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my male friend is in love with a gay.what's your side on this? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 96/100. flagella08 (1768)   ranked 443 out of 35,417 in people4 months ago

a have a male friend who is very masculine and does lots of masculine stuff. when we graduated in college he had his first girlfriend. according to the girl my friend is very loving and protected her in every way. after two years i was just shocked when i knew that they had separated ways.we became neighbors and only to find out that he has someone living with him in his house. at first i thought it was a girl but to my shock he was living with a gay. i don't know how to react.i don't want to say and do something that can hurt him. i don't like to be the villain in his life but i just can't understand it. i see that they're happy so i decided that i will just leave them alone. he confirmed that he's in love with that other guy and he considered him as his new significant other. what's your side on this matter?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. rg0205 (1710)   ranked 5,248 out of 35,417 in people   4 months ago

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myLot reputation of 96/100. flagella08 (1768)   ranked 443 out of 35,417 in people  4 months ago

thanks for the enlightenment. i was just pressured by other friends. they always expect me to offer him advice as to living descently and living the normal life. the normal they're referring to is that the man should be with a woman. i don't like to hurt any friend so i'd prefer to leave them alone too and never mind the criticism. the people that surround our place is quite conservative.


myLot reputation of 95/100. rg0205 (1710)   ranked 5,248 out of 35,417 in people  4 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1165)   ranked 4,384 out of 35,417 in people  4 months ago

Hello rg0205 happy

What a great response to this discussion, sometimes it is really hard to understand why people can't leave this alone honestly, I would think now this should be part of the norm, who would choose to put their self in a situation to be ridiculed and judged by others, that in itself should tell people this is not a choice, if he is a true friend you would support him no matter what.


myLot reputation of 95/100. rg0205 (1710)   ranked 5,248 out of 35,417 in people  4 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. kent_help2smile (2028)   ranked 1,631 out of 35,417 in people   4 months ago

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myLot reputation of 96/100. flagella08 (1768)   ranked 443 out of 35,417 in people  4 months ago

i don't i can ahve the nerve to ask him about that as of now. i feel that it's still early for me to do that and also i don't want to have a clash of conversation with him. i know him so well and that he will readily react even you haven't had opened your mouth.


myLot reputation of 93/100. sredith (142)   ranked 4,980 out of 35,417 in people  4 months ago

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3. myLot reputation of 60/100. brijlesh (239)   ranked 10,557 out of 35,417 in people   4 months ago

hey, Don't worry this is a common thing in today's life.
So, if your friend loves & satisfied you than no problem either he loves other persons except you. thumbup


myLot reputation of 96/100. flagella08 (1768)   ranked 443 out of 35,417 in people  4 months ago

yes, the best thing that i would do is to support him and be with him no matter what.anyways, relationships come and go and i don't want ours to be the latter. thanks for responding.

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. moonchild117 (353)   ranked 9,559 out of 35,417 in people   4 months ago

I wouldn't mind one bit. That is his decision, that's where he's happy. I also knew someone like your friend. He used to have a really pretty girlfriend, and all of his exes were gorgeous as well. That's no wonder coz he's cute. Going back, after a string of girlfriends, I was surprised to know that he began a relationship with another guy. You know what, until today they're together and happy, and I have no problem with that.

As a friend, I think the least you can do is be happy for him. I know it's quite a shock for many conservative people, but as time passes by you'll accept that it's the reality. Eventually when the shock wears off, you can ask your friend how he came up with that life-changing decision. I'm pretty sure he'll welcome your query.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. sredith (142)   ranked 4,980 out of 35,417 in people   4 months ago

People don't have any control over who they fall in love with, first of all. Secondly, there really isn't anything wrong with homosexuality. I think the world has evolved and progressed enough that we should be able to just accept and appreciate everyone for who they are. Plus, this guy is your friend, and if his friendship is important to you then you should just accept his relationship and support him in any way that you can.

 
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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. sunnysmiles (642)   ranked 4,792 out of 35,417 in people   4 months ago

Hello happy As long as he is happy then I wish him all the luck in the world. I don't think you need to say anything as there is nothing wrong in what he is doing and maybe it has taken him the years since graduation to work out exactly who he is and what he wants from his life. You shouldn't think of him or treat him any differently because he is living with another man. A good friend of mine who I have known for 20 years, was married and had 2 children. Things did not work out and they divorced after many years but he is now happily living with his partner, who is a man also. They are extremely happy together. happy

 
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