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Do you consider flirting online as cheating? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 86/100. krupesh (1069)   ranked 753 out of 35,362 in people3 months ago

First of all let me know whether you flirt online or not.Do you consider it as cheating?
I dont consider it as cheating as they would not know personally till they meet up.If they meet up then it is serious & cant be called flirting.
Your thoughts....

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (8950)   ranked 110 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

Not really cheating but it is hartbreaking for the other party in the relationship. If there is no marriage license I do not really consider it cheating. Because if we are not married and we are in a sexual relationship we are cheating ourselves.

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2. myLot reputation of 81/100. killer04 (257)   ranked 4,187 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

Well for me I would consider it cheating as I think that if you are with someone, you do not mess around with someone else. I think that it would be disrespectful towards your partner. Well that's just my opinion and I know that it may sound old school.

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3. myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2870)   ranked 1 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

confused Hm, Krupesh. An interesting topic here. Do I flirt online? No. Have I ever? Yes, when I was divorced but not yet dating, etc. Not the dirty flirting, though.

Do I think it's cheating? Well, now that I'm in a relationship, I do NOT flirt online nor would I. I think this is something that lies between the two people in a commited relationship or marriage. It begs some questions. Is it the same as cheating in person? Of course not...but, would it bother you if your partner did as you do?? Do you make an effort to hide the flirting if your partner is nearby or walks into the room? Do you ever have any moments of guilt or remorse for the flirting? Does it ever go too far? If so, then you should stop the flirting, or never begin it. thumbdown

Is it cheating in any form?? In my opinion, yes. It is a form of cheating your partner of conversation, respect, emotional contact in a sense, time, etc.

I wouldn't want a partner or spouse to do it, and as I said, when not totally single, I would not do it either.

Karen


myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 6,413 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

Well said. thumbup


myLot reputation of 86/100. krupesh (1069)   ranked 753 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 86/100. krupesh (1069)   ranked 753 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

Actually I was flirting online before my marriage.But not now.But just to know the thoughts of people here I put this question.This came to mind as my is away from the past 5-6 days. lol


myLot reputation of 86/100. krupesh (1069)   ranked 753 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

*wife


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2870)   ranked 1 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

happy Thank you Kling.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2870)   ranked 1 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

happylol You'd better behave there, Krup lol.

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. Hatley (21278)   ranked 1,075 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

krupesh yes in a way it is as it would ultimately lead to
more and more of that flirting that gets serious. dont do
it, I would never do that,it is hurtful to the other person
because in a way you are saying to your live in or your spouse'that you are just another number in my line of boy or
girl friends,nobody wants to be just another number.


myLot reputation of 86/100. krupesh (1069)   ranked 753 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

Flirting doesn't mean that you have to talk about romance or is it?Just feels good if you speak to the person of the opposite s e x & I think it relaxes you a bit.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2870)   ranked 1 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

Hi Krup...I think it is more than just any old "talk." Here is the definition from www.dictionary.com

.
. flirt·ed, flirt·ing, flirts

v. intr.

To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures.

To deal playfully, triflingly, or superficially with: flirt with danger.

To move abruptly or jerkily.

v. tr.

To toss or flip suddenly.

To move quickly.

n.
One given to flirting.

An abrupt jerking movement.

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 6,413 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

It can be consider as cheating in some aspect. If you are already committed and still flirt online, it is cheating. We can be what we want on the internet anyways. Acting single even if it is not. LOL
If one is single and flirt online, that would be no problem. rasp

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6. myLot reputation of 83/100. leoling (135)   ranked 13,123 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

I don't flirt online. I think it condsider as cheating, becasue you are still flirting but in a virtual world instead of real world.

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7. myLot reputation of 84/100. hagirl (438)   ranked 5,743 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

No I do not flirt on line. Let me ask you some questions then you can make up your own mind. How would you feel if you caught your boyfriend/girlfriend flirting online? Would you feel like you could trust them not to meet up with the person they were chatting with? Would you feel degraded by your partner flirting online? If you and your partner was being intimate would you be wandering if they were thinking about the moment or what it would be like with the person online? Answer these questions and then get back with me. It may or may not shed a new light on your thinking.

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. catdla1 (2711)   ranked 496 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

I don't flirt online, and I do consider it cheating. Cheating isn't a matter of seeing somebody in person. It's a metter of betraying your spouse in your heart.
If you don't think it's wrong...do I assume you think it's ok if your wife does it too? Putting the shoe on the other foot (so to speak) will tell you what your true feelings are.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. Opal26 (9978)   ranked 573 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

Hey krupesh! I don't really think that you can consider
online flirting cheating unless it goes further! And if
it is done by someone that is married with intent then
that may be a different story. If it is someone that is
married and is flirting with someone that isn't married
and is not being honest about their marital status then
that is cheating! It all depends on the situations! If
it is just harmless chating that is one thing, but if it
is sexual then it is cheating as far as I'm concerned if it
involves anyone who is married and their spouses are not aware
of what they are doing!


myLot reputation of 86/100. krupesh (1069)   ranked 753 out of 35,362 in people  3 months ago

Hello opal,

I agree with you.Sometimes flirting can be considered just talking to the opposite s e x for no reason but just prolonging you conversation with him/her isn't it?

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. lordcaocao2025 (564)   ranked 14,935 out of 35,362 in people   3 months ago

Some time i flirt when i chatting online, especially if the person i chat with is using a cam. But i dont think flirting in chat could be considering cheating if you chat at random person at chat room. but if you chat with a friend you know in real world, that it would be consider cheating. And of course, cybering would also be considered cheating even if you never met the person in the real world.

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