Do you look to a beatiful woman or a handsom man in the street?turn your had?
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
October 21, 2009 8:13am CST
You know that man usual like to look to a beatiful woman , and he think that is a sign that he is still alive...or a woman like when see a handsom man, even she don t recognise that she can look after a man; of course that all depend of education, depend if somebody is involved in a relation or not...but man look after a beatiful woman even he is married; i am right?
You can be honest and say if you like tto see a beatiful person , a stranger, who just pass in the street?



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15 responses
@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
22 Oct 09
I certainly do. I think it is hardwired in a man's brain to look at beautiful women. However it is not always polite or appropriate to do so, especially staring.
When you are with your woman you should show her courtesy and restrain yourself because women do not like their men staring at everyone else they want attention on themselves which is only right. It is bad manners and insulting to the one you are with.
When I look at a beautiful woman, a beautiful garden, a nice horse in the field it just means that I am appreciating the beauty that does not mean that I want to do anything about it, it is just looking.


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@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
22 Oct 09
Of course we all fantasize, it makes life interesting. If I stop looking it is time to get out the shovel and cover me with dirt. However my implication that guys can control themselves when they are are out with their honey still stands. It takes a bit of training and self control is all.



@faikeijames (247)
• United States
21 Oct 09
Sure! There's a way to do it tastefully. We're not blind, even in a relationship!
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@faikeijames (247)
• United States
22 Oct 09
Sure. Because I trust my hubby. I'm confident within myself and in our relationship. After being together for 11 years, we've reached a level of comfort and trust that I feel it's ok to look...and I look AS LONG AS IT'S NO TOUCHING! lol And then we have a problem! lol
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
21 Oct 09
If I see a beautiful woman in the street, i usually don't give another look unless she is wearing something that I would like for myself. Now, if a handsome man walks down the street, he would will definitely get a second look and a third look.
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
21 Oct 09
Isn't that what they made sunglasses for? Looking at handsome men without them knowing? Ha Ha.
@JohnJeff (720)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 09
yes, i admit.Its normal.All human beings like beautiful things.For me nothing wrong if you just turn around your head to see beautiful girl.I think it would be better if you smile to the beautiful girl.Smile just a sign that your are not bandit and show your are friendly.
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@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
I don't see anything wrong with that and besides you just looking. I do that I look to handsome guys on the street even if I'm with my boyfriend i even tell me "Hey, look there's a handsome guy there" and we will talk about why did I say it and same thing when he saw a beautiful girl along the street.
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@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
22 Oct 09
I think we all like to look at beautiful people and both men and women do it ,its just that many women may try to hide it while most men wont .In fact many men will probaly stare until it becomes annoying while a woman may steal a quick glance.I must admith though that the length of staring time for me depends on other things than just looks ,it depends on attire and her deamenour.If she is nicely attired I will stare for a longer than usual time and try to assume other things about her such as whethere she was a nice person or if she was married and might even get carried away into thinking I owuld love to get intimate with her .If she is not nicely attired I am likely to get turned off.Similarly if she is not nicely attired I will easily get turned off.I will also get turned off if she vulgar and boisterous
@Ingkingderders (3831)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
I sure do. hehehe..
When my BF and I go to malls or public places, we do take notice of beautiful girls, or handsome men who walk by us.. I mean, it's cool, cause there's really nothing to it.. I mean, we are just appreciating their beauty, and at the same time think that we wish we could look like that. hahaha.
@kelly10 (678)
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21 Oct 09
Everyone does this both consiously and subconsiously and I don't think this will ever change. People do this whether they are in a relationship or not.
Personally I don't mind my boyfriend looking, but when he really looks and it's obvious then I'm a jealous. Daft but that just me.
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
I do look at handsome guys sometimes. It depends if the guy is really handsome but sometimes I don't stare at them because I feel like maybe they will feel like I have a crush on them and that's embarassing for me. :) I don't like to look at them because I feel envy for those cute guys who have their girlfriends. Those girls are lucky!
@Ted_123 (151)
• China
21 Oct 09
Hi icesmile, you are right, I do look to beautiful girls in the street. It's a beautiful scene in the tedious daily life, why not? Actually, imo, it's not wrong to do this even in a relation, that does not mean one doesn't love his/her lover any more, everybody love something beautiful, so does girls, hehehe:)
@pandawang (40)
• China
22 Oct 09
Of course.I'm a girl and I'd like to see handsome guys,beautiful girls,every attractive person would catch my eyes.
@gemparado (71)
• New Zealand
21 Oct 09
Men, always...women, sometimes! Hahaha! This made me laugh, Icesmile! This is one of the petty things that I argue with my husband. And he always tell me, "I'm a man, baby!" Oh, well. I actually understand him doing that but if he does it while we're holding hands, I feel embarassed.
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@mohinimandokhot (184)
• India
21 Oct 09
I am married yet I like to look at beautiful people men or women just as I would look at beautiful things or flowers or Nature. God made beauty in People just as he made in things and Nature. If I admire the good looks of men; being a female, it does not mean that I have to get involved in a relationship with any one or that I am commiting a sin. I even tell my husband if I see a handsome man and both of us comment on whether he is handsome; similarly even he comments on the beauty of a woman passing by and I don't feel bad about it.



There's nothing wrong with doing so.



whistle...and this is not very polite


