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myLot reputation of 91/100. satan88 (772)   ranked 343 out of 19,171 in questions & answers3 months ago

I find myself always looking for guidance in everything i do. i don't know how to get things done and i'm no where close to being successful. I'm lost in a sea of varying opinions and points of views. I'm surrounded by people who think i'm this way or that way. But i feel like i'm none or both at the same time. When i get a compliment i always feel i don't deserve it. when people complain about me i feel sad. I get stuck in a loop of thoughts about this and that and everything in between. My thoughts are clouded, unclear or jumbled. Sometimes i feel like i'm on top of the world and sometimes i feel like scum. In the same situation i'll interpret it a million ways and it has the ability to make me depressed one day and happy the other and confused in the next. If i don't think about it i feel like i'm missing something and the thought naws at the back of my head. then in the end of the day i'll forget about it and the next day i'm happy till i'm alone to my thoughts again or till i'm faced with a challenge i don't want to face, which is almost anything life can throw at me whether trivial or not.

Is this common to all people and if it is are these feelings supposed to be this strong? What is the right way to behave and what is the right way to live?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. Thebraggingman (216)   ranked 4,932 out of 19,171 in questions & answers   3 months ago

There is no direct right way to live. Just have good morales and don't do bad things. There is no set religion, way to live or even way to get from A to B. The decision of way to live life the right way is to live it the way you believe is right. In my point of view as long as you do good things and don't harm anyone you are living your life the right way.


myLot reputation of 91/100. satan88 (772)   ranked 343 out of 19,171 in questions & answers  3 months ago

hmm well it's hard not to hurt anyone emotionally sometimes it just happens when you don't mean for it to happen. sometimes you have to hurt one person to help the other. Sometimes two wrongs do make a right.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. lynnemg (3584)   ranked 687 out of 19,171 in questions & answers   3 months ago

It sounds to me as if you are one that feels the need to analyze things a lot. This is not always a bad thing, but it can cause some problems within yourself.
I think that if you live an honest life, and you are doing the best that you can, that is what matters. In my day to day life, I try to always be honest and hardworking. I go to sleep each night knowing that I have not wronged anyone and I have done my best to not only work, but also let my family know how much I love them and how important they are to me. I go to sleep with a clear conscious and knowing that if I died in my sleep, my family would never have to question how I really felt.
I too tend to analuze a lot of things, but when it comes to advice, I have learned how to listen to what other people say without allowing their opinions to rule my life. I take from each opinion or piece of advice what I feel is most applicable to my situation, then I apply it to what I think the best solution is.


myLot reputation of 91/100. satan88 (772)   ranked 343 out of 19,171 in questions & answers  3 months ago

but what if i go to sleep knowing that i didn't try my best and that my loved one's don't really know how i feel. feelings and emotions change everyday and too quickly. one day you are on good terms and the next you are not.
I do analyze way too much and i do know that but i feel that if i don't there's a lot of things i could be missing. Switch off the analysis and i feel lost and i'm even more incompetant the mind becomes empty. I know there is a middle ground but i haven't been able to find it.
thanks for sharing lynnemg:)


myLot reputation of 97/100. lynnemg (3584)   ranked 687 out of 19,171 in questions & answers  3 months ago

If you do what you can each day, then you ahve done your best. If you tell your loved ones that you love them, they know, even if you are at odds at the time and haven't spoken for a while. Trust me, they knwo that you love them. The happy medium comes when you begin to trust yourself more and more. In order to do that, you have to allow yourself to make your own decisions and choices without outside influences. In other words, when you are faced with an obstacle, trust your won instincts rather than ask others for advice. If you need a sounding board, write it down on paper, use the paper as your sounding board to ask yourself for advice. Writing it down helps you see it from another point of view, especially if you pretend that you are giving a friend advice.
Nothing happens overnight and it will take time. Take it one little step at a time and you will get there.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. EARLZHAN (354)   ranked 2,075 out of 19,171 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Life is what we make it. We have the freedom to choose what we want to do in our life. But for me the right way to live is to live follewing the word of GOD. There are many verse in the Bible that can Help you how to live your life in a right way. It might be very difficult to follow all of the things written there as you've said you want to live in a right way. I'm doing it rightnow and it makes me feel complete and contented. Why don't you try it?


myLot reputation of 81/100. Archie0 (3139)   ranked 2,637 out of 19,171 in questions & answers  3 months ago

the best way to live life is by understanding the meaning of self awareness.to be aware is to be answerable to self. on doing so one becomes enlightened. everyday work then becomes a source of happiness rather than a lingering duty to be discarded somehow.deriving pleasure in whatever we do gives us happiness which we can spread to others. this is living, adding life to years not years to life!

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