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myLot reputation of 95/100. snowdoll487 (414)   ranked 1,019 out of 11,885 in love2 months ago

I wonder if nowadays its acceptable for guys if the girls will be the first to propose than just waiting around for their men to propose?or would it freak you out?Opinion anyone?


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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. learn2earn (10914)   ranked 705 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

Well, it has been accepted already by many people. I think that any between the men and the women can make a bold move of proposing to their dearly beloved without much fuss from other people. But of course, it would be better for the man to do the honor of proposing to the girl. If it can't be done, then women usually take the initiative to show some motives. wub


myLot reputation of 95/100. snowdoll487 (414)   ranked 1,019 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Ha ha ha wouldn't you guys feel embarrass if girls do so? I mean the proposing? thanks for participating learn2learn:)


myLot reputation of 92/100. learn2earn (10914)   ranked 705 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Girls doing the proposing would be a welcome respite to those guys like me who are shy and cannot muster enough courage to tell the girl how sweet their love is. wubblush

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2. myLot reputation of 73/100. iwrite (778)   ranked 10,023 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

well snowdoll487,

You know what, that would be my wildest dream come true to have a woman of my dream propose to me on one bend knee. I always tell my wife, why should the guy be the one doing that. Times have changed, it is time for the guys to be pampered.


myLot reputation of 95/100. snowdoll487 (414)   ranked 1,019 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

hahaha but that would be too embarrassing for girls to do, ayt? And i'm probably sure the guy would be bragging about it too much. Even just the thought of buying the proposal ring makes my face turn all red @_@ gawd. haha thanks for participating iwrite..:)

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. markmoney (559)   ranked 5,062 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

It's ok, at least they are true to themselves. But of course, like men, they can also be rejected, so they should be ready to accept whatever outcome will be. But I still believe that the proposal move is still for the guys. Guys should be the one taking the hardwork. Because if the guy easily gets the girl, the tendency is to take the girl for granted and treat them lightly and not that serious because the guy know that the girl is running for him. Hmmm.. I think I will change my answer, for me, it will not be ok for the girls to propose. It should be done by the guys. That is still the ideal situation. Nice topic! Happy myLotting! cool


myLot reputation of 95/100. snowdoll487 (414)   ranked 1,019 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

hi markmoney:) just in case your girl would propose to you, would you have the heart to reject her proposal in front of a crowd?:P Thanks for participating btw. Happy mylotting too:)


myLot reputation of 95/100. markmoney (559)   ranked 5,062 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

If I really like and love the girl and ready to commit myself to her, this is what I would do in the situation you have given. So we are in front of the crowd and let's say her one knee is bended and doing proposal to me, what I will do is, I will let her stand and I will be the one who will bend one knee and reverse the proposal. So what will happen is I will still be the one do the proposal. Happy myLotting! cool

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1100)   ranked 2,139 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

Yeah,.... they should start it right now. wub..as men are ready to say yes as they are really kind and will never let down the girls as girls do....they are ready to appreciate it and they are fine with any girl most of the time...men are unbelievable. rolleyes..what a fine creature.... cool


myLot reputation of 95/100. snowdoll487 (414)   ranked 1,019 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

hahaha hi misterwit, so you say its ok for you if your girl propose to you? don't you think thats being too liberated or something? or kinda degrading for girls in some aspect?:) thanks for participating Misterwit


myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1100)   ranked 2,139 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

No not at all............. I am an activist who is fighting for women's right. cool..women should have full right to ask first...and any man who reject this should stay away from women... doh

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5. huangdangwu (78)   ranked 11,470 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

hi~ my friend~ aha,that's a interesting question~ i've read a book about the creature on the earth,and it have talked about the relationship between male and female . and it says the male is always the active one during the courship . it's the nature, but in my eyes, i think it's ok for me if a girl propose to me, hahaha,but the premise is we love each other . if it was you,would you propose to you guy? have a nice day~! and hope you could find your prince charming!~

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. therisingsun (305)   ranked 6,235 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

Well, if any girl proposes a guy, he generally never refuses if he doesn't know much about the girl. But suppose if he know the girl, he may reject the proposal also which depends upon his mind about the girl what he made the psychology. But telling someone that really you love the person is the thing one must do. If you won't ask him about his feelings, how would you find the love which is of yours?

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7. adrian_uk (25)   2 months ago

would be very nice, i'm interested if is any girl free to do this

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