyday.

More ever checking at their bags is good in the sense that we can keep track on what school works they have not done.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (2906)   ranked 482 out of 14,888 in parenting  3 months ago

Hi Vingyan,

YES You are right, as a parents we have to check the school bags of
our kids to make sure that our kids are having the all the necessary
books and notes to the school without any absence, and also it is one
of the best method to give the co operation to our younger kids to
carry their bag to the school without any more problems of shortage
of the books. Most of the mothers are taken more care on their kids
and keep on watching their bags too, which will helps them to find the
activity of the kids including the class and home work.

So as a parents we must co operate to our small kids to arrange the
books and notes to the kids and also which is helps to us to monitor
the activity of the kids in the school and may we have to guide them
properly in order to have the good grade in the school examination.
So checking the school bags of the kids will gives us more benefits
including tracking of the kid's activity and mentality while they
are in the school . So make them more brighter and also make ensure
that he/she will get better future in the personal life.

Have a nice day.

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