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I was a career woman and when I got married gave up my job just to be a full time mom..I did not regret on my choice to give up my job.I enjoyed my time with my daughter that makes us very much attach to each other..But later my husband and I realized that if we depend on just his income it would be just be very enough for our bills and food, we could not even spare for a savings. So I was thinking of working again as a teacher to add on our monthly income, but these would also mean that I would be leaving my 1 year old child at home with a nanny.I feel so guilty just by thinking of the fact that my child will be crying out my name at home, looking for me, while I am out attending other children...What do you think should I do?
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1. learn2earn (10422) | 3 months ago | I think that being with your little child would be best for you and for her. You can still do some work by selling something with your child with you. You may not do it on a full time basis, but on a part-time schedule. This would compliment the salary of your husband. The best you can do is to budget and save. Of course, in the end, it is you who will make a final decision.
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jndlponti (377) | 3 months ago | thanks a lot for that suggestion...I will consider that as an option.I think starting a small business is not bad even just a part-time..thanks a lot.
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2. Sreekala (1659) | 3 months ago | Hi jindlponti,
I am a working woman so I can understand your feelings in an easier manner. Your daughter is one year old now and if you can manage one more year then I don’t think it will be much problem and you can appoint a servant before one month so that your daughter will be comfortable with the servant before you join the job. I don’t know the situation in your country, if you can do some work from home and support your family in that way you can spend time for your little daughter too. As she grows the expenditure is also grow so it is natural your thinking to earn something for a better income. Discuss the same with your hubby and he can help you to take a wise decision without hurting your daughter’s feelings.
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jndlponti (377) | 3 months ago | thanks a lot for that advice, yes I do think too that as she grows she will have more needed things which mean we need to earn much more than what we are earning now..my husband and I talked about it last night as I have the courage to tell him already that I missed teaching but then I could not bare to leave my little girl.So he suggested that I will continue teaching, but just in the hause..Today we will start constracting our back porch and made posted advertisement on our neighborhood and the neighboring subdivision that I am accepting a Mathematics and Science tutorial lessons...So I gues that would be very much helpful for us to earn extra money without leaving the house.
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| 3. lilhyppo (47) | 3 months ago | jndlponti, I am in the same dilemma as you. I gave up a good paying job just so that I can be a fulltime mum to my baby. But I will have to start working soon as I have bills to pay and being a single parent, I must start to save some money for my baby's future. But really, it's so hard to even think that they will be crying for us when we are not around.
I am going to tell myself, that 1 day when she needs to attend pre-school, she will also keep on crying and looking for me. And I am leaving her with someone who can take care of her so that I can earn some money and it's for her good too... That's what I am gonna do but I'm not sure if I will back out last minute.
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jndlponti (377) | 3 months ago | Thanks a lot for your concern, I really do appreciate it... Really being a mom neds a lot of sacrifices... Good thing I have a husband to support us. I really thought of that option already, which is going back to work since my employer before is still asking me to come back and teach... But my hubby and I had already talked last night and he suggested that we start a business which I could still be teaching students. We will be having a tutorial center just beside our house so I would still have time to take care with my baby and spend extra time tutoring kids.
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jndlponti (377) | 3 months ago | I hope you could also find some ways to earn money without leaving your child..but it's still you who will do the final discission. Thanks a lot for sharing
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4. onlinerep01 (419) | 3 months ago | Hello, That is wonderful that you are home with your daughter, this one of the times she needs her mommy the most, you can always get a work at home job, or put your handmade crafts to the test, people love things that are handmade, you can try to also sell some things that you are no longer in need of, and sell them on Ebay, if you need any additional help just send me a private message here on mY Lot.
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jndlponti (377) | 3 months ago | thanks a lot for that offer... maybe I could do those things any days by now... I would keep in touch with you whenever I needed help with those bargain sale of not used things.
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5. Sir_bobby88 (6672) | 3 months ago | Just be yourself and give your share and care to your child and family and everything will turn out to be alright yea .
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