Worst Best Friends!!

you can say. even he is the best if he cares for you.
but if you are told by him or her for different things which are not good in you, what is bad in this. even your parent does the same. they care for you.
and if your friend is doing this you can talk to him or her with more comfort.
so take him or her as a boon.

Hi Zui,

First of all You have to say many thanks to your friend because she
is one of the best friends of yours and have given good advise about
the friendships. Yes it was true that most of the friends has some
types of mentality and it will be varied from friends to friends so
we have to check this from each one of your friends and then you have to
compare this with your habits, if both are cooperated the you will make
the good friends with you, otherwise just leave it. When you have the
best friends you should follows so many things in order to keep your
best and good friendship, other wise it may irritate them and then they
may leave from you. So kindly accepting your friend advise which one you
are going to follows, and which one you are going to avoid etc., in order
to maintain your good friendship with others.

Have a good day.

she's gone heterosexual and thinks of herself as your lover?! good luck with that. hopefully, you guys talk about it before it takes its toll.

Yup well at many times i have gone through this situation, its quite a irritating but the best thing is that they will always be our best friends, no matter how much she speaks whenever you get irradiated just think that if your best friend is not there the time she stops speaking you will feel lonely. My choice is whenever ver you get in this sitution jus look at ur yourself and think i have really a special person that makes me okk so i suggest jus make a try.

Generally we give our best friends some share in our otherwise personal spaces, and it's really bad they start taking it too far. Usually I take so much time to consider some one as my best friend that they get impatient and start acting like they already are... and that's when I decide 'Oh well you are NOT'. And others are really my 'best friends' (so far only one!)

I don't have any friends right now so I'd be fine with someone who also tells me what to do and what not to do eheh just because loneliness isn't something I truly enjoy. Anyway I think you should talk to your friend and tell her what you feel because not necessairly you'll hurt her feelings:) trust me, things are better said than kept inside of you for a long time;)

Well, what your best friend does is very good, as you admit yourself that your bestfriend wishes the best for you with all her heart.=) I would be very thankful if I had one like her. If I were you, I would keep her as my very best friend. And about worst best friend, hmmm, I kinda don't understand with the meaning worst here, but as I read your writing above she is not worst at all.=)

a friend should not act like that she must let you decide in your own way. she is worst than a mother.

I do understand what you aresaying because being a good friend does mean looking out for your friend and caring, and sometimes sharing your thoughts or advice, but not telling you what to do as if you cannot make a decision for yourself.

If she is a true friend who loves you, can you find a gentle way to explain how it makes you feel? She probably means it in a good way, because she cares about you, but you need to show her somehow that you understand this but need to be able to work out what to do for yourself sometimes. Maybe explain that it would give you more confidence to be able to do this for yourself, and ask her if she could help you to learn this by stepping back a little and just supporting you instead of giving advice?

I have a friend who is EXTREMELY tactless, and there is no explaining it to her! Just to give an example, we were at the house of another friend, my best friend, who is disabled and in a wheelchair. Her mother was making us a meal. The 'tactless' friend piped up with 'I'll help you in the kitchen - after all, I;ve got two good legs!' I mean, really....lol

Good luck!

I really don't agree with that. If your are getting irritated with your friends behavior then tell her, she wouldn't mind as she is your best friends. If you think that she is the worst friend then it means that she is not your best friend. She can't be both. May be you need to give her a chance to her nature by confronting her. I am pretty sure that she will understand you and things will be better again.