Do You Talk To Strangers?  |
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When you are out on the street do you speak to people who pass you by? What about when a person speaks to you>
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1. rosepedal64 (1359) | 2 months ago | Hi erikmama I do speak to people most of the time. If someone speaks to me I always speak back. The other thing that I do is if Im standing in line or something like that I will start a conversation with someone. Im a people person and I love to talk. So when I get that chance I will talk. Have a great weekend and keep smiling.
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erikmama (1933) | 2 months ago | I usually will speak if I am spoken to. It depends on where I am at sometimes. I try not to start conversations with people IO do not know though. The world is full of not so nice people it is so hard to trust people.
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rosepedal64 (1359) | 2 months ago | Yes you do have a point. I live in this small town and it is getting some bad in it too. I guess it is just a habit of mine because of the way the town use to be. Thanks for bringing that to my attention. I think maybe I might need to be a little more careful from here on out. Keep smiling.
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2. jugsjugs (3191) | 2 months ago | I tend to talk to alot of people as they walk past my house if i am out the front doing anything.They are the kind of people i do not know.I also talk to people who talk to me when i am in the pub as well as when i am going to the drs etc,i think some people are very lonely and that is why they just start talking to people that they do not know.
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erikmama (1933) | 2 months ago | Yes, I agree that some people are lonley and just need someone to talk to. I understand that, but sometimes it is really hard to know if that person has good intentions!! It is great you talk to people as they walk by your house. The world lacks friendly people, but it is so hard!
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erikmama (1933) | 2 months ago | I think it depneds on the person if it makes me uincomfortable or not. I have my moods also where I will or will not talk. It also depends on who they are and where I am at. Men a lot of times are trying to "talk" and I hate that. Then there are others who need change or something like that.
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4. Fulltank (1080) | 2 months ago | As long as the person looks decent enough to talk with. I know looks can be deceiving, but its our culture to be as friendly as possible. But when I felt that he's up to something, the best thing to do is to make a fast excuse and flee the place as fast as possible. One time, a man with a suspicious character ask me for direction. Even If I know what he is referring to, I just say no, I don't know that address.
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erikmama (1933) | 2 months ago | You're so right...if they look decent! Sometimes I have my moods where I will talk, sometimes I won't. It is scary for women nowadays to talk to people. You nevber know what the person's intentions are. But I think another myloter said it right-some people are just lonley.
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5. LovingLife139 (461) | 2 months ago | I do talk with strangers. I actually initiate it nearly 95% of the time. There were two important life lessons I learned while working in customer service from the ages of 14 to 19: 1) You can learn SO much from strangers that it makes life a little brighter, and 2) You can literally change a life by speaking to someone you don't know with kindness...especially if you're the only one who has.
I talk to employees at registers, people I'm standing in line with, I make it a point to have light conversations with my tenants (I work in real estate). I know it brightens my mood to know there are still people out there who socialize civilly; sometimes it's hard to realize with all of the rude and ignorant people out there and all of the bad headlines in the news. So if it brightens my mood, who's to say I haven't brightened someone else's?
If I meet someone's eyes even just passing by, I at least smile. I usually say "hi" but if it is inappropriate, I still smile and acknowledge their presence in a positive way. I honestly think it's quite rude not to. There are many situations where I think it's extremely rude and sometimes egotistical not to speak to a stranger, such as when someone holds a door for you. I've held open the door for many people, whether younger or older, and it's usually the older people who have a holier-than-thou mentality when a 21 year old woman holds a door. Perhaps because of the whole "elder" saying...in either case, I don't care how old you are or who your father is, a thank you or acknowledgement is expected.
For those who would rather not speak politely to people they don't know, I'd like to suggest trying to do so and seeing if you don't learn something from someone. It might surprise you. 
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erikmama (1933) | 2 months ago | You can learn a lot from others, but in this day and age it is sometimes scary to talk to people you do not know. i am friendly, but to a point. Since I live in the south we are considered rude by not speaking. I have worked in customer service also, and it is much different at work.I always thank people who have done something for me and agree it is very rude not to do so. Sometimes I will not speak to someone who starts a conversation, it all depends I guess!!
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LovingLife139 (461) | 2 months ago | While it is true that you do not know the true identity of strangers, I don't think talking to them (such as saying hi or comparing interests) is dangerous. If I were in a conversation with someone I had never seen before the present day and they asked me to get in their car with them (which would not only be a complete change of subject but suspicious), I wouldn't. I think there is a difference between talking to strangers and allowing yourself to be put into a risky situation. If I were alone on a city street, for example, I wouldn't spark up a random conversation with someone walking the other way. But also I wouldn't have put myself in that situation to begin with.
There are very bad people out there, I agree. I've tried speaking to a number of them. These are the people who ignore a friendly comment while waiting to pay at a register, do not smile back and instead glare, etc. I never pursue conversation with these people because I agree it would be dangerous to do so (you never know what caused them to be so miserable, and more words could spark anger), plus they aren't worth my time. Getting into cars with strangers or agreeing to a ride is dangerous...but I can't quite agree that being nice and saying hi is.
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