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Is it so hard to say "Sorry"?? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life2 months ago

Sorry seems to be the hardest word..as what the song would say. But for me, it isn't. I could easily say sorry if I know for a fact that it's my fault and it would definitely ease the tension between two people. But it doesn't mean that if that someone say sorry the other party would immediately forgive the person...Forgiveness is hard, right?? But let us realize that GOD easily forgives and forgets.

Anyway, why is it so hard for other people to say sorry if they've done something wrong?? Is it their pride that's pushing them not to utter those words??

I have a friend of mine who can't say sorry. It's really obvious that it is his fault but then he just walk away without uttering those word...and the next day, he just pretended that nothing happen...

Do you guys say sorry immediately??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. BART78 (1253)   ranked 9,143 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

...i often say sorry if it's my fault and i really mean it when i say it, but sometimes i go against my rules, i also say sorry even it's not my fault just for the sake of to stop the issue or to turn off the flame...:-)


myLot reputation of 90/100. vhinzstrife (537)   ranked 11,198 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Hayz yeah that's true same here i feel yah! even if it's my partners fault i would still say sorry just to make her say something>. < and stop sulking.... oh well


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Me too, I do say sorry even if it's not my fault just tos top the arguments or tension. I know it's bad but I don't want to make the argument even more worse.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. ybong007 (1064)   ranked 895 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

It's pretty easy to say sorry for petty things, but it's a different thing or it's rather difficult to say sorry if it's not your fault, that I can understand. If a person will not say sorry because of pride, then I would certainly avoid that type of person. Cheers!


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Yeah, it's really hard if it's not our fault..but for me, to not make the argument even worst I will just say sorry for this tension to end..

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3. myLot reputation of 71/100. nijolechu (617)   ranked 10,258 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

I guess for some people sorry would be hard to say. Because they would think they are right in their position and don't have to apologize for anything. I for one, apologize and say sorry if I made a mistake or accidentally did something wrong. Its just the right thing to do.


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Yeah, it's the right thing to do actually and we should always bear in mind that it's not hard to say sorry if it's our fault...

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. bluray (324)   ranked 4,535 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

I dont think there is any harm in saying sorry if you really feel so.nobody goes small or big by saying sorry .i think it is a nice gesture and only improves the relation and misunderstanding.sometimes our pride get in our way but we should push ourselves .


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Yeah, there's really no harm in saying or uttering this words. I mean, for me, it doesn't put my pride in harm...

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (18008)   ranked 1,884 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

For me personally saying sorry when its needed by me is NOT hard to do at all...but yes for so many others it really does seem like a task doesnt it..Reason being IMO is pride...the general public really hates to be wrong let alone actually admit it by apologizing..


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Yeah, I do agree...But why there are people find it difficult to say sorry?? I mean, it's seems like they are loosing their pride??

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. cheriezhao (177)   ranked 16,202 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

yeah i don't think it's hard to say sorry,for example,if i step on someone's foot remissly on the bus,i would say sorry immediately,if there's some litte contradictions between me and my friends,i would take some time to reflect myself,if it is my fault,i would say sorry to him when i get a good chance.


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Sorry may not seem to be the hardest, right?? It's great to know that sorry is not hard for you...

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. LdeL0318 (509)   ranked 13,161 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

Not for me. I can easily say sorry. That is when I know I am really wrong for having to do so. But then I also don't like those people who keeps on saying sorry even if they did nothing wrong. I guess you should only say it if necessary.


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Yeah, it's annoying also if that person keep on saying sorry....Once is enough for me.

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8. leincakep (60)   2 months ago

Maybe not everyone is easy to say sorry, even though it proved a mistake. Feelings of shame and pride, may be an obstacle for someone to say sorry. If someone has a sincere, should not something that is difficult to say sorry.


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

So, are you one of them Lein?? Like, it's hard for you to say sorry even though it's obvious that it's your fault??


leincakep (60)  2 months ago

I'm not included as they are, who are hard to say sorry, even though it made a mistake. If I make a mistake, of course, I will say sorry.


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Nice to hear that you are not like those people. Hope people will realize how important this world..

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. charmz1005 (372)   ranked 1,980 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

I only say sorry if I know for a fact that it's my fault. If not, I'll defend what I know is right. But in cases like we've had an argument with my girlfriend, I'll be the one to say sorry even if it's not my fault. Lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Usually in a relationship...the boy is the one who will always say sorry even if he is not their fault.... happyhappy...My boyfriend do that, too...

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. buping (560)   ranked 5,534 out of 38,461 in life   2 months ago

hi joannaleed, i am easy to say sorry and apologize if i think it is my fault. i think most girls are easy to say sorry coz we do not think it means anything if we say sorry. but most guys won't apologize even they know they ever did something wrong. i think we need a harmonious society so we have to do something to compensate when we did something wrong.:)


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

It's really hard for guys to say sorry...and I think because it will lessen their pride...But definitely, there is nothing wrong to saying sorry, right??


xianthinne (45)   ranked 7,446 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

Sayin' sorry to people i've done wrong is easy for me as long as i know i also mistaken...but even if its not my fault i myself say sorry for them just to bring their trust back to me...of couse its very awkward to feel like you both not in the same atmosphere! especially for your best friend, oh! it really feel me so sad if my friend get angry...


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1935)   ranked 366 out of 38,461 in life  2 months ago

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