Do you care if peoples talk behind you, about your personality?

No I dont care. I love who I am inside and out and if I dont I change it so. One day I will no longer know that person and they are just a person in my soon to be past. If you dont like someone you dont tlak to them or about them nor do you assoiate yoursel with them if they still do that then something with themself is messed up and everyone should be happy if talking about me would make them happy then go a head do it.

I hate gossips and gossipers. I don't care about what people talk behind me. I know about myself and I am very clear about my deeds. I think people who are insecure and who are lazy talks bad things behind people. If somebody takes things like this to my notice, I just ignore that. If there is a important point in their talk, I will try to change myself if I am very sure that it is required.

thats what you call the " back fighters!" they just talk whenever your not around.
for me, it's no way! Im always get upset and mad if there's someone talking about me. Im affected and keep on thiking why and why did they say that something to me. Usually I try to isolate myself to avoid them.

I can't agree with you anymore.

It is really common that there are some people who just talk behind you. Although you have always performed perfectly in your daily life, several people will say something bad about us all the same. Everyday, I will meet such a situation and sometimes my friendswill tell me about that. But I have never pay attention to this kind of people and what they have said about me.

It is a waste of time if people lay too much emphasis on what other people talk behind you.

At one point in my life, I feel strongly if other people talk behind my back. I detest it totally. I just feel that it is a disrespect when other people do that. But then, I recently thought that I would just wasting my time thinking of what other people are saying of me. I learned to ignore them because and not to care of what they are thinking and saying of me.

Hi there Ice Smile my dear native friend. I think i am like you in this matter, in the sense that i do get a bit affected about their talks, as I am a little bothered by people judging me without really knowing me, but i guess that there is nothing that i can do about this, and i certainly don't plan to act to their pleasing. Now don't get me wrong, i am not a fanatic of any music genre/ style so it's not me who is the problem;).

If 2 people talk behind my back? Hm, well it's their problem, and i prefer not to hear them talk... and of course i will change my opinion about them into bad.

At this stage in my life, no i dont care....I've been through far too much and came out on top, I KNOW I'm a good woman, a solid person and an excellent mother, wife and friend so if ppl feel the need to natter about me behind my back it only says they are miserable, jealous and dont know me very well....I've no time for grade school drama nor do I have any desire to be a part of it or let it affect me..

I can't say that I care if people talk about me behind my back. They are the one with a problem if they do that and who needs them! And since they are that kind of people, then I seriously doubt if I like them anyway so, who cares what people I don't like are saying about me when I'm not around? The only problem that I can see is if they are lying about you behind your back. That could be a problem on the job, I did find that out the hard way.

I do not pay any attention to what others say about me. if it is behind my back then it really means even less. If they can't come to my face and tell me if they have a problem with me all that makes them is a coward in my eyes.

Hi Icesmile,

I dont care if peoples talk behind me, Its a waste of time according to me, For people those who dont have any work to do they do it. They come to us and speak about the other person and go to the other person and tell something on us. Its better to avoid such king of people. we should not entertain them.