Drinks in the party, is it normal?

Hello jenn,

Oh i see so it is what almost everyone does. Most parties that I have attended so far had drinks too but I do not drink at all. I guess others might say that I am so boring and so uninterested.
Thanks for the share.

Hello myname..Yeah i guess it totally depends on your value. Well I still have my minds open about drinking. I know some are using it for healthy purposes. I believe it also depends upon the motive why you drink.

Oh friend,

Sorry if I've mistaken you,
If any one takes drinks for health purposes, That will be regular...!
That doesn't need to be in Party...!

I'm not much aware of this, For what health issues do they take drinks...?

My sister told me that most people have drinks in the party not for getting drunk or something but as a part of healthy living.Wine has been shown to reduce the risk of heart disease, certain cancers and slow the progression of neurological degenerative disorders like Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s Disease.But only of course if you drink only for what is recommended for your body.

Hmmm, Thats a very good piece of information to me,
But beware, There are 99% of people say reasons for their mistakes...!
Hope your sister is not like that...!
I'm afraid whether she can be in her control,
When ever people go to party they drink too much and go out their control..!
Too much of anything is not good for Nothing...!
Even for healthy issues it should be in limits I think...!
:-)

Yeah of course.Sister is already a grown up.I believe she knows what she is doing.

Oh, That's good to hear,
You really trust your sister,
It's getting hard to trust on people nowadays...!

Your sister is so lucky...!
I would wish to be your sister but that's impossible,

Me too lucky, there are a few members in my family who trusts me completely,
I'll never loose their trust...!

Oh yes of course because she is my sister.And she is a great person for me.And we do trust each other in the family.

Hello Crimson. I am absolutely thinking just the way as you do. I have been all the way with my friends and people I have meet form my past. When I was in college, my classmates would force me to drink. And I will not drink so that will make them hesitant about me thinking I was kind of different and I am a hard person to be with.
But growing up, I realize that it is normal only not to the point of getting drunk.I have meet people who use it for healthy living. So it totally depends upon the purpose of drinking.

Hi CrimsonRain,

Oh what a great person,
If all that you said is true...!
Then Me too wanted to be like you,
Me too like you only, But when some of my best peoples compel, I give up...!

Hello dear deepak. I don't feel any comfort in drinking whether in public or private places. Maybe because I grew up without any of this things around me.What I really thought is a little alcohol in the body is good for the health. But most people abuse it.Some of my friends(boy) are really happy when there is a party because for sure they will end up drinking lots and lots of beers again.

It is good that you do not feel like taking alcohol because of your upbringing. If your male friends/known to person feel like taking beer in parties, let them enjoy, because it their lives. You see you cannot tell them it is bad for them, because they won't understand it.

Yeah and the thought that they are happy doing it, you cannot really tell them to stop.You have to let them enjoy their happiness by drinking.

They (those who take hard drinks) belong to a separte category and they feel happy in each others' company.

Hello bong,
It's good to know you have self-discipline when it comes to drinking. Some men don't care at all as long as they are having fun with what they have been doing. Well as long as they do not cause anything harmful, it is fine.

Hello checkmail. Even in the past history about the bible, people used to have wines in festivals. But well, I guess those wines are really pure and no chemicals.
Some of my friends too say that a party without drinks is really boring. I wonder why because me I do not drink but still I do not find it boring.

Hello nautilus.Yeah i believe too that it is not that important but maybe only for people like us who does not appreciate drinking a lot. I do not even drink wines in party. Only a glass of it is not bad.

Hello bluepatch.I am interested about that homemade wine.What do you put in the wine?I have a friend who loved making homemade wine too.She adds pineapple and soft drink with the wine. I have tasted it, it's good but it tastes acrid for me.

Hello neil.Nice new avatar you have there.
Well, you got a pretty nice way of excusing yourself from drinking and leaving those who still enjoy drinking. I always wonder why most people need to take drinks before getting comfortable sharing with other people. Hubby told me that drinking makes the conversation even deeper and more interesting.
Well of course girls can always do that even without drinks.

there are some points why i really stop drinking if i can stop. your hubby said that drinking makes the conversation even deeper and more interesting? yes, it's true, but there are conversations that end in heated arguments that will eventually ended in a fight, worse, is when someone gets hurt. i have a lot of experiences or i witnessed a lot of troubles which started in drinking sessions. if we can control drinking in the earliest possible time, we stop.

there were some times also in the past, that i got so drunk and on the next day, i never know what i did or i forgot almost everything.

one time, we went to a part in a disco house, with my in-laws. i was too drunk. i never remember doing this and that. i only believed them when i saw the video the took on me, what a shame.

one time, again, i drove home relatives who came to party with us. and on the next day, i asked my wife, "what time did we got home, and who sent cousins back to their home?" i was so scared when i knew from her, that i was the one who drove them home with the cab.

my brother-in-law is a bailed accused for stubbing his drinking buddy. they were drinking, chatting, and later on, my BIL gets the knife and hit his buddy 3 times in the body, almost killed him.

so, that's it. i am afraid to drink more of what i can handle, what my body and mind can take. i am afraid not only for myself, but also for my wife and the kids.

about my new avatar? it's my youngest son. he's the one who is always in my posts regarding sleep apnea and snoring.

Hello neil, lol i had a laugh when I read about the video.Why what did you do in that video?Hopefully not a scandal huh?
You are so true that conversations like that can also end up in a heated argument or even fights. That is so scary of you to now remember what you did when you are drunk. I guess you don't drink much to avoid any accidents.Most car accidents nowadays are caused by drunk drivers. And the sad part is that they are not only taking out their lives but also the lives of the innocent people too.
So that is your son who had an apnea.I hope he will get better soon.

Hello nrtan,
You are exactly like my bestfriends. One time she tried to drink alcohol for the sake of getting to know how it taste like, after having 2-3 glasses, she turned red and she has this rashes all over her neck and she keeps on talking and talking in English.
From that moment she does not bother herself from drinking again.

2-3 glasses?=P that's more than enough. lol. I only had a few sips and my heart started to palpitate.