lovelife mess up studies????

These days we see many gals and guys moving fast in terms of love and making wrong moves. Parents and elderly people need to educate guys and gals that they must be enough matured before they invite any new relationship. In your case what you are doing is right, but see to it that you are not too much strict as this may sometimes lead to difficult consequence. If it is only you who is against them and everyone of their friends accept to what they do then your sisters might turn towards their friends as they will be influenced by them. Hence, behave logically with them.

Boyfriends, or a lover, is never a distraction unless you make them... I have been there, and based on my experience, the more my parents forbid me to have one, the more I want to have one... I think you should trust them more that they would not do stupid things, it's okay to have a boyfriend, as long as you know what should come first, and the consequences if you make a mistake... The more you trust them, the more they won't want to break that trust.

No, I don't. First of all, they are your SISTERS, you are NOT their parent. You are responsible for yourself, NOT THEM. If I were one of your sisters, I would both resent and dislike you.... and that is probably putting it MILDLY. I am the oldest of my siblings and I would never tell them what they could and could not do as far as relationships. That is their business.

It would probably likely drive me right into a relationship, even if it wasn't the right one. I'd do it anyway, just because you were being a jerk about the whole thing. Life is not strictly studies. Life is balance. Without balance, life is NOTHING. Put yourself in their shoes, you may actually rethink your perspective here. I hope they learn to stop being bullied by you and soon.

I admire you because I know you only want what is good for your sisters. I just want to warn you that sometimes being so protective can cause your younger sisters to rebel. I suggest to have a good relation with your younger sisters, open up to them so that they will naturally think that you understand them and open to you more often. In this way, they won't see you as a threat that prohibits them in handling their own lives. Happy mylotting:)

well it all depends on your sisters, you have to assess all this things. If you know that your sister are responsible people and smart. you can make a deal with them where you allow them to to have a relationship provided they will maintain there high grades and never get pregnant until they finish schooling and get a proper job first. you can make a deal with them that they will only get married too before they get pregnant by a certain age. but this is not just the case you should also tell them that you will also allow them if first you must meet the guy so you can see if the guy is a educated person or not. you can even talk to the guy too you know, you have right so use it. rather that later you find out that your sisters are having a relationship behind your back.

I would be surprised if you don't care at all. You are doing the right thing and have the right to be. After all it is their future that you are concerned about. To put limitations on what they can do as a sister is preferable than to sacrifice them in the altar of this world that will ruin their future.

Keep up the good work.

cheers!

Jenely, U r absolutely right.But too much restriction can bring a negative situation.School life age is a critical stage.A guy who give a simple attention to the girl....the girl can start falling in love without thinking of the reality.In fact its not the age to face the reality...Its a day dream age.But if u as a sister can be their best friend then they will feel comfortable to share their point of view.Try to make fun with them and travel where they want to go.I wish they can understand u.

I think.. sometime love life mess up studies.. when you get deeply love to someone.. and when she/he leave you..and you were upset.. so i think..it is depend on the person...that he/she maintain a distance between love life and studies.. if you are maintain a distance between love life and your studies..then you will never faces problem with your study..

Well, you are not doing the wrong thing, it is (for me) very good to control your still-studying-sisters and keep them on the right path of studying. I believe you have one glorious destination, which is hoping them finish their study and have one good future. But we have to remember when dealing someone who is in love. Well, love is blind, I have to admit it. And because of this, your sisters can be blinded and see nothing about your precious hope but your restriction upon them.

It does many times. It is also the similar notion in society. students are asked by elders to keep away from love as this can disturb the students' education very much. But very few are also successful in getting away nicely.