"is not my business, and i don t care"!!

To all of my friends, I give advises to the best of my knowledge and experience to help them in their problems. Sometimes, I really straight forward to them that I don't have any idea about the problem he/she has.

Moral support is needed at se time in everybodies life. I try to listen to people especially people I car about and rather than just give one piece of advise I try to sit down with them if possible and give several points of view, both pros and cons. I then suggest a prayer and a thought of one thing they do have to be tahnkful for and then a waiting of at least 12 hours before they make up their minds.

in my life well growing up i made lot of mistakes, i do share with those who come to me for advise. the things i've either learned from my mistake or leasons i learned from other that helped me to improve myself i will share.
but if they are the kind of person who wants me to fix thier life issues i tell them straight up its them need to fix it not me or anyone else. then if they keep messing up i get to the point where its like oh well who cares.
like my neice keep saying she and her husband like to sit and talk to me and my wife about thier marriage issues, we've been telling them over 6 months call us. now its like who cares.

there are times when i get away from things saying that it is not business. but i behave in such a manner only when i have an indifferent relation with the person or the person.

otherwise, i would do everything in my capacity to help a person out of problem. i have experience that when i help out someone i experience an immence joy which is far better than a happiness derieved from anyother pleasure.

I tend to speak my mind that way everyone knows where they stand with me.If someone asks for my advice i will tell them what i think and what i would do.If someone tells me they have done something and they want to put things right for the wrong thing they have done i will tell them the kind of thing i would do.

I am a sensitive person, so I don't want to hurt others by words. But I am often hurted by others, like the word in the discussion. In real life, everyone has his/her own pains, but when others ask you for advice or help, we should give him/her proper help, so he/she can feel better.

I will give my advice and best answer to them those who ask me for help.
We will say "it is not my business" or "I don't care it" when we have the same problems as your friends have. But in my experience,I will do my best to help them overcome the problems and get along with them.
That's mine,the real mine!

Some times we may....:-)

I Should Have Been the First Person To Respond Here .. But the Post Appeared Before Me A Short While Ago .. I Will Never Ever Say I Have My Problems, It's Not My Business .. Mylot Is A Place for Sharing Everything That You Can Do Or Help Others Online .. I Do feel That Will Be An Unnecessary Statement On Here .. Thanks ..

lol i never do this i just can't use this word, as far as possible i try to help people, every body has a bad time, no body knows when it will strike you?
Thanks for this nice post. keep sharing, happy posting, have a great day, cheers
ARUN