Shopaholic?  | | I think my cousin is a shopaholic. She spends all her allowance on shopping the moment she receives 'em.. It kinda bothers me cause she would sometimes end up spending her week long allowance in just a few hours and go broke the rest of the week and starve herself to death:P
I have been giving her advices on how she should spend her allowance but she never listens to me. I even frankly told her she needs to go to rehab. Its like an addiction. She can't help but spend, spend and spend more. I kinda find it stressing emotionally cause as much as I wanted to help her, she can't be helped with the attitude she has. She never learns a lesson. Do you think theres any way I could help her? Advices doesn't work. Do you think she should seek a professional's help?
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snowdoll487 (327) | 3 months ago | her parents are out of the country..;( i don't have comm. with them:(
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| | | | | | | | 3. my_name_is_coco (2156) | 3 months ago | I am a shopaholic,but I am not really a "rehab" case.I can still shop without hurting or starving myself.I think it is much better if she go and seek professional help.there may be a deeper problem that she tries to cure through shopping.spending money on clothes to the point of starving yourself is not healthy.
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snowdoll487 (327) | 3 months ago | thanks for participating my_name_is_coco^^ I know she needs to seek a professional's help. But she doesn't want to be helped.*_*
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| | | | 4. zzyw87 (712) | 3 months ago | Shopping is a nice way to enjoy and relax. But if taken to extreme, it is detrimental. The fact that your cousin starve herself for the rest of the week just to be able to shop and spend money is troubling. I do think you and your other relatives should talk to her gently about this. If it still does not has an effect on her, maybe you guys need to show her tough love. For example, her parents could cut off her allowance and just give her food to bring to school. It may be embarrassing but it could be effective.
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snowdoll487 (327) | 3 months ago | *sigh* i dunno. I fear that if we try to cut her allowance she'll do something really bad..*_* but thanks for the advice zzyw87:)
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