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myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers3 months ago

Hi,
During the past several months on mylot, i have made some friends on mylot. Everyday i read and respond a lot discussions from my friends, which took me most time to do that. Due to this, i care about discussions from strangers very few. How about you? Look forward to your sharing!

 
 
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jb78000 (1922) response was accepted on 11/7/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. DCLehnsherr (508)   ranked 165 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hi Sutent,

Maybe I am bad for saying this, but I care about both equally. I have heard that some people go around and just respond to the discussion their friends make, but that isn't what I do. When I come on mylot I tend to just go into my interest section discussions as they appear on the bar thing above the navigation. I find it better to go and hunt down topics that catch my eye, rather than to just go and find things from my friends. It is the same if I start things too, I don't expect my friends to just reply because I made it. In fact I would rather they didn't as it would just seem forced! That and if I focused on my old friends all the time, I could never connect with anyone else, so yea. I hold them both equally since a stranger is just a friend I have not yet made LOL w00t

All the best,
Dranz


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi friend,
At beginning, i browse through all posts from my interests and respond my favorite posts. But now, a lot posts from my friends post everyday, and from them i choose the my favorites and respond them.
By the way, i am very appreciate with the word that a stranger is just a friend i have not yet made. Maybe nextime, i would care more about discussions from stragers.
Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 89/100. Sandra1952 (1717)   ranked 2,667 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Well said, Dranz. I like to look at the interests as well, although if there's nothing in there I tend to look up friends profiles, where I know I'll usually find something to respond to.

 
2. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (2865)   ranked 600 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

I do care more about discussions from my friends because most of them respond back to my discussions. I also go to the tab 'New' once in a while and respond to some new discussions started by any random mylotter. I don't stop from responding to a discussion if I have found that the discussion is not started by my friend. I also don't respond to some of my friends discussions if the topic is not interesting.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi daliaj,
Thing goes on the same to me. I mostly browse through discussions from me and respond some of them, which were intersting to me. After that, if i have time, i would turn to the new discussions from strangers and respond those my interesting discussions.
Happy mylotting!

 
3. myLot reputation of 89/100. Binthu (3440)   ranked 569 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hi Sutent,

I always prefer to participate on my friends discussion like your
discussion instead of stranger's one, because we have the more freedom
and also known about our friends, so which is always given the pleasure
when we are participating on their discussion. Most of the times I used
to participate only on my friends discussion because of the good friendship
and also they are wishing to participate on my discussion too. It is
the mutual understanding of the good and strong friendship. So most of the
friends also would followed this method and willing to answer or comments
to friend's discussion here. Commenting to the unknown or stranger discussion
also brings to get more idea and also it is have the chance to become the
friends in the future.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi Binthu,
Thank for your care more about my discussions.
Yes, you are right. We care more about discussions from friends can defenitely benefit the friendship between us. They would turn back and care about our discussions and positive snowball rolls up. Additionally respond unknown or stranger discussions are very helpful to us. So when i browse through friends's discussions, i would search my interesting discussions to respond.

 
4. myLot reputation of 99/100. jaiho2009 (1471)   ranked 71 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Everytime i log in here in mylot,first time i do is to reply back every comment from my own topic.
Then,check my friends started topic,and respond topic that interests me.
It is not necessarily to response all my friends topic,but,i only do responses to topics i can relate with.
After then,i will search topics on other interests.

So,i give equal time to make responses to my friends and other mylotters too.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi Jaiho,
You do great to care about both discussions from friends and strangers equally. But as to me, i have no enough time to do that. So i prioritize the discussions from my friends then turn to others discussions.

 
5. myLot reputation of 93/100. msfrancisco9369 (2136)   ranked 170 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

hi sutent,
i care about mylot members' discussions. so friend or stranger i respond on to their topics as long as i am interested about it and i am confident enough that i can share good views about their topics.
i check my email for new discussions and comments from friends then browse my home page for new discussions from otehr mylot members then comment on both. after giving my comment to those mylot members not yet in my mylot friends list, i invite them to be my friend, if they accept it then i am happy. another addition to mylot's friends!


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi friend,
Comparing to you, i am not so confient about my response quaility. But i try my best to make my response special, different and personal.
At beginning, i always invite strangers to be my friends, when they responded my discussions. But now, i do that very often, as i have no more time to care about the discussions from my friends. If i invite somebody to be my friends and have no time to care about his/her discussion, i would feel unpolite.


myLot reputation of 93/100. msfrancisco9369 (2136)   ranked 170 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Just let your thoughts and feelings flow... your mylot friends will appreciate your response on their comments. like this one, i am happy that you did. for me this is a sign of appreciation and recognition of my effort to share my views on your topic.
Cheers!


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi friend,
you are right. what should we do on mylot is just sharing our personal thoughts, no matter it is good enough.
Thanks for your sharing!


myLot reputation of 93/100. msfrancisco9369 (2136)   ranked 170 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

...and this makes us feel better knowing that people are interested in what we are saying and respect our views. have a great day today and more fun discussions with mylot!

 
6. myLot reputation of 90/100. ample03 (233)   ranked 3,774 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

I have joined Mylot 2 weeks back and I am still making some friends. I always like to respond to their discussions but mostly I watch for the discussion topic, not the person. If it is a nice and contemporary topic which I can respond to, I always try to do that irrespective of who has created it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi,
at beginning, just like you, i responded discussion per the interesting, not the person. But now, i would priorize the discussions from friends then turn to others's discussions.

 
7. myLot reputation of 84/100. jb78000 (1922)   ranked 402 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

hiya. you are great about responding. i'm not so good - i don't answer all my friends discussions because i don't always have something to say. i tend to answer a mix from people i know and people i don't.
judith


myLot reputation of 97/100. thea09 (4882)   ranked 121 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

ninja


myLot reputation of 84/100. jb78000 (1922)   ranked 402 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

angry


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi jb,
You may misunderstand my discussion, as i do not respond all discussions from friends. It is impossible for me to do that. everyday, i browse the discussions from my friends, of course including your discussions and respond the interesting discussion for me.
By the way, i do care about your discussions. But unfortunately, most your discussions are politics related and prefound and i always do not know how to respond those discussions. So i just respond the easy discussions from you.


myLot reputation of 84/100. jb78000 (1922)   ranked 402 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

hiya no, don't think i did misunderstand blink. was just saying that i've noticed that you answer lots of your friends discussions thumbup and think you might be sensible to avoid the political ones...
judith


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi jb,
yes, i am sensible to avoid the political discussions. Besides, i am not intersting in polices, as it involves a lot deception and conspiracy.
Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 84/100. jb78000 (1922)   ranked 402 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  2 months ago

thankyou for the br happy

 
8. myLot reputation of 96/100. alwayzzcitra (737)   ranked 1,743 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hello sutent! Replying my friends' discussions is my priority. I check on them everytime, if there are some that interest me, I'd be sure to reply. Well, I think that's what friends here are for, to discuss things and have fun:) cheers!

 
9. myLot reputation of 92/100. akuler (1217)   ranked 2,855 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hi sutent,

I respond to both my friends and others discussions here. Since our earnings is same whether the discussions is started by our friends or others, I really don't care who started it.

Sometimes my friends started a discussion that I can't give my response because I know nothing about it. So I also didn't respond to all my friends discussions. I respond to others discussions because I have something to say there.

It is also good to answer a discussion started by someone we didn't know because we might become a good friend after that. I don't know anyone here when I first start but I had a few friends now because we communicate with each other before, just like you and me.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sutent (369)   ranked 160 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi akuler,
Have not meet you for a long time on mylot and nice to see you again!
From you posts quantities 1201, you are very active and responded a lot discussions. But as to me, everyday i spend a lot time to respond some interesting discussions from my friends and always have no time to care about the others's discussions. Whenever i have time, i would respond some discussions from strangers.

 
10. myLot reputation of 86/100. shally_hh (331)   ranked 5,687 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hi sutent,i would like to respond the new discussions,i often search some question that i am intereted in the new and my interests discussions and don't care more about whether it is started by my friends,nevertheless,certainly i will browse my friends' discussions first once i log in mylot,and in fact i spend about equally time on the discussions from my friends and strangers.

 
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