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myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother4 months ago

I find that a lot of moms I know wish their babies stayed babies forever. They often speak of the baby stages they miss and oh their kids are growing up way too fast! How do you feel about it?

I miss some of those cute and cuddly times. But I must admit I love that my little girl (who is 4) is growing up and it's exciting to watch her continue to develop - I celebrate her independence! I love that we can have a conversation, and she has her own mind. She has her own interests - some that we share - some that are uniquely her own. She is independent about a lot of things, and doesn't need mommy or daddy to do everything for her. I love that she has become her own person and I'm very proud that my little girl is becoming a big girl - she's growing up!



 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1105)   ranked 6,298 out of 6,558 in mother   4 months ago

Hello much2say,Do I like my baby to a baby for a long time?For me the answer is very simple....and that is a "Yes".they are cute, innocent and above all they are a total fun......


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Babies are cute, innocent, and fun - that is true!! I loved it at that time, but I also love it now that my little one is less dependent on me. I still think she's cute, innocent, and fun! happy

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2. myLot reputation of 100/100. littleone3 (1315)   ranked 1,271 out of 6,558 in mother   4 months ago

Although I enjoyed my children as babies I did not wish that they stayed that way. My youngest is three and I love the way he is he is such a cheeky and happy little boy and I am able to have a conversation with him now as he is forming his own views and opinions.
I enjoy this stage as they are so chatty and some of the things they come out with make me laugh so much.


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Yes, babies have their wonderful moments . . . but it is nice to see them grow up! Isn't the conversing stage neat? I too love how they form their own views and opinions . . . and they can be pretty stubborn about them - hee hee! But that just shows they have their own minds!! Oh yes, and it's so funny how kids come up with things that we would never thing to say - it's precious!! It's fun with a baby, but it's a different kind of fun when they get a bit older! happy

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. Raven7317 (313)   ranked 186 out of 6,558 in mother   4 months ago

Good Afternoon! Yes, I would say I wish my little guy wasn't growing up so fast! He just turned 4 in August and every single day, his dad and I are amazed at how wonderfully LITTLE BOY his is! I do miss when he was an infant though... I miss the sweet smell of him, I miss him sleeping in my arms, I miss walking him in a stroller, I miss how simple life was when he was so little... My favorite age was when he was about 11 months old... He was just starting to walk and babble that sweet baby talk! BUT - I can't express how proud I am of him now - he's getting so big and he's so smart! He has the most wonderful little personality and I love being with him just as much now as I did then, just in different ways. All too soon, he will not be my little boy anymore. (Sigh)


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Awwwww - that's so sweet! My daughter (who is also 4), when I told her she will always be my little girl, said "I'm not your little girl, I'm your BIG girl!" Hee hee! It's true a lot of things were simpler when they were babies, but aren't some things simpler now simply because they are more independent? I loved the baby stage, but I love the older developmental stages as well. The fun keeps on coming! happy

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4. ab101_bab (18)   4 months ago

my new born baby is about to turn 2 years old next month. i couldn't enjoy him MORE everyday when he suprises me with something new. i love learning about him and enjoy watchin him grow everyday is different all though there is a peice of me that wants that guy to be a small ball of butter that cries and poops all day again. i enjoy him alot more now that he talks to me


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Happy early birthday to your son! I love those surprises . . . ah, the joy of being a parent! Yep, our little butterballs certainly grow up - and rather quickly! I will say I am glad the PT part is done for us - hee hee!! It's wonderful when they can chat with you . . . it's amazing to hear their side of things! happy

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. dorannmwin (2400)   ranked 14 out of 6,558 in mother   4 months ago

My children are now going on seven years old and my youngest will be three in just a couple of weeks. I can't say that I wish that they stayed babies forever, even though I just love that stage where the kids had total dependence on me. What I can say is I wish that it didn't seem like that stage of their lives flew by so fast. It seemed like in just a blink of my eye my daughter had gone from this tiny little being (6lbs 15oz) at birth to a little toddler who was wondering around the house and getting into everything. She started walking when she was only nine months old.
As far as my son and my niece who are within two months of the same age, I wish they could have stayed little a lot longer because when one of them started doing something, they both did. What I mean is when Paul started walking so did Lilliana and that quickly led to double trouble. It was just like having twins with both of them in the same house.
I miss the stage of them being babies, but I also really like to see the shadows of the man and woman that they are going to become.


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Your daughter was 1 oz bigger than my daughter at birth!! I still look back at those photos and think gosh, how did my daughter get so big now!! Hee hee. It is sweet when a baby has total dependence on you . . . but I do like the independence stage as well. It does seem like it all goes by so fast!! I like what you said . . . seeing the shadows of the man and woman that they are going to become. That's so neat, but at the same time I can't even imagine 5 years from now! Hee hee!! happy

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. jodylee_04530 (546)   ranked 478 out of 6,558 in mother   4 months ago

For me I like watching my two children grow up. Each stage has its perks and downfalls. If my babies stayed babies forever I would miss out on so many amazing moments. I will always look back on the baby stage with fond memories, but no, I would not want them to stay there forever. Babies are meant to grow up, that is what they do! I like it that way!


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Hee hee - babies are meant to grow up - and parents have no choice about that - hee hee!! You're right - there are both perks and downfalls to all stages. I loved the baby stage, but I think it's so exciting when they hit each of their milestones . . . so neat to see kids develop more and more into their own person. I like it this way too! happy

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (2871)   ranked 1,208 out of 6,558 in mother   4 months ago

No, I wouldn't have wanted them to stay as little new babies. Once they started talking, having their own personalities etc was brilliant. However, though I miss having them around at home and their 20+ years seem to have gone so fast, I am incredibly proud of them both and they are not just my sons but my great friends too.


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

That's so neat! You're sons are now grown, but it's fantastic you call them your great friends too!! Each stage has its own challenges, but I absolutely love seeing my little one develop . . . I have a lot to go before she (and her brother to be) gets to the 20+ stage. I look forward to each step of the way til we get there!! happy

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10883)   ranked 805 out of 6,558 in mother   4 months ago

I'm with you. I loved them being babies. Still, I absolutely loved watching each and every one of them grow and turn into the people they are today. And ya know what? There are always cute and cuddly little babies to hold for a while and then return back to their parents whenever I need a little baby fix. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Hee hee! How true! Well, we're gonna have another little one soon . . . so we'll be going through the baby stages again. Our baby fix will definitely be taken care of for a while - ha ha. As much as I will love the infant stages, I know I totally look forward to when he is more independent and is his own person! happy

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. sender621 (853)   4 months ago

My two children are teenagers now. There are definitely days when I wish i could turn back time and make them babies once again. I'm telling you, they would never leave their cribs. I hear people talk about the good old days. For me this would be the long ago days when my children were still in diapers and were not walking and talking yet. I love my children but they were easier to handle when they were babies!


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

I can't imagine my kids being teens just yet . . . but I'm sure the teenage stage has its own challenges! In that sense, yes, the baby stage is much easier . . . they don't talk back, they can't run away, and there's sort of no discipline needed for a while. By their teenage years, our babies have definitely grown to become their own person!! happy

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10. jremolacio (28)   4 months ago

Hello! I have a 3 yrs old daughter and NO i don't wish she stays as a baby, maybe if i wish something, is that, she stay as a toddler but not a baby. Because when she was a baby we cannot do anything, she is just sleeping, sometimes she will smile if you do something funny to her, but toddler yrs are very fun!I can talk to her, play with her, i can still cuddle with her and she can already appreciate things. She can tell you what she wants, I can see her developments and it really excite me to see what she will become when she grows up. I really love bringing her wherever i go because i am amazed with her expressions and her innocent questions. But of course, she will grow up, but she will be my baby forever.


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

Yes, our babies will be our babies in our eyes forever!! I find the communicative stage is so neat too . . . and it's very exciting to see it continue to develop! The baby stages are wonderful, but yes, it's very different from the toddler years. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. malamar (474)  4 months ago

Although I do love babies, I am and always have been completely enamoured with the toddler years. The ages of about 3 - 5 when they start communicating and developing their own personalities are amazing. They grow so quickly, as do the grandchildren yet to come for many of you.

No matter what stage your child is in, enjoy it. It will pass in the mere blink of an eye.


myLot reputation of 99/100. much2say (716)   ranked 94 out of 6,558 in mother  4 months ago

malamar - Yes, that's the stage we're at . . . 3-5 . . . and I absolutely love this stage. When she goes to kindergarten, it'll become a whole 'nother stage and I will miss this one. But I agree, enjoy all of it - times goes by super fast! happy

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