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myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single4 months ago

I have always been in-love with the idea of being "in-love", but it seems to be that I could never get to have that love i longed for. I have waited for a long time now i find myself watching all my friends and family members getting married and having babies, even those kids i used to teach are now all grown up and married. I feel i am left behind, I know I am ready to settle down. The only problem is with who?
I am not a loner, I go out and have fun, try my best to meet people, a few times even have dates but i never end up having that person who would want to stay and want to be with me. At my age of 30 plus it seems not fun to be alone any more. I sometimes think could being single is by faith? Am i really meant to be a single old maid?

 
 
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tags:  single, faith, old maid, in love, life
 
1. myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 7 out of 798 in single   4 months ago

Time maybe will help you understand things better in the future about these stuffs as I believe there is a time for everything to enfold in one's life.


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

thank you... i do hope time will unfold it self on me. i just pray i won't run out of time myself as i am getting older as each day passes by.


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2386)  4 months ago

I think it is your fate accept it and so be it. I believe that love comes unexpectedly I hope it going to happen with you. Don't stop hoping I believe God have plans for everyone of us. I hope you going to find the right guy for you soon.


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

I sure hope your right as sometimes i can't stop feeling jealous of my friend who are so sweet with their bf when we are all together, i feel so left out at times cause i am the only one without a partner so when we walk they are all in pairs and i would be all alone behind... there a just times that it really gets into me.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (9160)   ranked 300 out of 798 in single   4 months ago

Try not to look at is as being an old maid. Maybe God has other plans for your life! Why not pray that if it is Gods will that you have a romance He open your eyes to be ready for the right person. Also remember being lonely is not near as bad as being stuck in a bad relationship.


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

i did had one relationship which end as i am still single, and yes there are advantages in being single than stuck in a bad relationship. i will keep this in mind. thank you


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (9160)   ranked 300 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

Hang in there. You are still young, just a little pup compared to me.(61). Wouldn't you rather have just one marraige that lasts a life time?


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

hehehe.. thanks for that push... i really needed that:)

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. snowdoll487 (429)   4 months ago

Just don't rush things mesuaky.. theres always a right time for everything.. Just be patient. I could relate to your situation, all my friends and classmates have already settled down and sometimes they would tease me of being left behind. But i'm not in a rush.. I don't want to commit the same mistakes a number of my friends committed, and end up being married twice or even thrice to diff. men.:P At the meantime why not try to list down the qualities you are looking for in a man.:)


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

well i think your right rather than ending up with the wrong one better wait for the right one. I just hope he does come:P thanks.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. simonelee (727)   4 months ago

I don't think it's faith, but its a choice being single. I believe things should not be hurry because if you do you'll end up falling to the wrong hand and later on you'll be separated. Why don't you just relax and enjoy life being single, just go on and have fun and soon you'll find the right one for you. happy Don't pressure your self.


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

thank you for your advice.

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5. myLot reputation of 58/100. olepmis (426)   4 months ago

Maybe you are very choosy that is why you are still single. Yes, being single is by fate (faith). Many singles (old ones) have lots of love life when they were young but still they left out being single in life. The Holy Bible also said that there are people who choose to be single to serve God, some choose to be single by themselves while others were destined by fate. So cheer up, you are not yet 50 years old. You still have more time to make searching at the internet. Happy browsing.


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  4 months ago

well i don't really think i am choosy, but i did only had one boyfriend and we broke up as he left due to something with him, i am just a simple person my only requirement is that the person should relly love me and not just fooling around with me... i think every most women wants that, but i just don't understand why it happens just like this. i wanted to be love, i wanted the feeling to be in-love again cause i know it feels so good but i can't seem to find that right guy for me. Well i am still not in a elderly age so i will take your advice to continue my search who know eventually my guy will turn up, i hope sooner rather than later though:) Thanks


myLot reputation of 81/100. Archie0 (3139)  3 months ago

it could be either! i mean, some people prefer to stay single while others either try to hard or just dont find the right person.

if it is fate, then some one is really messed up if they came up with MY life!

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. my_name_is_coco (2600)   ranked 128 out of 798 in single   3 months ago

I think that God has plans for you.if you are meant to be single forever,by all mean accept it.He will take care of you.just enjoy your life.enjoy the perks of being single.enjoy your me-time,your family,your friends,and your finances.


myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  3 months ago

thank you for you in sight.

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7. myLot reputation of 81/100. neelianoscet (2127)   ranked 25 out of 798 in single   4 weeks ago

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myLot reputation of 77/100. mesuaky (261)   ranked 106 out of 798 in single  1 week ago

thank you for sharing.

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