What would you do if an ex of your partner reacts to you here in mylot?

Hi, Laydee!
It has happened, and it gave me the creeps! I no longer go to that site at all.

..well, for me I would just let the response pass.. What is the use of disclosing that you are in a relation ship with her ex..? I think it will just hurt her feelings and it is not very good.. Most especially if she still love your partner.. And if you made a mistake in disclosing your relationship, there is a possibility that you could develop a gap between that person and you.. of course we are online but unexpected things happen sometimes.. What do we know, maybe someday you will meet her accidentally.. Better yet, you help her by giving advice on what she should do to forget the guy.. This way, you are helping the person not hurting her more.. I hope this helps.. happy mylotting..

Hi laydee,

I go for the 2nd option. A discussion is open to all. And respect should be applied. Hypothetically, if that happens, I will respect what ever the response was since it was her experience, anyway...

Happy Day!

To be honest if anything i would think that it was funny,i would not react to this as i think perhaps that is the kind of reaction they were waiting for so i would ignore it.However i would see what all the responses were just for a laugh.

I have never experienced it. But if I experienced it, then I will give some clue.

hi laydee,

I will change my avatar haha! Or I will cover my face on my photo like the ninja emoticon. hehe!

Seriously, that is something that I would declare the "weirdest thing" online. Haha. Of all the places..huh?! That's creepy!lol. But as long as shes saying the truth and she really meant what she said about my partner then, that would be fine. And after all, that's her story not mine, so as part of the forum I will express my thoughts about the topic she created. And I think knowing the truth wont hurt, it may hurt us a little but, who took home the bacon anyway?! lol... so I just be as normal as i can be and do the things i do on the forum.

Happy mylotting! Nice topic!!

I would be hypocrite if i would say i won't feel jealous.But being with the person currently would mean forgetting what they had in the past.She might still have feelings for him but the fact that shes with him and not her anymore what she said would be not a big deal.

...if his/her response or story is offensive, i'll be devastated...maybe i'll send email to mylot admi..."this will hit the top", LOL!!

Wow that seems to be fun, i will comment again in his post but i wont reveal my identity.

I just ignored her because I have the right to post anything here.I will treat her nicely if she treat me nice.I won't bother then if she's messing.