How long do you keep your secret?  

I would be upfront with it and tell my partner if there was something wrong. You would want it to be a shocker after marriage. If it something that is going to cause them heartbreak later it is best to be upfront with it. At least that is my opinion and that is what I would do.

Hmmm. I think it will be best to keep it to yourself first. If you feel that you are with the right guy whom you think will understand and love you regardless of your health issues, then tell him. If you are planning to be in a commited relationship with anyone, it is best to let them know your health situation, for emergency and safety reasons. I think it is only fair.

If you disided to keep the secret - keep it forever!
Other way i tnink you have to be honest with your boy.I think that you have to tell him befote the marriage.

I really couldn't comment without knowing what you mean by health issues.
In general I would say being honest from the start is best in 99% of situations

I believe that some things are better kept a secret. Not every things has to be known unless you think that it is a need to know sbject. But if the secret is already out and there is a good chance that your other half wil find out, then you better put it on the table before they do. Heatlh issues are best if told to the other person if it puts them at risk or if it helps them better help you when you are unable to help yourself.

This would be a very sticky situation. It is hard when you don't know what the secret is. I would say if you are in a relationship,you need to tell your partner if it is something that can harm them. There should be no secret in a relationship because it might comeback to haunt you like you say it is doin. However if you tell and the relationship does not last then yeah it is outthere. I would tell if you enter a relationship and let the person decide if they will stay or not. Your past is your past. Happy lotting. Good luck.

look dear one if a man really loves you he can take whatever yoursecret is if its health related how canyou keep this frome
him, it is nothing to be ashamed of , we all have some health
issues. he must know it would be unfair to start a r elationship of marriage holding secrets. face up and tell the man you love,if he truly loves you he will love uncondtionally scecret and all.

Perhaps I'm being completely naive (Its been known to happen...often) but I would think that being upfront with the fella would be your best bet. I'd think that the right fella would be able to accept and the wrong one not.
I realize I'm being simplistic and that things are rarely simple..however, I'd think that he who could accept your secret would love you and the one who couldn't accept loves himself too much.
I hope this helps. Alone is not a pleasant place to be..
ENJOY!

it depends on the secrets that i have. LOL
i if that secret is not that big deal i can share it to a close and trusted friend. but if its really confidential, ill keep it by myself.

If your secret involves health issues, you may want to inform someone that you date before you decide to become intimate. In my opinion, if you are close enough to be intimate with someone, than you should be close enough to be completely honest, especially if the issue may effect the other individual.
As far as finding the right person, it will happen, in time. Just be patient, and in the meantime, take care of yourself and do what you can for your health.