my male friend is in love with a gay.what's your side on this?  |
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a have a male friend who is very masculine and does lots of masculine stuff. when we graduated in college he had his first girlfriend. according to the girl my friend is very loving and protected her in every way. after two years i was just shocked when i knew that they had separated ways.we became neighbors and only to find out that he has someone living with him in his house. at first i thought it was a girl but to my shock he was living with a gay. i don't know how to react.i don't want to say and do something that can hurt him. i don't like to be the villain in his life but i just can't understand it. i see that they're happy so i decided that i will just leave them alone. he confirmed that he's in love with that other guy and he considered him as his new significant other. what's your side on this matter?
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1. rg0205 (1710) | 4 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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flagella08 (1768) | 4 months ago | thanks for the enlightenment. i was just pressured by other friends. they always expect me to offer him advice as to living descently and living the normal life. the normal they're referring to is that the man should be with a woman. i don't like to hurt any friend so i'd prefer to leave them alone too and never mind the criticism. the people that surround our place is quite conservative.
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rg0205 (1710) | 4 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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rg0205 (1710) | 4 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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flagella08 (1768) | 4 months ago | i don't i can ahve the nerve to ask him about that as of now. i feel that it's still early for me to do that and also i don't want to have a clash of conversation with him. i know him so well and that he will readily react even you haven't had opened your mouth.
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sredith (142) | 4 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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flagella08 (1768) | 4 months ago | yes, the best thing that i would do is to support him and be with him no matter what.anyways, relationships come and go and i don't want ours to be the latter. thanks for responding.
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4. moonchild117 (353) | 4 months ago | I wouldn't mind one bit. That is his decision, that's where he's happy. I also knew someone like your friend. He used to have a really pretty girlfriend, and all of his exes were gorgeous as well. That's no wonder coz he's cute. Going back, after a string of girlfriends, I was surprised to know that he began a relationship with another guy. You know what, until today they're together and happy, and I have no problem with that.
As a friend, I think the least you can do is be happy for him. I know it's quite a shock for many conservative people, but as time passes by you'll accept that it's the reality. Eventually when the shock wears off, you can ask your friend how he came up with that life-changing decision. I'm pretty sure he'll welcome your query.
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6. Theresaaiza (1601) | 4 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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7. asweetie (572) | 4 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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8. sredith (142) | 4 months ago | People don't have any control over who they fall in love with, first of all. Secondly, there really isn't anything wrong with homosexuality. I think the world has evolved and progressed enough that we should be able to just accept and appreciate everyone for who they are. Plus, this guy is your friend, and if his friendship is important to you then you should just accept his relationship and support him in any way that you can.
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9. modstar (4959) | 4 months ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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