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What if you found out that your boyfriend is a gay ....? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships3 months ago

Hello again guys, I have a friend who has a problem of her boyfriend. She asked for an advise what she would do. I posted this here for us to help her.
TO start with, their (boyfriend/girlfriend) relationship is already four years 'til now. What she told me, her boyfriend is working abroad for already three years if I am not mistaken..They have already plans of getting married until she found out that her boyfriend is a gay...in fact her boyfriend confessed to her that he really is..

If this is your boyfriend would you still continue to marry him?
What would be the risk if the girl continue to marry him?
What's their future ahead specially in the case of their children?

Sorry I am not really offending any one specially on the side of our fay friends.
I just want your honest opinion on this matter cause, who knows this would happen to you or to your relatives..what will you do?

Mobhomeir

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. learn2earn (11106)   ranked 256 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Hello friend, yes homosexual was what I mean I am sorry. You're right that's the case of Sodom and Gomorrah..thanks for responding...

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. lelin1123 (4683)   ranked 5,464 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

That's right my friend. What a waste of relationship. Anyway it was better she knew it before they finally get married..thanks for responding anyway...

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. sweetyethot (1072)   ranked 1,053 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Yes that is right my friend...I pity so much my friend.As of this time I guess she started to move over...I just hope she could finally recover...thanks for responding...

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myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

I got your point my friend. Well it would be their live they would build not ours. What concerns me much are their coming children if they could have??? Thanks for your respond anyway//


myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7434)   ranked 3,134 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. jaiho2009 (1474)   ranked 583 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Hello bonita mia..that's right it is the discretion of them to continue the relationship or not. But, I advised my friend to leave the guy to avoid some "risk" in the future...there are so many things to be considered and think about if they would be getting married...I pity my friend...thnks for responding...

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6. myLot reputation of 74/100. sharlionse (245)   ranked 7,913 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

Oh.. I think I should not marry him because I know he'll not be happy with me anymore. Moreso, I should understand his feelings. If he doesn't want to marry me, I should let him go. In the first place, he confided that secret because maybe he wanted me to free him.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

You have an idea on this matter my friend..thanks for your share...thanks for responding...

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. gracefuldove (682)   ranked 6,282 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

She has to take the risks of sharing him with male lovers. AIDS is always there to infect her. She would not be able to take this kind of pressure, for sure. As such, leave the boy. It is not worth it.No future. Kaput relationship!


myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Certainly yes my friend...I got your point. Thanks for responding..

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8. myLot reputation of 71/100. chaime (900)   ranked 3,748 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Oh that was horrible!It was unbelievable. I advised my friend not to gamble the risk. If it's really so hurting for her right now I think it is better that way than facing all risk and all the consequences of having a husband who is a homosexual. Thanks for your share of experience...I appreciate that...

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. LilyoftheThorns (3831)   ranked 749 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

Well...I dont think that your friend should marry him...how is that even on the table any more after he confessed his sexuality to her? He still wants to marry her??

I don't think that it would be a healthy thing for EITHER of them to go forward with...of course they could still be friends and keep that relationships. But marriage? I don't think that is right at all.

A marriage like this...neither of them would get their personal needs...I mean, even if they cheated on each other (even if they both knew and were ok with it) it's STILL cheating in a marriage and not right...

I think the best thing for your friend to do would be break off the relationship, tell him (if it's true) that she still wants to see him as a friend...and let him know that she still cares about him and does not judge him for who he is.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Yes I think we have the same thought of my friend's problem. Thanks for that share..

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10. myLot reputation of 80/100. Rite17 (141)   ranked 10,393 out of 23,403 in relationships   3 months ago

think its best not to marry as she wouldn't be happy sexually with him and neither wouold he.. The kids will still have a dad, just have to see him at seperate times not together with mum. AS for the whole 'coming out', I thought i had that happen with a friend... but she soon changed her status again...unsure if she was joking or really had a fling with a woman... Unsure.. lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. mobhomeir (1572)   ranked 342 out of 23,403 in relationships  3 months ago

Yes you're right my friend...we have the same idea..thanks for that respond..

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