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For Those Who Think MyLot Shouldn't Be A Place To Rant, Here Are My Thoughts.... email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com4 months ago

Screw you. Yeah, you heard me screw you. This is a rant in itself. I've come across numerous discussions from fellow MyLotters that this isn't a place to have a raging rant, to post things that are aggravating us in our private lives, that disturb us, troubling us or make us lose sleep at night. Well why the frick NOT????

What many folks don't realize, yes, we could probably seek the aid of a therapist to rant and rave, but therapists are so impartial, so NOT understanding, not like friends who may have been in the same exact situation. I WAS in therapy and my therapist was anything than illuminating or really concerned and would give clinical rehearsed responses to whatever was troubling me...I ditch the putz...I've gotten so MUCH more input from my friends here than years and years of expensive therapy from caring, concerned friends of mine and I'm sure many of my friends who rant and rave here feel the same way. Also, for some of us, ranting here is our ONLY resource where even our "real" life friends in our lives can't understand without judgment. Many of us are homebound or semi-homebound and don't really interact with the outside world much, some of us are disabled and can't interact with the outside world at all ......so MyLot may be the ONLY place we CAN rant, rave, scream and just let off steam in what's going on in our lives.

So for those of you who think MyLot is not the place to rant and rave, once again.....I say......screw you. All I can say is that one day something may be troubling your mind and you want to let off steam and rant.....where are YOU going to turn to? I have found MyLot to be one of the best therapy places around.......and heck it's free.

So what are your thoughts for people who condemn us MyLotters who choose to rant, rave, scream and share one's troubling feelings? Yes or No..????? I definitely think .....YES!!!!! thumbup

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. elmiko (1848)   ranked 9,233 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

good discussion and thoughts. i support you. if people don't like rants than they shouldn't even read it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Yes if people don't want to read "rants" they should move on.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (14761)   ranked 1,665 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

hi pye, how are you doing, my friend?
I have a day off today and just came from the doctor cause I needed my checkup thats why I am online in the middle of the day lol.
Yes you are right. Mylot is a great place to get advice and help. I usually dont post discussions about my private troubles as I dont wear my heart on my sleeve but if I see anyone going through similar stuff in his or her life I am more than willing to share.Okay sometimes the only thing we can do is listening (resp. reading) carefully and hope that it helps that troubled friend of ours that we have been there too. Atleast it makes you know that you are not alone in this world with these troubles and there are others who face similar things as well.
For me this normally is a huge help. Knowing that someone here says been there done that.
hugs


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Yes I think that's one of the great things about ranting here and sharing our feelings as many of us may have been in the same situation and can give great advice and make a person feel not alone--what a great thing, right?
I just came back from the docs myself since I'm having a bout of bronchitis


myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (14761)   ranked 1,665 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

hi Pye did I read that right, you saw a doc cause of bronchitis....... hmmmmmm then it must be really bad.
I wish I could send you some of these nice sugarfree cough candies which I recently found by chance browsing online.
get well sooooon

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (5235)   ranked 48 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

hiya Pye

I don't disagree with or condemn members that want to have a rant, it is a good way to get it off your chest thumbup and rather than pay a shrink for it you get paid FOR it thumbup We all have troubles that need to be shared with someone and who better to do it with than fellow Lotters aih?
I do shy away from anything that I am paranoid about... thinking that it's directed at me, but probably isn't, but hey! that's me LOL.

Alice happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

I have found more wonderful advice from my friends here when I share my rants and concerns...sometimes I'll post a rant and share my feelings FIRST before even calling up friends in my "real" world.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5914)   ranked 321 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

I have to agree with you pye. Mylot is a place to discuss things, whether it is good or bad. If someone doesn't like the discussion they don't have to respond. It's as simple as that. You forgot one thing though. Mylot's not only free, it pays us as well! w00t So rant away pye! And pour your heart out, if you wish to do so. lol

Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12291)   ranked 2,548 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

lol
Good job I read the responses first.

"Mylot's not only free, it pays us as well!" thumbup


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5914)   ranked 321 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

What? You actually read the responses first? blink Shucks, I always break this guideline. Otherwise, I'd never post here! LOL

Don't tell admin though. It's a secret! whistle wink


myLot reputation of 99/100. blackbriar (6355)   ranked 464 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

dohut ohhhhhhhhh...you mean I've been breaking a guideline all these years?confused I always respond from my inbox and then read the responses afterwards. Shame on me. surrender


myLot reputation of 99/100. catdla1 (2765)   ranked 647 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

I always read the responses afterwards as well. If myLot really expected people to read the responses first, then when you're notified of a new discussion (in your email), if you choose to respond - you'd be brought to the whole discussion to see all the previous responses, not just to a reply box. The way my6Lot is set up, you can't see the other responses until AFTER you post your own.


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Yes people don't HAVE to read rants it's not like any of us are forcing them. Yup, mylot does pay us for any of our discussions rants and allthumbup
Mmmm...I usually read responses first too to see what the heck everyone else is saying being the nosy person I amw00t


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12291)   ranked 2,548 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

LOL Pyes! That makes two of us! lol


myLot reputation of 85/100. prashanthalva (1087)   ranked 1,181 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (5235)   ranked 48 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

You do get the option to view the entire discussion too though! whistle I guess we just choose to see the reply link lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5914)   ranked 321 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

We do? Hmm, I only get this option when it comes to comments (if I happen to get them), not to the discussions themselves. confused

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. thea09 (4872)   ranked 207 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

Hi pyewacket, there's nothing wrong with a good rant on here but always best to start a discussion about the rant rather than drop it in on someone elses as the latter can be really annoying. But a rant in its own right no problem I at all. I must say that if I'm intending to go out and aware I'm in rantish mood I'd rather carry on on here than go out and impose by rantishness on real life people, I'm sure you know what I mean by that, as in people we might see again the next day as opposed to only chat with on here. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Yes I know exactly what you mean when you say you'd rather rant here than to real life people..maybe cause it's easier somehow????


myLot reputation of 58/100. Maggiepie (1642)   ranked 8,180 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Certainly safer! lol

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6. myLot reputation of 78/100. whiteheather39 (13452)   ranked 2,041 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

pyewacket what a great rant! I agree with you on all points. I find myLot to be very therapeutic and that is one of the reasons I keep coming back to myLot for all those years. I also appreciate the fact that I can say what I feel without the danger of getting a punch on the nose and if I do not like a response/comment I can just ignore them which is not always possible in real life. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Couldn't agree more on how therapeutic MyLot is for ranting---I'll actually pour out my feelings here first than go and call up a friend and rant to them

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7. myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12291)   ranked 2,548 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

MyLot is where our friends are and we should be able to share things with our friends and pour things out to them when we reach boiling point so I do not see why it should bother others.

Maybe those who disapprove of using myLot for this purpose have never had reason to let off steam. One day it will be their turn and then maybe they will understand better. It hasn't happened to me yet but I have no doubt that if and when it does then my rant will be here too, among friends thumbup


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Yes I don't know why it should bother others if one decides to do a ranty discussion here, if they don't like it they can always move on to a discussion more suitable to them. Sometimes we really DO need to rant and share our feelings, and what better place than here?thumbup

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (9172)   ranked 740 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

My thought would be almost identical to yours. I am looking back to a very old TV show called WELCOME BACK COTTER. The saying then with these kids in the high school was "Up Your Nose With A Rubber Hose." If people do not want to read the discussion just go to the next one. Its good to see you again. Seems you have been missing. I hope your are doing well!


myLot reputation of 60/100. AngryKittyMSV (1878)   ranked 4,425 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

I loved that show, the appropriate comeback to the "up your nose with a rubber hose" quip is "In your ear with a can of beer!"


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12291)   ranked 2,548 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Did they ever suggest what to do with glass? whistle


myLot reputation of 60/100. AngryKittyMSV (1878)   ranked 4,425 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Never would have gotten past the 1970s censors. LOL


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Nope I haven't been missing...I'm always here everyday/night a bit...LOL. I do remember that show and was one of my favorites. That's where John Travolta got his start as Vinnie Barbarino--used to like Horsack too...


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (9172)   ranked 740 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Mysd, the glass might have went the same place tht the tootsie roll went. ooohhh hooo. up yout**** woth a tootsie roll. LOL. I saw Gab in Vegas in teh early 70's and he did that. LOL

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4850)   ranked 22 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

That's so true, Pye.. mylot is a great place to release our stresses, share problems and seek opinions. I find this like a walking diary for me, where I share my views and problems as well..


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

How true that in many ways MyLot is like a diary...since I've been here three years and backtrack at my old discussions it makes me aware of where I was and what I was thinking at the time and in many ways, how I've changed


myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4850)   ranked 22 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

You couldn't have said it better. I took a look at my older discussions and it made me laugh, smile and wonder..

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (6021)   ranked 668 out of 32,740 in mylot.com   4 months ago

lol Yes indeed mylot has become an 'asylum' for our fellow mylotters who at times become momentarily lunatic either because they are full of stress or are less exposed to the real world due to reasons of their own. We are lucky to have come to the right place in mylot to find shelter and to have willing ears and get some valuable words of comfort from other mylotters who are always there to share our miseries. Being in mylot is therapeutic which explains why I have stayed put in mylot for so long as I am also sometimes experiencing short circuits. lol


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12291)   ranked 2,548 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Do you earn more for short cicuits... or long ones? rolleyes


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (6021)   ranked 668 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

earning is a secondary matter here as they don't compensate enough even to pay for my internet connection. I just love to mylot as it keep my sanity intact. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (11671)   ranked 166 out of 32,740 in mylot.com  4 months ago

To quote you zandi

I just love to mylot as it keep my sanity intact.

Oh is that ever true...LOL. I don't know what I would do if I didn't have a place like MyLot to let off steam, share my feelings and rant at times.

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